Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?

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  1. naman's Avatar
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    Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    hi i have my driving test tomorrow and i was wondering whether i should give my instructor a box of chocolates or something if i pass. only thing is i don't want it to look awkward! thanks in advance.
  2. evolutionaryme's Avatar
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    when i passes my test, i just gave him a handshake and said 'enjoy the rest of your life, mate'
  3. marcusfox's Avatar
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    No.

    I'm pretty sure they wouldn't be allowed to accept it anyway.
  4. 3mm@'s Avatar
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    Well, if you fail (not saying you will btw) you will always have consolation chocolate, the best therapy...
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    Depends on whether you feel they deserve extra reward over the money you've given them.

    If you have found that they have gone beyond their basic responsibilities, then you can respond by going beyond yours (i.e. giving them more than just money). However, many of them do their job in a fairly stubborn way and deserve only what you owe them monetarily.

    I am guessing that, because you're asking, they've been quite good and you think they deserve it, so why the hell not?
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    Yeah it might be nice, but it's not the "norm" so no obligation to :-). My Dad's a driving instructor and I love the students who give him chocolate lol .
  7. flutegirl's Avatar
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    i gave my instructor chocolates when i passed my test and he was very grateful! It won't be awkward, your instructor will appreciate your thoughtfulness
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    When I passed my test I gave my instructor a (well to be fair) Cheap Single Malt.
    Obviously depends on if the instructor was good or not
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    aww.

    the above 2 posters say it all.

    Good luck OP.
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    No... He did his job for which you already payed for lol.
  11. naman's Avatar
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    as many of you are asking - yes he is a really good instructor and a really nice person! i think i will give him a box of quality street (no pun intended) in the end! wish me luck for tomorrow guys!
  12. XxAmxX's Avatar
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    Surely you paid enough already!?
  13. Annie Louisa's Avatar
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    If you felt he was amazing/you got on really well together, then maybe a little something It also depends on how much the lessons cost you because if they were extortionate, then he's getting paid enough already. Haha!

    But I'm sure that any gift would be massively appreciated, so there won't be any awkwardness Best of luck!
  14. naman's Avatar
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    thanks a lot everybody, much appreciated.
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    (Original post by marcusfox)
    I'm pretty sure they wouldn't be allowed to accept it anyway.
    Are you confusing a driving instructor with a test examiner?

    If you mean the instructor who taught you, then if you like him enough, then a small gift of appreciation is a really nice gesture and he'll really appreciate it. It's no more than leaving a tip on a table in a restaurant, regardless of how much you paid for the meal.

    If you're asking about the test examiner, then you cannot offer them anything. No matter how nice they've been to you, it is illegal to offer money or a gift to a public official performing his or her statutory duty. It can be construed as bribery.

    As for those saying not to give anything to an instructor who's charged a lot already for lessons, don't be so tight! Instructors don't end up with much of that money, so it's nice to be recognised for good service given.
  16. naman's Avatar
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    (Original post by Advisor)
    Are you confusing a driving instructor with a test examiner?

    If you mean the instructor who taught you, then if you like him enough, then a small gift of appreciation is a really nice gesture and he'll really appreciate it. It's no more than leaving a tip on a table in a restaurant, regardless of how much you paid for the meal.

    If you're asking about the test examiner, then you cannot offer them anything. No matter how nice they've been to you, it is illegal to offer money or a gift to a public official performing his or her statutory duty. It can be construed as bribery.

    As for those saying not to give anything to an instructor who's charged a lot already for lessons, don't be so tight! Instructors don't end up with much of that money, so it's nice to be recognised for good service given.
    no i mean the guy who taught me how to drive. i probably will give him a box of chocolates and hopefully he should be able to accept it. i did give him a bit of cake on my 17th birthday which was my first lesson and he accepted it very kindly.
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    (Original post by Advisor)
    Are you confusing a driving instructor with a test examiner?.
    Yes, I misread that. But in any case, I still wouldn't buy them anything, after all, you've paid enough.

    And if it depends solely on you passing your test or not, that's up to you, and you should celebrate your achievement, not the instructor.
    Last edited by marcusfox; 10-06-2012 at 19:58.
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    (Original post by Advisor)
    If you're asking about the test examiner, then you cannot offer them anything. No matter how nice they've been to you, it is illegal to offer money or a gift to a public official performing his or her statutory duty. It can be construed as bribery.
    It's very clear they're talking about there instructor, which makes this post null and/or void of any meaning.
  19. naman's Avatar
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    thanks a lot everybody.. i managed to pass with just one minor fault today
  20. lukas1051's Avatar
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    Re: Should i give my instructor a gift if i pass my test?
    I'm pretty sure the extortionate fees are enough of a gift.
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