[Mr Bee]

Problem now is: everyone keeps on questioning me about it. And I am just sat there explaining. When do you think this will calm down and how can I prevent it?


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[cyfer]

(Original post by Mr Bee)
Do I just ignore everything said? Also, how do I prevent it in the future?


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Don't be such an idiot and realise that everything written under your name can be held against you.

I realised this a long time ago when someone's mother (who had facebook) reported me to my school for calling a guy an idiot -_-

[Mr Bee]

(Original post by cyfer)
Don't be such an idiot and realise that everything written under your name can be held against you.

I realised this a long time ago when someone's mother (who had facebook) reported me to my school for calling a guy an idiot -_-

What do you mean?


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[cyfer]

(Original post by Mr Bee)
What do you mean?


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Don't write anything unless you mean it. That includes all texts, messages, facebook posts etc. Eventually something bad will happen as someone holds evidence from these against you.

[Mr Bee]

(Original post by cyfer)
Don't write anything unless you mean it. That includes all texts, messages, facebook posts etc. Eventually something bad will happen as someone holds evidence from these against you.

Ooh! Thanks that is some good advice


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[Saleha]

(Original post by Mr Bee)
So basically, there is this girl 2 years younger who started to chat to me, and we became quite close which lead to conversations about her fingering and me making absolutely STUPID comments such as 'I bet your orgasms well cute '. I said everything I said as a joke really and I asked her afterwards if she knew it was all a joke and she said yes! Well, it turns out she was cousins with this kid in my year. So, she tells him that I was asking for sex when I quite evidently wasn't, but now my whole year class me as a freak and a paedo..

So what I am asking is, how should I recover myself and reply to people's questions? I have also deleted my Facebook and deleted everyone's numbers involved.

Please help.

The truth always prevails in fairytales so if you;re life is a fairytale then have patience
Nah, but on a serious note you never actually done anything wrong so just answer peoples questions truthfully by telling them you never asked for anything and she freely told you of her sexual activities and make sure you confront her
Tbh rumours don't last that long
it'll die out and there will be a new nosepicker or something
YOU HAVE FRIENDS ON HERE and true friends don't believe bull**** anyway so at least you know who your true friends are now

[Mr Bee]

(Original post by Saleha)
The truth always prevails in fairytales so if you;re life is a fairytale then have patience
Nah, but on a serious note you never actually done anything wrong so just answer peoples questions truthfully by telling them you never asked for anything and she freely told you of her sexual activities and make sure you confront her
Tbh rumours don't last that long
it'll die out and there will be a new nosepicker or something
YOU HAVE FRIENDS ON HERE and true friends don't believe bull**** anyway so at least you know who your true friends are now

Yeah, my true, best mates are sticking up for me but I guess I made a mistake really. I shall learn for next time, and learn the lesson quick.

I hate the ****ers that spread the crap though but aye, it passes quickly


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[Saleha]

(Original post by Mr Bee)
Yeah, my true, best mates are sticking up for me but I guess I made a mistake really. I shall learn for next time, and learn the lesson quick.

I hate the ****ers that spread the crap though but aye, it passes quickly


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one word - KARMA
And yeah just be careful for next time

[Mr Bee]

(Original post by Saleha)
one word - KARMA
And yeah just be careful for next time

Do you mean I am going to get bad karma?
I shall, as said previously 'Don't write anything unless you mean it. That includes all texts, messages, facebook posts etc. Eventually something bad will happen as someone holds evidence from these against you.'


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[Saleha]

(Original post by Mr Bee)
Do you mean I am going to get bad karma?
I shall, as said previously 'Don't write anything unless you mean it. That includes all texts, messages, facebook posts etc. Eventually something bad will happen as someone holds evidence from these against you.'


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Lol no no I think you've gotten enough of that - I was talking about the people being nasty
and LOL for some random reason I just remembered the time where I said she was going to experience karma and she goes - 'OH I LOVE CURRY' :')
and yeahh that's great advice - I had to learn the hard way back when I used to pass notes around class:P

[Mr Bee]

(Original post by Saleha)
Lol no no I think you've gotten enough of that - I was talking about the people being nasty
and LOL for some random reason I just remembered the time where I said she was going to experience karma and she goes - 'OH I LOVE CURRY' :')
and yeahh that's great advice - I had to learn the hard way back when I used to pass notes around class:P

Haha! That made me laugh! Ah yeah, like people were giving me **** on Facebook. I deleted my account and to be honest. I don't miss it :L
Oh really? How did you learn?


