Ok so im a virgin, female nearly age 28 and not only am i concerned about the social stigma attached to it but I never feel the urge to have sex. I mean I can get turned on by men i have crushes with but actual intercourse would just hurt and not be pleasant (dont ask how i know lol). Ive never had a proper boyfriend ive just been focused on sports and my job all my life ie been quite a loner. I often wonder why girls enjoy intercourse as the closeness of someone i liked might be enough to turn me on. Like i tend to get crushes on much older men (but never tell them im really shy) and when they touch me for example squeeze my shoulders in a playful way I'l get really turned on.
I dont know whats wrong with me why dont i have the urge to have sex with someone I can 'go all the way' in terms of being turned on but its not the thought of intercourse that does it.
Ive always accepted myself for how i am but comparing myself to other people it doesnt make sense why im like this. I dont really get male attention.
Still a virgin but am I still normal?
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What is normal?
However I would just say that intercourse may be painful the first few times (although it wasnt for me) but you would learn to perhaps enjoy it.
I don't know what more to say though because I know that this is something about you. I don't really know what more to say to help you. It's good to see you have accepted yourself but it's sad to see you're also questioning it.
its perfectly normal to feel like this and there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 28, honestly there is no rush
when it happens it happens, there no rush at all, so don't be worried
hope this helps
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