In al honesty, I don't want a gf, but..
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Re: In al honesty, I don't want a gf, but..Well be honest with her...at least don't give any indication that you want anything else from the situation.
It helps if you give her plenty of get-outs as well. Mention stuff like "I'm not really looking for a girlfriend at the moment" in conversation, and giver her room to back out later if she wants to.
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Re: In al honesty, I don't want a gf, but..And that's fine. Nobody should feel like there's anything wrong with wanting something other than a traditional, committed, monogamous relationship. It's much better to acknowledge that your desires are different so that you can be clear about this being what you want if you meet a woman you're interested in than it is to convince yourself to attempt a serious relationship when that isn't what you want, which can potentially be problematic for both you and any woman you're seeing down the line.
