[Anonymous]

My boyfriend just choose another girl over me! Im very much in love with him. I dont know what to do how do i move on from this? I feel so worthless

[InnerTemple]

(Original post by Anonymous)
My boyfriend just choose another girl over me! Im very much in love with him. I dont know what to do how do i move on from this? I feel so worthless

Take some time to come to terms with it. Soon you will realise that he was a bit of an idiot and you are better off without him. Bullet dodged.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by InnerTemple)
Take some time to come to terms with it. Soon you will realise that he was a bit of an idiot and you are better off without him. Bullet dodged.

He also told me he did get with her while he was with me, and he only used me to get back at his ex and lose his virginity and now that he has done that he wants this other girl.. I feel so used :'(

[Bambinobambina]

I'm not suprised you feel like this ...what an absolute IDIOT (want to use stronger words) it will be difficult .. You deserve better !

Sarah xx


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[Bambinobambina]

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[silverbolt]

(Original post by Anonymous)
He also told me he did get with her while he was with me, and he only used me to get back at his ex and lose his virginity and now that he has done that he wants this other girl.. I feel so used :'(

thats just horrible and completely unessecary

[shadclads]

stay calm.. another man is better

[Frankie_say_relax]

(Original post by Anonymous)
He also told me he did get with her while he was with me, and he only used me to get back at his ex and lose his virginity and now that he has done that he wants this other girl.. I feel so used :'(

Then how can you love him dearly? He sounds like a complete arse hole. It doesn't matter what arse holes think, their opinions are automatically null and void - because they're arse holes

[Miss_Scarlett]

(Original post by shadclads)
stay calm.. another man is better

This, this and this.

Please do not base your self worth on the actions of this absolute douche bag.

Just because one man chose another girl over you, does NOT make her better per se, full stop, end of.

It is hard. Allow yourself time to be upset...let it out. But don't allow yourself to wallow in it, you had a lucky escape

[OliviaVW]

Chin up. Let him go, let whatever you had go, and think of this as an experience that will help you to appreciate a good guy when you see one.

My mum once told me a story of her friend. Her name was Ali, and she had never had her heart broken. She'd been with her husband since the age of 16 and was completely in love. They married, and were together 25 years. He cheated on her with a girl at work for several of these years, and she was absolutely heartbroken because she'd never experienced hurt before. 10 years on, she's re-married with a good guy who she's been with for 5 years. Sometimes getting hurt young is a good thing, and equally, sometimes people leave to make room for someone new.

You don't want to be with someone who will change his mind at the drop of a hat. He'll probably do similar things to the next girl when someone he perceives to be "better" comes along.

Someday you'll be more than enough for someone.

[Dirac Delta Function]

(Original post by Anonymous)
My boyfriend just choose another girl over me! Im very much in love with him. I dont know what to do how do i move on from this? I feel so worthless

We all get rejected. It's part of life. I've been rejected a few times, and I've rejected others a few times.

It's painful but you'll get over it.

[amyshamblesxx]

Your ex is VILE. Do not let him get you down. As others have said, there is a better man out there for you.

[Robaij]

just keep in mind,he will do the same to this girl as he did to you,and the next girl also.lucky escape much? you are so not worth that.
i know you may think he is the most amazing guy in the world and that you wont find better,but you WILL!
ive been through this,we all have.
time IS a healer

[SsuperwomanS]

I'm really sorry to hear about that I also went through a break up recently - it sucks, I know. At first I was SO depressed; moping around the house, refusing to go out, and every song I listened to reminded me of him...but you know what? I realised something - that guy was a JERK to me. He completely USED me, and he thinks I don't know about it - but something you've got to realise is that things do actually catch up with you. Karma is the sweetest revenge. All of those lies he told me are going to come out one way or another - he's told too many to keep them all a secret. He lied to me and treated me like dirt - your bf did the same. He completely used you, and things WILL catch up with him, trust me.

And ask yourself this question: what did you do to deserve this? EXACTLY - you did NOTHING! you do not deserve this - you - yes YOU- are a good person. Good people deserve good things, damnit! And one day you are going to realise that you are worth more than that. At least next time a douche bagguette like this comes along, we'll both be able to spot when he's treating us wrong, and we will settle for nothing less than we deserve! I know it hurts - trust me, I've been there - but it gets better, and you come out stronger than before. And then you can hold your head up high and succeed in life, knowing you did the right thing, and soon he'll be one of those fat perverts who hang around in seedy bars ;P

Also, talk to your friends - and I mean your REAL friends! If someone seems to be getting tired of your sadness, they aint a very good friend, are they now?

And if you still don't feel better, find a way to sign him up to gay men chat sites/gay men texting/ find a cardboard box, put a label that says "Gay porn" on it, with his email adress on the label too (that way it looks more proffessional), address it to him and leave it outside his house - his parents/gf will get a lovely little suprise from it :P

Hang in there sistah! And remember: You. Are. Awesome.

Peace! :-x <3

[Anonymous]

Blokes who take women for granted, use them and then hurt them out of sheer spite like this enrage me. My likely reaction to another guy "bragging" to me about doing something like this as if it's something to be proud of would be to chin him. Pricks like that deserve to die alone.

I know it doesn't feel like it now, but this bellend's done you a favour by showing his true colours. Trust me when I say he's no loss to you.

As another bloke, please believe me when I say "We're not all like this". It'll get better in time, and this tosser will be nothing but a distant bad memory.