Going Through Life Without Ever Having A Girlfriend - Can It Be Done?

Mate, seriously, if you want a girlfriend get off the computer and get out there! Thats the only way to really up your social skills.

Hi, I am 26 and have never been loved. For me it is not so much about being in a relationship but feeling loved by the opposite sex.

I would hate to die a virgin so I am getting more desperate as the years pass.

IMO it is harder to find women as you get older. They expect you to want to settle down but if it's your 1st relationship you will find it hard to commit.

Anyway, women are depreciating assets, the older i get the more money I'll earn.

Right I'm 26 never had a gf but not a virgin!
To cut a long story short, the guys got a point!

I suffer from
A lack of confidence, depression & my lack of experience has caused me to now suffer from Ed erectile dysfunction!

I recently met a girl I loved but because of my Ed she left me!

Basically when girls/women say yes they'll be happy to stick with a guy who's a virgin, or no experience or suffers from Ed, the truth is when it comes to it they will actually leave!
Such hypocrites !!
That leaves me with the fact that I just can't satisfy a woman now & until it's sorted I'll never get a gf! Fact is how can I sort it when my confidence is even lower now.

Ok guys I have to come to terms with something thats bothered me for a long time.

I'm a virgin, I'm 25 and I turn 26 in a couple of months. In addition I've never had a relationship either.

From my experiances, this a major red flag for the majority of women say 80-90% of them when you get to this age. Its bothered me so much that I even considered suicide on many occassions last year, but now I'm seeking councilling about it and my social life in general.

I've have always believed I am a poor set of genes and that I have simply deserved this. Social darwinism and natural selection has played its part and that I am simply not up to societies standards. I've come to conclusion that I can't have children, because I would passing on bad genes, science is certainly telling me this.

I can't get a girlfriend, and by nearly 26 I've never had one and I know by the time you get to this age you'll never get one. No girlfriend by 25, and well, you're love life is over. No women are going to want an inexperianced guy and thats understandable.

Is it this hard to accept? You damn right it is, infact its killing me inside, but after being suicidal for months about it, I realise that the only way I can imagine to stay alive is learning how to live with it and learning to accept myself.

I'm going to go through life without having a girlfriend as I'm simply too old now, I have another 50-60 years to live in this world and I've got to be able to learn to live with this fact and at the moment its ROCK HARD. I'm crying every night even now.

But science is telling that I cannot have a girlfriend or a relationship, the signs are pointing this way and I'm so depressed accepting this fact but I know I have to if there's anyway I can live on this planet for another 50-60 years successfully.

Life's just not meant to be sometimes, I didn't choose to be born in this world, I didn't choose to go through this in some ways, its natural selection playing its part and I fully accept it.

Buts its very depressing, almost like grieving knowing my life will have to be this way.

Is there any other guys who are like who feel the same way and in the same situation?

Ok guys I have to come to terms with something thats bothered me for a long time.

I'm a virgin, I'm 25 and I turn 26 in a couple of months. In addition I've never had a relationship either.

From my experiances, this a major red flag for the majority of women say 80-90% of them when you get to this age. Its bothered me so much that I even considered suicide on many occassions last year, but now I'm seeking councilling about it and my social life in general.

I've have always believed I am a poor set of genes and that I have simply deserved this. Social darwinism and natural selection has played its part and that I am simply not up to societies standards. I've come to conclusion that I can't have children, because I would passing on bad genes, science is certainly telling me this.

I can't get a girlfriend, and by nearly 26 I've never had one and I know by the time you get to this age you'll never get one. No girlfriend by 25, and well, you're love life is over. No women are going to want an inexperianced guy and thats understandable.

Is it this hard to accept? You damn right it is, infact its killing me inside, but after being suicidal for months about it, I realise that the only way I can imagine to stay alive is learning how to live with it and learning to accept myself.

I'm going to go through life without having a girlfriend as I'm simply too old now, I have another 50-60 years to live in this world and I've got to be able to learn to live with this fact and at the moment its ROCK HARD. I'm crying every night even now.

