[Aisha~~]

(Original post by Lucia.)
Thank ****ing God. Please educate the rest of the male race. hahaha




Thank you

I'll leave you to argue for how important it is in a relationship lol. I don't think I'm in a position to argue that point, so to speak...

[bloomblaze]

(Original post by Lucia.)
Why's that?

Although I agree that getting off is important for a satisfying romantic relationship.

Women find a mans penis size important. Even in relationships.

[Sharpshooter]

(Original post by bloomblaze)
Women find a mans penis size important.

But why though? Personally I find the concept incredibley stupid and shallow. Very overrated issue. Much much more important things in defining a man.

[bloomblaze]

(Original post by Sharpshooter)
But why though? Personally I find the concept incredibley stupid and shallow. Very overrated issue. Much much more important things in defining a man.

Yours is big, right?

[Sharpshooter]

(Original post by bloomblaze)
Yours is big, right?

I don't know. I've never had my penis checked/observed at by a girl, so I have absolutely no clue heh heh. All I can on is self measurement with a ruler.

But its irrevelant factor on what determines who I am as a person. If I girl asked what my penis size quite early on I would frown heavily I'll be honest. I mean its a little sluttish isn't it?

[Lucia.]

(Original post by bloomblaze)
Women find a mans penis size important. Even in relationships.

Not really. Once you're in a relationship, you know what the man's penis looks like. I don't think you'd be in anything long-term if you weren't sexually satisfied.

It depends on the woman's sexual preferences too. Some women for whatever reason don't enjoy oral sex. They might want to get more from penile penetration. Some women go more for vaginal orgasm than clitoral stimulation - depends.

But being a good lover is not directly related to your anatomy. Most men can reach the g-spot. It's about being attentive enough and focussed enough on your partner's pleasure, and getting really into it in a manly way (don't know how to describe it)...A lot of guys don't get that - they think all you have to do is thrust really hard. Confidence helps A LOT...anyway veering into sex tips...

But the point is that there is more to it than having a penis, even a big one. As I said, girth is far more important. There's more than one way to sexually satisfy a woman.

So why do you think size is that important? Is this drawn from any experiences you've had?

[Lucia.]

(Original post by bloomblaze)
Yours is big, right?

A lot of men think their penis is smaller than it is because they're looking at it from the wrong angle. Honestly, love what you've got. Focus on being a great lover in general and giving a woman an orgasm. Women REALLY dig that ****.

[Rasputina]

(Original post by Classical Liberal)
I am not a lady, but here is an interesting thing to think about. The vagina is not really designed for stimulation. It is designed for passing a human being through. The vagina's primary function is to squeeze a little person through it, not to give pleasure.

The area for a woman designed for pleasure is really around the front such as the clitorus, that is where the nerve endings are. The notion that to stimulate a woman you need to get "deep" is a myth.

For actual stimulation length is largely irrelevant (except if maybe you are 2" or something really unfortunate) however it might be pyschologically important for a woman.

I'd argue that it's more likely to psychologically important for a man. As the OP said, these concerns are primarily raised by men. Probably because a man regards his penis as the ultimate sign of his virility. Poll opinions usually suggest women are more concerned with girth, rather than length. If you're the sort of person to worry about this, and a lot of men have shown that they are, that's going to open a whole other can of worms. "Is my penis thick enough?"

[Lucia.]

The solution is just to become as great at sex as you possibly can - then you can pride yourself on your sexual prowess rather than your anatomy.

[bloomblaze]

(Original post by Lucia.)
Not really. Once you're in a relationship, you know what the man's penis looks like. I don't think you'd be in anything long-term if you weren't sexually satisfied.

It depends on the woman's sexual preferences too. Some women for whatever reason don't enjoy oral sex. They might want to get more from penile penetration. Some women go more for vaginal orgasm than clitoral stimulation - depends.

But being a good lover is not directly related to your anatomy. Most men can reach the g-spot. It's about being attentive enough and focussed enough on your partner's pleasure, and getting really into it in a manly way (don't know how to describe it)...A lot of guys don't get that - they think all you have to do is thrust really hard. Confidence helps A LOT...anyway veering into sex tips...

But the point is that there is more to it than having a penis, even a big one. As I said, girth is far more important. There's more than one way to sexually satisfy a woman.

