help!! apparently im cold and wet so he loses erection!
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help!! apparently im cold and wet so he loses erection!ok so ive been seeing this guy, first few times we had sex all good great, unfortunately ive only been with one guy before him so i have no idea what to do or whats what, he on the other hand has slept with over 70 girls is a sexpert and can go for hours and hours and come when he wants!
the first few times we had sex hed be goin on for an hour all good upto 4, sometimes 5 times a day and then come,recently he loses erection after about 5 mins and this keeps happening, he stops kisses me it comes back up wtf :/ after questioning him, hes said im too cold from inside and i wasnt like this before (i was not on the pill before and now i am) hes sensing a change as im really cold and too wet for him to do anything he jst feels like hes in a cold wet place(excellent self esteem booster, i already put myself down to a **** shag)
i also feel so inadequate around him, hes obviously used to so much better as he tells me that some girls can move themselves down there and make men come..:/ i dnt know anything his favorite position is girl on top and i cant even do that properly cz my legs hurt and i cant even feel his penis when im on top ever its like theres no sensation so i dont know what to do
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this has affected me a lot as i feel totally useless and i cant talk to him about it, cz its my fault for being cold and wet and nor can i practice on anyone else
SOMEONE HELP ME!!1
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Re: help!! apparently im cold and wet so he loses erection!He's an ********, not a 'sexpert'.
A body temperature thermometer, one of the mercury types, will show you're not "cold". Women's temperatures vary naturally by a fraction of a degree according to where they are in their cycle. Many women look out for the slight 'blip' in temperature that shows they've ovulated, but they need to use a very sensitive thermometer to do so and I defy anyone to tell the tiny differences via the very imperfect temperature sensor that is the penis. The pill is going to affect that cycle but - without looking it up - probably by smoothing the changes out, because they're hormone-driven.
Being able to hold off coming for hours is no use if you're making your partner feel utterly crap about themselves - he's got that one off pat.
My bet is that there's something he's not telling you. Whether that is he's seeing someone else or he knows he's got some STI or something else, I don't know. But if you're having sex without condoms with him, stop now. You've got the excuse that it might be the pill... -
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Re: help!! apparently im cold and wet so he loses erection!This.(Original post by unprinted)
He's an ********, not a 'sexpert'.
A body temperature thermometer, one of the mercury types, will show you're not "cold". Women's temperatures vary naturally by a fraction of a degree according to where they are in their cycle. Many women look out for the slight 'blip' in temperature that shows they've ovulated, but they need to use a very sensitive thermometer to do so and I defy anyone to tell the tiny differences via the very imperfect temperature sensor that is the penis. The pill is going to affect that cycle but - without looking it up - probably by smoothing the changes out, because they're hormone-driven.
Being able to hold off coming for hours is no use if you're making your partner feel utterly crap about themselves - he's got that one off pat.
My bet is that there's something he's not telling you. Whether that is he's seeing someone else or he knows he's got some STI or something else, I don't know. But if you're having sex without condoms with him, stop now. You've got the excuse that it might be the pill...
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Re: help!! apparently im cold and wet so he loses erection!maybe use that to your advantage and play him at his own sick game and make fun of his small penis!(Original post by Anonymous)
ok so ive been seeing this guy, first few times we had sex all good great, unfortunately ive only been with one guy before him so i have no idea what to do or whats what, he on the other hand has slept with over 70 girls is a sexpert and can go for hours and hours and come when he wants!
the first few times we had sex hed be goin on for an hour all good upto 4, sometimes 5 times a day and then come,recently he loses erection after about 5 mins and this keeps happening, he stops kisses me it comes back up wtf :/ after questioning him, hes said im too cold from inside and i wasnt like this before (i was not on the pill before and now i am) hes sensing a change as im really cold and too wet for him to do anything he jst feels like hes in a cold wet place(excellent self esteem booster, i already put myself down to a **** shag)
i also feel so inadequate around him, hes obviously used to so much better as he tells me that some girls can move themselves down there and make men come..:/ i dnt know anything his favorite position is girl on top and i cant even do that properly cz my legs hurt and i cant even feel his penis when im on top ever its like theres no sensation so i dont know what to do(
this has affected me a lot as i feel totally useless and i cant talk to him about it, cz its my fault for being cold and wet and nor can i practice on anyone else
SOMEONE HELP ME!!1
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Re: help!! apparently im cold and wet so he loses erection!That's an awful thing for a guy to say to you! He's just hiding a problem of his own! He should not be your boyfriend. Boyfriends should give you high self esteem - not lower it.
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Re: help!! apparently im cold and wet so he loses erection!How do you know she doesn't have a bucket?(Original post by pinkangelgirl)
maybe use that to your advantage and play him at his own sick game and make fun of his small penis!
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