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    (Original post by qwerty_mad)
    Yeah she did but it was because we were doing the same course.

    I could be wrong but it seems he's toying with you and, hope you don't mind me saying, he probably isn't interested in you. Hope that's not the case though.
    Yeah I realised a few weeks ago :mad:, although I am still stupid enough to keep texting him.. Although I went 2 or 3 days before and not one text off him.. Ah well I am going to stop for good this time.
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    (Original post by Staceycake)
    Yeah I realised a few weeks ago :mad:, although I am still stupid enough to keep texting him.. Although I went 2 or 3 days before and not one text off him.. Ah well I am going to stop for good this time.
    This is precisely the reason why I don't wanna text her. I know it'll always be left up to me. Though today my mate encouraged me to text her saying at least I would have done my part, which is kinda true. I think it's the same with you.
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    (Original post by qwerty_mad)
    This is precisely the reason why I don't wanna text her. I know it'll always be left up to me. Though today my mate encouraged me to text her saying at least I would have done my part, which is kinda true. I think it's the same with you.
    Did you do so? I hope so.
    Yeah each time I did my part, rarely got anything back so I have gave up.
    Yesterday when I texted him saying how I am always the one texting him, if I didn't for days or weeks he still wouldn't text me first. His reply was "I'm sorry, I've been busy over the past few weeks trying to get my life on track, I wasn't trying to be rude"
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    (Original post by Staceycake)
    Did you do so? I hope so.
    Yeah each time I did my part, rarely got anything back so I have gave up.
    Yesterday when I texted him saying how I am always the one texting him, if I didn't for days or weeks he still wouldn't text me first. His reply was "I'm sorry, I've been busy over the past few weeks trying to get my life on track, I wasn't trying to be rude"
    I haven't yet lol. I just don't wanna be in your situation. Though knowing myself I would not text again until she does.

    Didn't you mention in a post earlier how he's been on Facebook, Xbox and whatnot? Maybe you could ask him about that? But it doesn't appear fair how he's treating you.
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    (Original post by qwerty_mad)
    I haven't yet lol. I just don't wanna be in your situation. Though knowing myself I would not text again until she does.

    Didn't you mention in a post earlier how he's been on Facebook, Xbox and whatnot? Maybe you could ask him about that? But it doesn't appear fair how he's treating you.
    Well hopefully your situation works out better than mine has.

    Exactly and is every day on a dating site so that even ruins the 'I'm not ready'.
    I would but once he told me about him hiding his dating profile, just about 2 days later he had unhid it and when I mentioned it he said I was being stupid about it. Ah well I can do better.
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    (Original post by Staceycake)
    Well hopefully your situation works out better than mine has.

    Exactly and is every day on a dating site so that even ruins the 'I'm not ready'.
    I would but once he told me about him hiding his dating profile, just about 2 days later he had unhid it and when I mentioned it he said I was being stupid about it. Ah well I can do better.
    Yeah you definitely can do better though it's understandable that you may be finding it hard to let go of this guy.

    It I were to text the girl what should I ask bearing in mind we haven't been in touch for quite a while? I don't want it to be "hey how are you?"... "I'm fine" sort of convo.

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