[Sharpshooter]

How important is penis size in a relationship to women? Because I always hear it being discussed quite seriously for some reason on television shows, sex shows, forums etc and I find it all a bit strange really.

I've always been curious as to this topic because I think its generally been over discussed. In my opinion, most women do not care about penis size and you'll find that 90% of the topics are started by men, very few actually by women.

Now I've measured down below and know that I'm around 14-15cm floppy. Statistically I could be around average or a bit bigger than average but it really doesn't matter. I'm 25 never had a girlfriend, no girl has ever seen it so never had a comment passed on it. I'm sure that day will come (I hope ), but for now it hasn't so I'm not going to worry.

I do find it a bit upsetting though that theres a lot insecurity about penis size amongst men. I would find it a bit sad if a women rejected a man because of the size of his penis if every other criteria was met.

Is penis size really a big deal to you ladies in a relationship?? Or is really just a side issue which I think it is?

[Deathliga]

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[Anonymous]

Some women like it for sex but to the vast majority of women I don't think it does.

[Pen Island]

It's not the size of the boat that matters, it's the motion in the ocean

[Frankie_say_relax]

(Original post by Sharpshooter)
How important is penis size in a relationship to women? Because I always hear it being discussed quite seriously for some reason on television shows, sex shows, forums etc and I find it all a bit strange really.

I've always been curious as to this topic because I think its generally been over discussed. In my opinion, most women do not care about penis size and you'll find that 90% of the topics are started by men, very few actually by women.

Now I've measured down below and know that I'm around 14-15cm floppy. Statistically I could be around average or a bit bigger than average but it really doesn't matter. I'm 25 never had a girlfriend, no girl has ever seen it so never had a comment passed on it. I'm sure that day will come (I hope ), but for now it hasn't so I'm not going to worry.

I do find it a bit upsetting though that theres a lot insecurity about penis size amongst men. I would find it a bit sad if a women rejected a man because of the size of his penis if every other criteria was met.

Is penis size really a big deal to you ladies in a relationship?? Or is really just a side issue which I think it is?

14-15 cm floppy is massive! That is about average for an erect penis if i remember correctly, possibly a little larger than average.

[Sharpshooter]

(Original post by Frankie_say_relax)
14-15 cm floppy is massive! That is about average for an erect penis if i remember correctly, possibly a little larger than average.

Pfft nah I don't think it is. Anyway it doesn't really matter like I say I just penis size has to be the most overrated concept to mens attractiveness. Because if it was attractive, I was supposedly quite big, I wouldn't be a virgin at near 26.

Like I say I have a lot other issues e.g. social anxiety/shyness thats affecting me right now, and not the way I look. Its the more the way I act.

I only started this thread because I've seen so many other "concerned" threads and just wondered why to be honest. Its not really a big deal is it?

[Jakeh]

Penis Size no matter if a woman finds it an attractive attribute or not will not get you laid (on the whole), unless of course you want to be a porn star.

Similar to Men, all women can take different sizes, shapes etc, so for some women, bigger may be 'better' and for others bigger may be worse. If you're worried about being a virgin i'd suggest focusing on other things than penis size.

[Frankie_say_relax]

(Original post by Sharpshooter)
Pfft nah I don't think it is. Anyway it doesn't really matter like I say I just penis size has to be the most overrated concept to mens attractiveness. Because if it was attractive, I was supposedly quite big, I wouldn't be a virgin at near 26.

Like I say I have a lot other issues e.g. social anxiety/shyness thats affecting me right now, and not the way I look. Its the more the way I act.

I only started this thread because I've seen so many other "concerned" threads and just wondered why to be honest. Its not really a big deal is it?

Yeh but if a girl has never seen it then how would they know? If you are that big flaccid then you definitely don't have anything to worry about, 99% of guys including me would be pretty jealous of you. Not that there is anything logical to that jealousy, because the sensitive parts of the vagina only go like 2 or 3 inches in (I think), so a dick much longer than that is not really needed. Apparently, girth matters more than length though. Big dicks can also hurt some women, though "My dick was too big for her vagina" is the best excuse a guy could ever have for not having sex lol. It all depends really.

