Hi, I'm sleeping with this guy and I was wondering if it's a bad thing if he never cums during sex with me or during foreplay, he only cums when he touches himself.
Make me feel like its because i'm bad in bed.
Has anyone else every experienced this?
It's possible that maybe he's too used to himself.. he might masturbate rather alot which will make him last alot longer and unfortunately in some instances makes it extremely diffucult to cum with a partner. However it could just be something more simple like a relaxation problem. Have you spoken to him about whether this is normal for him (if he's been with other girls before)?
Yeh, it's a pretty common complaint, most of the time it's down to desensitization of the penis due to masturbation and as a result the guy is used to more friction than vaginal intercourse tends to provide. Can't give sex tips on here but certain positions provide more friction than others and a quick google will probably bring up tons of sites with tips.
Thanks for the advice guys, haven't spoke to him about it yet don't wanna make a big deal about it incase it makes the problem worse but i'll have a gooogle and try some different things and see what happens