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  1. Anonymous's Avatar
    Is she ignoring me and what can I do?
    Long story short; I met a random girl who I ,seemingly at the time, instantly clicked with, we swapped details and went our separate ways. I messaged her soon after and she didn't/hasn't replied.

    Is there anything I can do, or should I just leave it?

    I usually wouldn't care if this happened but she just seemed like such a lovely person who seemed so down to earth and everything. I haven't met someone like that in such a long time.
  2. Bambinobambina's Avatar
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    Very strange that she gave you her details and never replied :/ ... People come and go a the time don't hold onto it too much-there is nothing you can do ..if she wants to to she will if she doesn't don't take your time thinking about something that's not worth it-easier said than done I know


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  3. rhysowen's Avatar
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    Re: Is she ignoring me and what can I do?
    Hey kiddo,
    look, if she never replies, are you gonna keep trying and trying and trying forever and let it affect your life?

    This could be one of a few things. Wrong details, shes too busy, something has happened in her life, how she may have felt about you back then has changed.

    Best thing to do? Check the details, spend half hour doing everything you can to make sure she will see your message.

    Then what? Do nothing. Carry on with your day to day life. You cant let it ruin you? School/Uni/Work/Social life?
    You WILL find someone else. if this doesnt work, then it wasn't meant to be.

    Dont get too hung up over it...
  4. Hana_87's Avatar
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    Re: Is she ignoring me and what can I do?
    When people say not to let stuff affect your life too much - that's so much easier said than done isn't it.
  5. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Is she ignoring me and what can I do?
    Contact her again.If possible do it a different way from before-sometimes texts don't get through, or numbers are given wrong by accident, so use facebook instead.

    Contacting her once more won't make you lose anything, if there is some reason she couldn't reply the first time then you could get something really good going, and if she doesn't reply you haven't lost anything, as she's not someone already in your life.

    How did you meet?

    Good luck!
  6. amyshamblesxx's Avatar
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    Re: Is she ignoring me and what can I do?
    I would try and contact her one more time and if you don't get a response, give up and move on.
  7. Yung Mon£y's Avatar
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    Re: Is she ignoring me and what can I do?
    Bro let it go you didnt really get to know her, she may have like foetus' on her fireplace lol
    3 billion honnies out there, dont get bothered about just 1 yeah
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