[tooti]

It doesn't really matter unless it is very small or very big. (like extreme sizes!) Its more important to listen to what your partner wants and to not be selfish, although half the fun is knowing your partner is satisfied anyway so it won't be too difficult

[Jakeh]

(Original post by Frankie_say_relax)
Yeh but if a girl has never seen it then how would they know? If you are that big flaccid then you definitely don't have anything to worry about, 99% of guys including me would be pretty jealous of you. Not that there is anything logical to that jealousy, because the sensitive parts of the vagina only go like 2 or 3 inches in (I think), so a dick much longer than that is not really needed. Apparently, girth matters more than length though. Big dicks can also hurt some women, though "My dick was too big for her vagina" is the best excuse a guy could ever have for not having sex lol. It all depends really.

its not a fun excuse though, i'd rather have had sex lol.

[Classical Liberal]

I am not a lady, but here is an interesting thing to think about. The vagina is not really designed for stimulation. It is designed for passing a human being through. The vagina's primary function is to squeeze a little person through it, not to give pleasure.

The area for a woman designed for pleasure is really around the front such as the clitorus, that is where the nerve endings are. The notion that to stimulate a woman you need to get "deep" is a myth.

For actual stimulation length is largely irrelevant (except if maybe you are 2" or something really unfortunate) however it might be pyschologically important for a woman.

[Frankie_say_relax]

(Original post by Classical Liberal)
I am not a lady, but here is an interesting thing to think about. The vagina is not really designed for stimulation. It is designed for passing a human being through. The vagina's primary function is to squeeze a little person through it, not to give pleasure.

The area for a woman designed for pleasure is really around the front such as the clitorus, that is where the nerve endings are. The notion that to stimulate a woman you need to get "deep" is a myth.

For actual stimulation length is largely irrelevant (except if maybe you are 2" or something really unfortunate) however it might be pyschologically important for a woman.

This. I made this point but Classical Liberal articulated it much better.

[Frankie_say_relax]

(Original post by Jakeh)
its not a fun excuse though, i'd rather have had sex lol.

Ofc. But if for some reason you missed out on having sex, this excuse is the best one to have in my opinion haha.

[Lucia.]

Already said this in another thread: thickness is more important - need to get those vaginal walls trembling...

[bloomblaze]

Unfortunately it is important, yes.

[Lucia.]

(Original post by bloomblaze)
Unfortunately it is important, yes.

It has some importance to sexual pleasure, that is true. It really depends on how the woman likes to get off. For example, I'd want one that wasn't too small. I'm only being honest - doesn't have to be massive though.

Its importance in a relationship? = zero.

Big penises don't make romance last longer.

[Aisha~~]

Girth is more important. Let's have a little lesson on female anatomy. This image shows the clitoris internally. It starts as the little bulb at the top of the labia. But that's a tiny fraction of the full organ. The rest splays out, encircling the urethra and vagina.

http://api.ning.com/files/Y7OZBoCrhz...is3580x491.png

Now the clit is responsible for the vast majority of pleasure in sex for women. But it only encircles the first couple of inches of the vagina. How do you stimulate the internal sections of the clit better then? By putting more pressure on the walls of the vagina, thus hitting the clit better. You do with with more girth, not length. Length with maybe give a bit more pleasure, since you can hit the A-spot etc, beneath the cervix. But not nearly as well a bit of extra girth does.

Inb4 I'm swarmed by horny TSR girls

[Lucia.]

(Original post by Aisha~~)
Girth is more important. Let's have a little lesson on female anatomy. This image shows the clitoris internally. It starts as the little bulb at the top of the labia. But that's a tiny fraction of the full organ. The rest splays out, encircling the urethra and vagina.

http://api.ning.com/files/Y7OZBoCrhz...is3580x491.png

Now the clit is responsible for the vast majority of pleasure in sex for women. But it only encircles the first couple of inches of the vagina. How do you stimulate the internal sections of the clit better then? By putting more pressure on the walls of the vagina, thus hitting the clit better. You do with with more girth, not length. Length with maybe give a bit more pleasure, since you can hit the A-spot etc, beneath the cervix. But not nearly as well a bit of extra girth does.

Inb4 I'm swarmed by horny TSR girls

Thank ****ing God. Please educate the rest of the male race. hahaha




Thank you

[bloomblaze]

(Original post by Lucia.)
It has some importance to sexual pleasure, that is true. It really depends on how the woman likes to get off. For example, I'd want one that wasn't too small. I'm only being honest - doesn't have to be massive though.

Its importance in a relationship? = zero.

Big penises don't make romance last longer.

I disagree with the last 2 sentences.(and so do other women)

[Lucia.]

(Original post by bloomblaze)
I disagree with the last 2 sentences.

Why's that?

Although I agree that getting off is important for a satisfying romantic relationship.