Jobs for the socially awkward...
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Jobs for the socially awkward...
Do they exist in the current economic climate? I'm not good with interviews or talking to people I don't know. What sort of employers would overlook this as it is not in the job description?
Cleaning jobs spring to mind but I'm not too keen on the idea of scrubbing public toilets.
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Re: Jobs for the socially awkward...That's not a bad idea(Original post by stargirl001)
Out of hours retail work? Most supermarkets have early morning or late night shifts for putting out stock and you won't have to interact with customers
Is that a specific job for 1 person?(Original post by Tateco)
Moving trolleys around the car park
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Re: Jobs for the socially awkward...
I had a job at M&S once that involved staking shelves but in the stock room so you never had to talk to anyone or saw anyone. Like someone else said though, you would still need to fake confidence in the interview. By the way, jobs like this are very boring. You get much better stories to tell if your work involves customers.
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Re: Jobs for the socially awkward...I'm not the most convincing person when putting on an act(Original post by Mr Smurf)
Retail. If you can fake confidence in the interview.
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Re: Jobs for the socially awkward...
Work in Wilkinson's! One time I went in and the person who was serving me tried to ask me if I'd like to buy some stamps but she was so miserable and depressed she trailed off halfway way through the sentence and didn't even finish asking haha!
Seriously though, social skills are overrated in part-time job, have you been into any shops these days? Just make sure to pretend to be friendly enough in the interview and then just do your best if you get a job.
You can always work in a stockroom. Asda usually take people on to load and unpack stuff in their warehouses. Also working the late shift in 24hr supermarkets is good. There's hardly anyone in and you're just stocking shelves. -
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I work Wilikinsons out of hours when the shops shut, Its empty and all and there are no customers to annoy you but its not like you can get away without talking to people, there will still be a team of anywhere between 6 and 12 so you have to communicate with them im afraid :P
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Re: Jobs for the socially awkward...Whilst this sentiment does suggest a certain lack of understanding of personality types I do have to agree with it.(Original post by TitanicTeutonicPhil)
Jeez, are you good at ANYTHING? How do you plan on getting a real job after
school/uni? Work on yourself...
You need to separate your personal and professional mannerisms. I work in a lab and spend 80% of my time alone but in the 20% of the time I'm working with others I bloody need to interact with them. If a sponsor comes in that door I need to engage with them and give the red carpet treatment. In a social situation if somebody makes small talk with me my eyes will wander around the room and I'll miss 70% of what they say out of boredom. Professionally if I did that I'd be picking up my p45 at the end of a 6 month review.
I don't like talking to most people. But I do it. People just need to throw themselves in the deep-end and do things they don't like. -
Re: Jobs for the socially awkward...
You don't have to be good at social interaction to do most jobs. I mean when you are behind a till, for example, you don't need any sort of charisma to pretend you are interested and make incredibly boring small talk until you have the persons money and they go away.
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I work on the tills in a clothes shop.
All I do is ask if they would like a bag, and if they would like to keep the hangers, then I pack their stuff away and I tell them how much it costs, then give them the change and say thank you.
I just don't look people in the eyes and pretend I'm talking to my till
I'm also very socially awkward and quite introverted which the people I work with have learned so they just leave me to it mostly
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Re: Jobs for the socially awkward...
why don't you try and increase your confidence and apply for jobs that you might feel uncomfortable in at first, as to overcome your shyness?
...or you could just run away from the problem all your life and try and find jobs where you don't have to talk to anyone. -
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I think it would be a good idea to try to build up your confidence, not avoid having to do so by getting a job where you seclude yourself.
I felt the same as you - socially awkward, generally hate 90% of all humans etc... But I got a job at Primark (lol) and found that it actually really helps to expose yourself to new people, who you would never usually talk to. Forcing yourself into awkward situations is sometimes the best way to learn to overcome them. I never imagined that I could confidently talk to customers, but it comes more naturally with time. Plus I'm sure you would also build relations with your co-workers over time, which is never a bad thing.
