When you get married, will you take your partner's name?
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View Poll Results: Will you take your partner's name (surname)?
Yes 57 50.00% No 31 27.19% Not Sure Yet 26 22.81%
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Re: When you get married, will you take your partner's name?Actually, I hate my family name and as soon as I move out of the house, I intend on completely removing my father's surname and my legal forename (am never called it by my family anyway).(Original post by abc:))
But they are half his children too, don't they have equal entitlement to either name?
My mum insisted when we were born that we take her name, I've hated it all my life until I changed it to double-barrel at 18. I couldn't comprehend the idea that by name I wasn't part of my dad's family.
I wouldn't mind taking my mother's maiden name but there is a name in my mind I would love to have.
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Re: When you get married, will you take your partner's name?
I did take my husband's surname yes. I'm traditional like that. I like the fact that we all have the same surname - my husband, myself, and our children. I feel that it unites us as a family.
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Re: When you get married, will you take your partner's name?
I'm not sure that I want to get married, but if I do then I'm keeping my surname and I'm still going to call myself 'Ms'. After all, no one would question my husband's commitment to me if he didn't want to take my surname, and he wouldn't even have the option of taking a different title, so I don't see why it should be any different for me. Other women can do what they want, obviously.
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I'm already a Ms. I despise it when I receive post addressed to Miss, and I get infuriated when you get the option of Mrs and Miss but no Ms.
I don't want to. My current boyfriend is incredibly adamant about it though and I'd stretch to double barrel (although my surname is Italian and his is German...
) and I'd let the kids take his name with mine as a middle name but I will never ever get rid of my surname.
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Re: When you get married, will you take your partner's name?
Haha I wonder this sometimes.. I have a very boring surname, but my boyfriend has a foreign name and I know that nobody would ever pronounce it right as it's quite a mouthful so... I'm not sure yet. I don't know if I'd want to correct everyone constantly. But then maybe that's a bit of a lazy reason not to take someone's name!
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Re: When you get married, will you take your partner's name?This made my day, hahaha.(Original post by megan.c)
Probably,
though he has suggested taking the first syllable of my name and the last of his. Then calling our first born son Eric.
We would be the parents of Eric Cartman
Definitely taking my other half's last name; I love the tradition and can't stand my last name - but love his. -
Re: When you get married, will you take your partner's name?What wrong with being miss? Youre either married or you're not. I always thought being ms was a load of crap.(Original post by such_a_lady)
I'm already a Ms. I despise it when I receive post addressed to Miss, and I get infuriated when you get the option of Mrs and Miss but no Ms.
I don't want to. My current boyfriend is incredibly adamant about it though and I'd stretch to double barrel (although my surname is Italian and his is German...
) and I'd let the kids take his name with mine as a middle name but I will never ever get rid of my surname.
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