[Anonymous]

I'll be honest. I grew up a nerd, unpopular and what have you.

I am on the verge of a training contract with one of the biggest law firms in the world, I am virtually guaranteed an offer of postgrad law study at a top 3 traditionally prestigious English Law school. I have got to the point of physical development where I am hotter than the vast majority of guys.

I have women throwing themselves at me in daytime and in clubs. (I enjoy the attention, but I rather **** prostitutes/escorts because i am terrible with actually pulling a girl)

Yet, I hate people in general, I hate men and women and the whole rat race. But I just want to win. Yes, my younger days have profoundly affected me, but tbh being a stuck up **** is just the best way to be tbh. If someone is like that to me, at least they are honest.

So, yes, i admit i have problems, in that i'm also exceedingly lonely but hate the vast majority of people i come across.

I am exceedingly successful when it comes to my businesses (affiliate marketing, networking, property investment in China) but I just cba with the trivialities of people. But, what i want is to meet like minded people.

[foolscap]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I'll be honest. I grew up a nerd, unpopular and what have you.

I am on the verge of a training contract with one of the biggest law firms in the world, I am virtually guaranteed an offer of postgrad law study at a top 3 traditionally prestigious English Law school. I have got to the point of physical development where I am hotter than the vast majority of guys.

I have women throwing themselves at me in daytime and in clubs. (I enjoy the attention, but I rather **** prostitutes/escorts because i am terrible with actually pulling a girl)

Yet, I hate people in general, I hate men and women and the whole rat race. But I just want to win. Yes, my younger days have profoundly affected me, but tbh being a stuck up **** is just the best way to be tbh. If someone is like that to me, at least they are honest.

So, yes, i admit i have problems, in that i'm also exceedingly lonely but hate the vast majority of people i come across.

I am exceedingly successful when it comes to my businesses (affiliate marketing, networking, property investment in China) but I just cba with the trivialities of people. But, what i want is to meet like minded people.

I hate people too. Lets be friends.

I have 2 pieces of advice for you sir:
A) Let the chip on your shoulder go, and relax, you have done well for yourself and are on the verge of beginning a very successful life.
B) Become more confident in yourself, and better at pulling women, then you might enjoy yourself more.
C) Confidence will take you very far in life, being stuck up however I feel is taking this a little too far, it is likely this will put many people off you.

[outOfFayz]

You'll find people who are 'like minded' will hate you too.

[Dark Horse]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I'll be honest. I grew up a nerd, unpopular and what have you.

I am on the verge of a training contract with one of the biggest law firms in the world, I am virtually guaranteed an offer of postgrad law study at a top 3 traditionally prestigious English Law school. I have got to the point of physical development where I am hotter than the vast majority of guys.

I have women throwing themselves at me in daytime and in clubs. (I enjoy the attention, but I rather **** prostitutes/escorts because i am terrible with actually pulling a girl)

Yet, I hate people in general, I hate men and women and the whole rat race. But I just want to win. Yes, my younger days have profoundly affected me, but tbh being a stuck up **** is just the best way to be tbh. If someone is like that to me, at least they are honest.

So, yes, i admit i have problems, in that i'm also exceedingly lonely but hate the vast majority of people i come across.

I am exceedingly successful when it comes to my businesses (affiliate marketing, networking, property investment in China) but I just cba with the trivialities of people. But, what i want is to meet like minded people.

For what it's worth - I think you're going about things the wrong way. Hope this helps.

[Spontogical]

I only hope that when you get to 50; you don't start regretting your persona and the way you treat others/yourself.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Spontogical)
I only hope that when you get to 50; you don't start regretting your persona and the way you treat others/yourself.

You've got to be this way in life, otherwise you just get your feelings hurt by so called friends and women. And your work suffers as a result. If you're unfortunate like me and have a negative family, you also do it to stick the middle finger up at them.

[Spontogical]

(Original post by Anonymous)
You've got to be this way in life, otherwise you just get your feelings hurt by so called friends and women. And your work suffers as a result. If you're unfortunate like me and have a negative family, you also do it to stick the middle finger up at them.

Well I agree to a certain extent, and I have had similar thoughts myself about approaching life this way. I were in similar circumstances quite a while back, and I came to the decision that no matter what I do, I will always never let go of my principles and values. I will treat people with respect as individuals etc. When it comes to friends and women though; I choose very very carefully, I've been hurt before like you have and I won't let myself get back into that position. From this year I'm also starting my own affiliate marketing/online marketing business too.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Spontogical)
Well I agree to a certain extent, and I have had similar thoughts myself about approaching life this way. I were in similar circumstances quite a while back, and I came to the decision that no matter what I do, I will always never let go of my principles and values. I will treat people with respect as individuals etc. When it comes to friends and women though; I choose very very carefully, I've been hurt before like you have and I won't let myself get back into that position. From this year I'm also starting my own affiliate marketing/online marketing business too.