But science is telling that I cannot have a girlfriend or a relationship, the signs are pointing this way and I'm so depressed accepting this fact but I know I have to if there's anyway I can live on this planet for another 50-60 years successfully.

Life's just not meant to be sometimes, I didn't choose to be born in this world, I didn't choose to go through this in some ways, its natural selection playing its part and I fully accept it.

Buts its very depressing, almost like grieving knowing my life will have to be this way.

Is there any other guys who are like who feel the same way and in the same situation?

Well thing is viagra doesn't always work that's how bad it's got!!! & with this girl I was nothing but honest, told her I'll be using viagra & she got even more offended :/

Not the first girl to have reacted that way & I'll tell you what else, I don't just take it unless it's just pure sex but if I really like the girl Im honest as you can't base it on lies, she'll find out sooner or later esp when you have sex twice a day, viagra can only be taken once every 24 hours and lady's only 4 hours

Yeah I actually remember now that it didn't work for me either when I was sober and really anxious about having sex. But dude, don't tell the girls you're on Viagra!! That just makes you look weird, unless its a very understanding girlfriend. Just take it tactically before you know it's going to happen, the effect lasts for over 4 hours. In case it's too hard to predict the moment with a girl, take Cialis instead which lasts over 30 hours.

I remember now the first time I got sex to work was when I was very drunk and had taken 100mg of Viagra (you don't normally need that much though, that'd be the dose for a grandpa!).
The reasons it finally worked were:
-alcohol took away my anxiousness
-viagra combatted the whiskey dick, I was rock hard
-the girl admitted being a virgin, which massively made it less stressful
-the girl finally let me go without a condom, which was a massive turnoff for me and had previously always caused for me to lose my erection (the moment you start putting it on)
-we used lube, so it went in immediately, which eliminated any hassle and "wait what am I doing"-feelings So try out those tips but if you ditch the condom make sure the girl is clean!

Thanks for all your tips but yes I too use 100mg still doesn't work 100% of the time!

I don't use condoms for the same reason but ok I can still have sex on most opportunities just takes a lot longer for me to get going sometimes I have to meet the girl more than once which is why I end up telling the truth!


The other problem I have is I cannot ejaculate to a woman's touch nor can I inside or outside!! Again this offends every girl & the last time I offered to help because I thought she was tired but instead she got offended and remained upset for days!!!

Obv she left me after a few more attempts

Some people on the Jeremy Kyle show may look ugly. But at least they have social skills.

I have absolutely none. And can't get a girlfriend realise that internet polling has showed me that girls wont date people over the age of 25+/30+ who are virgins, at least most them, like 60% from what I've found.

So thats most of the female population. Excellent, screwed for life. Its awful feeling like this.

Some people on the Jeremy Kyle show may look ugly. But at least they have social skills.

I have absolutely none. And can't get a girlfriend realise that internet polling has showed me that girls wont date people over the age of 25+/30+ who are virgins, at least most them, like 60% from what I've found.

So thats most of the female population. Excellent, screwed for life. Its awful feeling like this.

Maan I had exactly the same issue as you but I overcame it. Even when I went on for a whole hour, I could not orgasm from penetrative sex, blow jobs or hand jobs when it was someone else doing it. I think it took me maybe 10-15 times before I orgasmed for the first time from sex.

But don't worry, it's possible to get rid of this issue. Anxiety and heavy masturbation are the main reasons for this. Basicly you need to rec
onfigure your brain to realise that ejaculating is possible by other ways too. It's often a result of heavy masturbation and porn, your dick is used to stronger stimulation than a vagina / mouth can offer.

The first step is to completely quit masturbation and porn. After a few weeks, your body will be fighting for you to orgasm and you will become more sensitive. The second step is to try to not stress about it. I had a new girlfriend at a time, who obviously though she was failing at something because I couldn't orgasm. I was a virgin before her and never had orgasmed from sex, which she didn't know. I literally told her that please, do not make it an issue and lets just have sex, it will come when it will come.. and finally it did! After that single time, my brain was convinced that its possible and I can now always orgasm from sex.

Now at 23, I only recently learned I can orgasm from blowjobs too which I thought was impossible untiil now. Awesome feeling!