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[Platostolemysocks]

(Original post by Mr Bee)
So basically, there is this girl 2 years younger who started to chat to me, and we became quite close which lead to conversations about her fingering and me making absolutely STUPID comments such as 'I bet your orgasms well cute '. I said everything I said as a joke really and I asked her afterwards if she knew it was all a joke and she said yes! Well, it turns out she was cousins with this kid in my year. So, she tells him that I was asking for sex when I quite evidently wasn't, but now my whole year class me as a freak and a paedo..

So what I am asking is, how should I recover myself and reply to people's questions? I have also deleted my Facebook and deleted everyone's numbers involved.

Please help.

Eek! That girl is obviously very messed up, and doing it all attention. However at the end of the day, if you don't want that sort of outcome, don't have conversations like that in the first place. If a guy said that to me, I would find him perverted!

I'd recover yourself by telling the truth. It may not necessarily work, you know what the rumour mills like, but its worth a try. You might be best confronted her, asking why she'd said such a thing in the first place.

[Saleha]

(Original post by Mr Bee)
Haha! That made me laugh! Ah yeah, like people were giving me **** on Facebook. I deleted my account and to be honest. I don't miss it :L
Oh really? How did you learn?


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AH cyber bullies -_- Yeah well clearly they have to much spare time to give you all that attention over something so stupid and tbh even if you did ask her for sex it shouldn't be a big deal.. at this age it's natural to feel that way about someone of the opposite sex (which I believe you didn't do)
back in year 7, me and my best friend had a fight with a girl and we were arguing by sending each other notes and me and my bestie said she laughed like a dog, which she showed the whole class and so we had a difficult time after that :P

[Mr Bee]

(Original post by Saleha)
AH cyber bullies -_- Yeah well clearly they have to much spare time to give you all that attention over something so stupid and tbh even if you did ask her for sex it shouldn't be a big deal.. at this age it's natural to feel that way about someone of the opposite sex (which I believe you didn't do)
back in year 7, me and my best friend had a fight with a girl and we were arguing by sending each other notes and me and my bestie said she laughed like a dog, which she showed the whole class and so we had a difficult time after that :P

Yeah, they are both arrogant ****s anyway. Excuse my language. I didn't do that by the way.
Ahaha! That's hilarious :P Great insult there bud, didn't know dogs laughed


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[Mr Bee]

(Original post by Platostolemysocks)
Eek! That girl is obviously very messed up, and doing it all attention. However at the end of the day, if you don't want that sort of outcome, don't have conversations like that in the first place. If a guy said that to me, I would find him perverted!

I'd recover yourself by telling the truth. It may not necessarily work, you know what the rumour mills like, but its worth a try. You might be best confronted her, asking why she'd said such a thing in the first place.

We had been talking for ages and a lot of stuff had been said. I would never say anything of the like again though. I have learnt from my mistake and hopefully will remember this for a long time.
I have told the truth too if I'm being honest. I don't see the point in lying. Then you have to remember the lies and it always prevails..


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[Saleha]

(Original post by Mr Bee)
Yeah, they are both arrogant ****s anyway. Excuse my language. I didn't do that by the way.
Ahaha! That's hilarious :P Great insult there bud, didn't know dogs laughed


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Ahh i probably use worse language Yeah I know you didn't
LOL I was in year 7 .. I didn't know any cusses so I just used what I could :P

[Mr Bee]

(Original post by Saleha)
Ahh i probably use worse language Yeah I know you didn't
LOL I was in year 7 .. I didn't know any cusses so I just used what I could :P

Ahaa! "You laugh like a dog mate.."


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[Saleha]

(Original post by Mr Bee)
Ahaa! "You laugh like a dog mate.."


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LOL, well when you put it like that it does sound terrible :')

[Mr Bee]

(Original post by Saleha)
LOL, well when you put it like that it does sound terrible :')

Still funny bud


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[Saleha]

(Original post by Mr Bee)
Still funny bud


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haha cheers :P