Work hard. Work very hard. It is all worth it in the end.

[Agenda Suicide]

I don't get the bitterness. You've come up against all odds. Shown the world you're a winner and not a loser and even managed to come out of a crap family or so you say.

You should be happy, you should love inspiring others to be the same and helping them out, otherwise you turn into the user, abuser and the people that you hate.

[Dark Horse]

(Original post by Anonymous)
You've got to be this way in life, otherwise you just get your feelings hurt by so called friends and women. And your work suffers as a result. If you're unfortunate like me and have a negative family, you also do it to stick the middle finger up at them.

You're family are negative how? Could possibly relate to this part.

[Chad_Bronson]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I'll be honest. I grew up a nerd, unpopular and what have you.

I am on the verge of a training contract with one of the biggest law firms in the world, I am virtually guaranteed an offer of postgrad law study at a top 3 traditionally prestigious English Law school. I have got to the point of physical development where I am hotter than the vast majority of guys.

I have women throwing themselves at me in daytime and in clubs. (I enjoy the attention, but I rather **** prostitutes/escorts because i am terrible with actually pulling a girl)

Yet, I hate people in general, I hate men and women and the whole rat race. But I just want to win. Yes, my younger days have profoundly affected me, but tbh being a stuck up **** is just the best way to be tbh. If someone is like that to me, at least they are honest.

So, yes, i admit i have problems, in that i'm also exceedingly lonely but hate the vast majority of people i come across.

I am exceedingly successful when it comes to my businesses (affiliate marketing, networking, property investment in China) but I just cba with the trivialities of people. But, what i want is to meet like minded people.

Please, why are you on this thread? People don't like arrogance, boasting, or as you call it being 'stuck up', and that might explain why you're lonely. Not to have a go at you dude, but what goes around comes around - if you're nice to others, they will be nice to you.

To prove a point, a friend of mine is incredibly haughty - and actually stated nobody likes her in college (because of how she is). Yet, I have people telling me in the street, telling me that I'm awesome guy and that they like me. Why? I'm not quite sure, but it does at least say something to me.

[brunettegirl92]

if you're being stuck up and hate people, you can hardly complain about being lonely.
and i was bullied terribly at school, and although i am sucessful, i'm not an arse about it, so thats no excuse to be stuck-up or hateful.
also like minded people (people who hate people) will hate you too because you are a person.
also if you are an ********, the only girls u'll get will want you for your money, the ones who like personality (unless they are attracted to people with their head up their backside - rare) won't touch you with a barge pole.

[hiding12]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I'll be honest. I grew up a nerd, unpopular and what have you.

I am on the verge of a training contract with one of the biggest law firms in the world, I am virtually guaranteed an offer of postgrad law study at a top 3 traditionally prestigious English Law school. I have got to the point of physical development where I am hotter than the vast majority of guys.

I have women throwing themselves at me in daytime and in clubs. (I enjoy the attention, but I rather **** prostitutes/escorts because i am terrible with actually pulling a girl)

Yet, I hate people in general, I hate men and women and the whole rat race. But I just want to win. Yes, my younger days have profoundly affected me, but tbh being a stuck up **** is just the best way to be tbh. If someone is like that to me, at least they are honest.

So, yes, i admit i have problems, in that i'm also exceedingly lonely but hate the vast majority of people i come across.

I am exceedingly successful when it comes to my businesses (affiliate marketing, networking, property investment in China) but I just cba with the trivialities of people. But, what i want is to meet like minded people.

big ****ing deal, there is always someone who is richer/more intelligent/better looking etc. than you so big whooop. Money won't bring you happiness, it often makes people more unhappy. Maybe you should work on your attitude a bit

[hiding12]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I'll be honest. I grew up a nerd, unpopular and what have you.

I am on the verge of a training contract with one of the biggest law firms in the world, I am virtually guaranteed an offer of postgrad law study at a top 3 traditionally prestigious English Law school. I have got to the point of physical development where I am hotter than the vast majority of guys.

I have women throwing themselves at me in daytime and in clubs. (I enjoy the attention, but I rather **** prostitutes/escorts because i am terrible with actually pulling a girl)

Yet, I hate people in general, I hate men and women and the whole rat race. But I just want to win. Yes, my younger days have profoundly affected me, but tbh being a stuck up **** is just the best way to be tbh. If someone is like that to me, at least they are honest.

So, yes, i admit i have problems, in that i'm also exceedingly lonely but hate the vast majority of people i come across.

I am exceedingly successful when it comes to my businesses (affiliate marketing, networking, property investment in China) but I just cba with the trivialities of people. But, what i want is to meet like minded people.