So why do you think size is that important? Is this drawn from any experiences you've had?

Im a virgin.

Most women seem to want a big one.

[Lucia.]

(Original post by bloomblaze)
Im a virgin.

Most women seem to want a big one.

You're a virgin so you're not experienced enough to know what women really like. Listen to what you learn from them and no one else.

I guarantee that if someone made a poll for: "Is penis size the most important part of a good sexual experience?", that any woman with half a brain would say "No".

[Classical Liberal]

(Original post by Rasputina)
I'd argue that it's more likely to psychologically important for a man.

God yes. It is just like girls. Girls are more concerned about the size of their boobs than a guy is.

That is not to say guys do not care about boobs and their size. They certainly do. So does the same apply to a guys penis for girls? And to what extent. Interesting questions that cannot really be answered through polling or anything like that. The only way to know would be to use an ultrasound scan

I cannot imagine girls really care that much, but you never know, they might really like the idea that their man has got a biggen. They might think about their friends partners penises and feel smug if their man had a bigger one.

Obviously no normal girl is going to admit to such thoughts, but I have strong suspicions that they do think like this. Girls are just as filthy and competitive as guys deep down

[bloomblaze]

(Original post by Lucia.)
You're a virgin so you're not experienced enough to know what women really like. Listen to what you learn from them and no one else.

I guarantee that if someone made a poll for: "Is penis size the most important part of a good sexual experience?", that any woman with half a brain would say "No".

My virginity doesnt mean I dont know what women like.

Women tend to like a big one, there is plenty of evidence of this.

[Gnobe]

(Original post by Classical Liberal)
I cannot imagine girls really care that much, but you never know, they might really like the idea that their man has got a biggen. They might think about their friends partners penises and feel smug if their man had a bigger one.

But the key question is what defines a "biggen"?

[Lucia.]

(Original post by bloomblaze)
My virginity doesnt mean I dont know what women like.

Women tend to like a big one, there is plenty of evidence of this.

What I was suggesting was that what the media and porn industry says women like, is different from what women actually like....you know if you asked them!

When you have sex you'll realise that porn is a crap indication of how to be good in bed. That's all I meant.

[Jakeh]

(Original post by Lucia.)
What I was suggesting was that what the media and porn industry says women like, is different from what women actually like....you know if you asked them!

When you have sex you'll realise that porn is a crap indication of how to be good in bed. That's all I meant.

you're spot on and any guy who is that obsessed about penis size should worry as you said about other things sexually than the size of their dick.

[bloomblaze]

(Original post by Lucia.)
What I was suggesting was that what the media and porn industry says women like, is different from what women actually like....you know if you asked them!

When you have sex you'll realise that porn is a crap indication of how to be good in bed. That's all I meant.

I didnt mention porn.

Women in real life say they like them big.

women say they like big ones on internet forums.

Casual sex sites/dating sites etc have many women listing a big penis as what they want in a man

[Sharpshooter]

(Original post by bloomblaze)
Casual sex sites/dating sites etc have many women listing a big penis as what they want in a man

No they don't. The vast majority of them don't. Seriously.

If a girl enquired about my size fairly early I would be a bit put off I must admit.

[Lucia.]

(Original post by Jakeh)
you're spot on and any guy who is that obsessed about penis size should worry as you said about other things sexually than the size of their dick.

Exactly.

You went to the same school as my friend - how interesting. She's doing a PhD at Oxford now.

(Original post by bloomblaze)
Women in real life say they like them big.

women say they like big ones on internet forums.

Means nothing.

So they might like big penises. I guess they wouldn't dislike them...although really big can hurt to be honest.

Anyway, the fact they like big penises is only the half of it. If a guy thinks he can get by just on having a big penis, then he doesn't know how to get a woman off. Trust me.

[bloomblaze]

(Original post by Lucia.)
Exactly.

You went to the same school as my friend - how interesting. She's doing a PhD at Oxford now.




Means nothing.

So they might like big penises. I guess they wouldn't dislike them...although really big can hurt to be honest.

Anyway, the fact they like big penises is only the half of it. If a guy thinks he can get by just on having a big penis, then he doesn't know how to get a woman off. Trust me.

It doesnt mean nothing.

It means women like big penises and penis size matter- this is the point I was making in previous posts.