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    Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    I am now quite paranoid that i might have caught something, i ejaculated in her mouth. We had sex and used the condom but the oral was unprotected, i would have decided to use protection for the oral had i been sober but i was so drunk.
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    What sti's/std's are a possibility? I am worrying so much man.
  3. tooti's Avatar
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    Only way to know for sure is to go to a clinic and get yourself tested, a lot of sti's don't have symptoms so its best just to make sure. If you're going to have unprotected sex at any point you really should make sure both you and your partner are sti free. Not very romantic but i'd rather be safe than sorry!
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    Honestly? Google it. You'll get answers a lot faster. Personally I wouldn't worry. if you freak out whenever you have unprotected oral sex you're going to have a very tense sex life. Relax dude. Caution is good, but not in this kind of abundance.
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    (Original post by James4d)
    Honestly? Google it. You'll get answers a lot faster. Personally I wouldn't worry. if you freak out whenever you have unprotected oral sex you're going to have a very tense sex life. Relax dude. Caution is good, but not in this kind of abundance.
    I hate googling because i just scare myself. ****s sake, i don't have any symptoms but i just feel very pissed off at myself. I can't ask her either outright because i don't know her.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I am now quite paranoid that i might have caught something, i ejaculated in her mouth. We had sex and used the condom but the oral was unprotected, i would have decided to use protection for the oral had i been sober but i was so drunk.
    Why didn't you use the condom on your mouth? Some people, eh?
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    chances are slim. No worth worrying about.

    tbh, doesn't everyone do this?
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    (Original post by Dirac Delta Function)
    chances are slim. No worth worrying about.

    tbh, doesn't everyone do this?
    Yeah I have to be fair.
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    Who the hell would want oral with a condom? I'd rather just give up.

    Dude, the chances anything bad happening are very slim and with no symptoms even slimmer. If you're that worried just go and get an STI check.
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    (Original post by tooti)
    Only way to know for sure is to go to a clinic and get yourself tested, a lot of sti's don't have symptoms so its best just to make sure. If you're going to have unprotected sex at any point you really should make sure both you and your partner are sti free. Not very romantic but i'd rather be safe than sorry!
    If you go to a clinic don't get a urethra scrape unless 100% necessary. I had one and it was an awful experience (like being violated) and was hurting loads for a couple of months. Even now eight months later still doesn't quite feel ok. Only a few months ago I would keep playing it over in my mind like a thought I didn't quite want to though...it was really bad for me.
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    Odds are very low unless she's got an open cut in her mouth or a coldsore. Go get checked if you need peace of mind.
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I hate googling because i just scare myself. ****s sake, i don't have any symptoms but i just feel very pissed off at myself. I can't ask her either outright because i don't know her.

    Look the long and short of it is that you can get an sti through oral sex, and some are symptomless, but the chances are very slim. Get yourself checked out if you want to be 100% sure, but in future I would say know who you are sleeping with a bit better, or simply dont partake in oral sex at all (that is if you remain paranoid).
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    Was she drunk too btw?
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    (Original post by snozzle)
    urethra scrape
    Actually just squealed in agony just from reading that
  15. Miss.V's Avatar
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    Protected oral???

    What?
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    (Original post by Miss.V)
    Protected oral???

    What?
    That's probably the biggest turnoff there could possibly be, her mouth on a plastic covered dick.
  17. Miss.V's Avatar
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    (Original post by jam277)
    That's probably the biggest turnoff there could possibly be, her mouth on a plastic covered dick.
    I seriously have never heard of it
  18. Anon420's Avatar
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    I've never used protection for oral, only for vaginal intercourse.
  19. tooti's Avatar
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    (Original post by Miss.V)
    I seriously have never heard of it
    Well my advice to the op is to use protection, but I only had protected oral once when I had a coldsore on my mouth, I think it can give the guy an sti? I'm not sure but we used a condom anyway ... for 2 seconds then I stopped, absolutely horrible.

    But i'd never give a one night stand oral anyway ew.
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    Re: Had oral unprotected with a girl in a one night stand.
    (Original post by Miss.V)
    I seriously have never heard of it
    Tbf, they do make flavoured condoms, but still seriously, that's terrible, I'll never be able to finish.
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