Oh yeah, and there are a lot of successful people who aren't stuck up, its almost like you're using it as an excuse

[forgetamine]

Chill out man, don't be so negative. I don't like people that much either but they're gonna hate you too if you're stuck up. Being lonely isn't fun, there's a lot of nice people out there but you won't find them with that attitude.

[Anonymous]

Hey OP i can relate to you little. I bhit the gym and went from a scrawny little malnourished kid to a sculpted guy (facially at least)
I'm the kind of nice guy but not a pushover and i dont really like treating people like **** because it's not me and it takes a lot of effort.
Being a d i c k might give you a little pleasure but in the long run it's really not worth it. What are you hoping to achieve by it? Isn't it time you moved on with your life and stopped living in the past?
I too get girls throwing themselves at me in clubs and i get plenty of stares but most of the time i'm usually not that interested and i'm also shy and whatnot.
The point is be nice to people. It feels amazing to have friends and people that care about you.

[X_mark_the_spot]

(Original post by Agenda Suicide)
I don't get the bitterness. You've come up against all odds. Shown the world you're a winner and not a loser and even managed to come out of a crap family or so you say.

You should be happy, you should love inspiring others to be the same and helping them out, otherwise you turn into the user, abuser and the people that you hate.

No, it doesn't work that way. I get exactly what the OP is feeling. Essentially, the same people that rejected you and wouldn't give you the time of day, now want to be your friend because you're successful and attractive. Would you just turn around and trust them and give them your time? And you know how you know that they're the same people who would have rejected you? Because they reject and scorn people who are still like you (used to be); the ones who didn't make the transformation. How could anyone who has been there, forgive such shallow people?

OP, forgive the platitude, but hate "is like drinking poison and hoping the other person will die". It'll eat away at you slowly. There comes a time when you have to let go. This is not to say that you must let shallow goons into your life or give them the time of day. Rather, a little discretion is required to get to know the people out there that are genuinely kind and non-judgmental. You won't find them, however, if you approach life with your current mentality. Btw, I'm somewhat like you, but the female version. But it has been a while for me, and I'm starting to learn to trust people, and to allow them to prove themselves rather than writing them off immediately.

[hiding12]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Hey OP i can relate to you little. I bhit the gym and went from a scrawny little malnourished kid to a sculpted guy (facially at least)
I'm the kind of nice guy but not a pushover and i dont really like treating people like **** because it's not me and it takes a lot of effort.
Being a d i c k might give you a little pleasure but in the long run it's really not worth it. What are you hoping to achieve by it? Isn't it time you moved on with your life and stopped living in the past?
I too get girls throwing themselves at me in clubs and i get plenty of stares but most of the time i'm usually not that interested and i'm also shy and whatnot.
The point is be nice to people. It feels amazing to have friends and people that care about you.

Did your face fill out and look better after you put muscle on? I am pretty slim/skinny and trying to put on weight, my jaw is pretty weak I would say and want to get a stronger, fuller jaw, cheers

[hiding12]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Hey OP i can relate to you little. I bhit the gym and went from a scrawny little malnourished kid to a sculpted guy (facially at least)
I'm the kind of nice guy but not a pushover and i dont really like treating people like **** because it's not me and it takes a lot of effort.
Being a d i c k might give you a little pleasure but in the long run it's really not worth it. What are you hoping to achieve by it? Isn't it time you moved on with your life and stopped living in the past?
I too get girls throwing themselves at me in clubs and i get plenty of stares but most of the time i'm usually not that interested and i'm also shy and whatnot.
The point is be nice to people. It feels amazing to have friends and people that care about you.

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[Chad_Bronson]

(Original post by X_mark_the_spot)
No, it doesn't work that way. I get exactly what the OP is feeling. Essentially, the same people that rejected you and wouldn't give you the time of day, now want to be your friend because you're successful and attractive. Would you just turn around and trust them and give them your time? And you know how you know that they're the same people who would have rejected you? Because they reject and scorn people who are still like you (used to be); the ones who didn't make the transformation. How could anyone who has been there, forgive such shallow people?

OP, forgive the platitude, but hate "is like drinking poison and hoping the other person will die". It'll eat away at you slowly. There comes a time when you have to let go. This is not to say that you must let shallow goons into your life or give them the time of day. Rather, a little discretion is required to get to know the people out there that are genuinely kind and non-judgmental. You won't find them, however, if you approach life with your current mentality. Btw, I'm somewhat like you, but the female version. But it has been a while for me, and I'm starting to learn to trust people, and to allow them to prove themselves rather than writing them off immediately.

I don't think that's quite what the author meant - although forgive me if it was. I think by being happy and successful, I think he meant trying to get away from the nay-sayers and negative people onto better people who will treat them better. I have friends from school added me on Facebook that don't want to associate with any more, so why would I then accept their request?

See where I'm going with this? But you're right in saying we need to trust people. Mankind / Womankind needs to trust people to survive. And plus, we aren't all bad