(Original post by amyshamblesxx)
I'm a 34B so my boobs are in no way huge and when I was around 16 or 17 (I'm 25 now), I felt very similar to how you did. How old are you?
First of all, a man is not going to pick a girl with big boobs over a girl with a smaller chest. Men don't pick their partners based on their bra size, and any man that does is seriously not worth your time. I know you're reading this and thinking it's all bull****, but believe me, it isn't. Imagine you did have large breasts. Would you really
want to be with a guy that was solely going out with you because he found your breasts aesthetically pleasing? Is that the kind of person you want to have a loving relationship with?
I know it's difficult when you see lad's mags that are all "BIG BOOBS IS WHAT MEN WANT!!11!!" but that really isn't how the real world works. I have never struggled to find a boyfriend or maintain a relationship and my boobs are tiny. An important thing to remember is confidence is key. When I was a teenager, I hated my breasts and would hardly ever let my boyfriend at the time see them. We are friends now and he told me a few years ago that my breasts never turned him off, but my lack of confidence did.
The problem here is not your boobs, but your lack of confidence. You should be proud of yourself and love yourself. Not everyone has big boobs, but what about your ass or legs? What about other features you have that will attract the opposite sex?
I've been with my boyfriend 1.5 years and he has never complained about my chest, and neither have I. I don't want to turn him off by whinging about my bra size, he wouldn't find that sexy and I don't need re-assurance over something I can't control and has no bearing on me as a person or a woman.
Please feel free to PM me, honestly I really hate the thought of girls feeling the way I did, it's so unneccessary and I'd really like to help if I can!
Oh and as wh0re-ish as this sounds, when I subscribed to this forum, I posted a picture of myself in my new bra and knickers in a thread that only other subscribers could see. It got over 20 pos reps. Not bad for a flat chested girl right? What I'm saying is, you can still be sexy whatever your bra size. So chin up!