(Original post by TranceEnergy1989)
Basically i was just thinking about this and decided to make a thread, it has been apparent for a while, in my case that you cannot leave things up to girls.
What i mean by this is things like meeting up, like with me im straight forward, im usually the one to arrange dates and times etc and will keep to them.
What i have noticed however is that even with many different girls, if you leave meeting up to them...it never happens.
I mean it seems the guy has to arrange stuff all the time or you would be waiting around forever for her to do it.
The worst of the worst you can hear from a girl is "I'll let you know"...horrible to hear as a guy, it usually pertains to meeting up or when you can ring them.
Like a few examples:
I asked a girl, well a few times if i could ring her...in the past it has been fine and she picked up all the time etc...however for like the past year or so she has been evasive when i ask to ring and generally gives the answer "i'll let you know whens good"..safe to say she doesnt.
She also the other day when she randomly text me i said to her it would be nice to go out around London with her at some point, she said "i'll have to arrange something"....but i get the feeling nothing will happen unless i, myself keep bringing it up, which in turn makes me look desperate
Another girl, who is my ex...who i havent seen in years, i said i was interested in meeting up, she seemed the same.
But i seemed to be the one asking all the time
..safe to say it hasnt happened yet, so i took the 'leave it up to her to not look desperate' angle, she said she would..safe to say like 4 months later i havent heard anything.
These are not isolated cases, but i dont understand it..i dont like to keep asking as i look desperate but if i dont we will never, ever meet up as they never offer to.
i said let me know when you can meet up and over 4 months have passed which is ridiculous..no one is that busy! i refuse to believe its to do with that.
It makes me feel down because i feel unworthy of a girls time...emasculating almost.
What do you lot think of this? im sure many of you have the same or similar experiences
If a girl says "i'll let you know" you are basically boned.