[Anonymous]

Scenario: your on a night out incredibly drunk and end up bringing a girl/guy back to yours.
On returning, they are in your bed and you have sobered up enough to realise that under no circumstance do you want to have sex with this person.
If you were the rejector how would you go about this? And if you were the one being rejected what would you do?

I only ask because my friend brought a guy home the other day about 2:30am and then she came in my room and asked what was she meant to do, because she didnt want to sleep with him and he kept trying it on and he was in her bed. In the end she just told him she wanted to go to sleep and he left the next morning.

I obviously found this completely hilarious because i can only imagine how awkward it was (kind of stupid of her too!!) and i felt really sorry for the guy!

So what would you do if you were a) her- didnt want to have sex with someone who has clearly come back for sex.
b) you had gone back to someones for sex and they have changed their mind?

[Lucia.]

I'd just say that I had to get up early the next morning so I needed to sleep.

[fredscarecrow]

I'd probably just be honest and say either the mood had gone or I'd changed my mind. they might get a bit pissed off, but at the end of the day you're probably not going to see them again, and you're perfectly within your rights to turn down sex.

[forgetamine]

I've been there, I just went to sleep and told him to go the next morning.

[Dirac Delta Function]

This is only a dilemma a girl would face.

[imMcLovin]

if you a girl... you on your period......

if you a man...... pointless.... they aint refusing sex lol

[The Puppet Master]

Probably say I was feeling ill, get my fit flatmate (who happens to be a doctor) to make up some bizarre illness and say it's contagious and hope they believe it and leave.

Okay I may have stolen that idea from a certain famous (awesome) tv series... But it worked on that!

[Pitt1988]

Tell them you've got aids.

[Studentus-anonymous]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Scenario: your on a night out incredibly drunk and end up bringing a girl/guy back to yours.
On returning, they are in your bed and you have sobered up enough to realise that under no circumstance do you want to have sex with this person.
If you were the rejector how would you go about this? And if you were the one being rejected what would you do?

I only ask because my friend brought a guy home the other day about 2:30am and then she came in my room and asked what was she meant to do, because she didnt want to sleep with him and he kept trying it on and he was in her bed. In the end she just told him she wanted to go to sleep and he left the next morning.

I obviously found this completely hilarious because i can only imagine how awkward it was (kind of stupid of her too!!) and i felt really sorry for the guy!

So what would you do if you were a) her- didnt want to have sex with someone who has clearly come back for sex.
b) you had gone back to someones for sex and they have changed their mind?

I've never been drunk enough to try and sleep with someone I wouldn't actually want to sleep with.

Not for lack of trying mind.


As your friend did I'd probably just go to sleep, or if it's that big a deal get them a taxi.

Or lie.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Scenario: your on a night out incredibly drunk and end up bringing a girl/guy back to yours.
On returning, they are in your bed and you have sobered up enough to realise that under no circumstance do you want to have sex with this person.
If you were the rejector how would you go about this? And if you were the one being rejected what would you do?

I only ask because my friend brought a guy home the other day about 2:30am and then she came in my room and asked what was she meant to do, because she didnt want to sleep with him and he kept trying it on and he was in her bed. In the end she just told him she wanted to go to sleep and he left the next morning.

I obviously found this completely hilarious because i can only imagine how awkward it was (kind of stupid of her too!!) and i felt really sorry for the guy!

So what would you do if you were a) her- didnt want to have sex with someone who has clearly come back for sex.
b) you had gone back to someones for sex and they have changed their mind?

This happened to me except I was back at hers. In fact, it happened twice (with the same girl). The first time I was absolutely mortalled on Halloween and ended up back at hers and there was a party going on and she tried to introduce me to people but I just went into her bedroom as I couldn't be bothered with the usual niceties you might indulge in when sober. She went outside to smoke and so I stood on her bed and opened the skylight and spewed on the roof (my bad) and looked up to see her looking at me from the garden. This sobered me up a bit. She came back up to her room (still keen apparently) and I was now unkeen, mainly because a girl still keen for a guy after that goes fairly down in my estimations. So I said I had to go and she was like "aw what! Why!? Stay!" and I just started walking to the door and let myself out, she came to the door after me and shouted "when will I see you next?!" I slowly started jogging and shouted "call me!!" and she said "I dont have your number!!!" so I did the hand-sign for phone and said "yeah call me!!" as if I didn't hear her.

Then, one night I was in bed and I got texts from a number I didn't have at like 3am from a girl who kept harrassing me to come out or come over to hers and I kept saying no or not replying but the barrage of texts continued so I said "I don't get out of bed for less than a 3some" thinking it would scare her off but she said okay and that she had a friend staying at hers who was keen. Thinking it was maybe an old flame whose number I'd deleted I asked the address and drove over. Big mistake. It was the halloween girl who got my number off of a "friend in common" on facebook. We went into the house (as I couldn't just turn round at the door as I was too sober to be an *******) and I was wondering how I could save some face and get out of there when she brought up how 4 years ago she used to go out with a guy I knew and she found out because he was another mutual facebook friend. I did the whole "oh my god, I didnt know that! We can't do anything now, that's out of order..." etc, she walked me to the door, said what a nice guy I was, bish bash bosh dodged a bullet.

[Pitt1988]

So, correct me if I'm mistaken, you turned down a threesome?

[Anonymous]

so what would everyone do if they were the person being turned down??

[Agenda Suicide]

(Original post by Anonymous)
so what would everyone do if they were the person being turned down??

Cry probably...

[EGjeff]

Fumble around a bit and make an apology for being too drunk to get it up, roll over and fall asleep.

Although the whiskey dick thing tends to happen when I do actually want it haha, can't win.

[tooti]

(Original post by Anonymous)
so what would everyone do if they were the person being turned down??

Depends on what the excuse was, i'd probably feel a bit embarrassed then get a taxi home as soon as possible! Then over-analyse the whole situation the next day of course

[Dancelikejones]

so what would everyone do if they were the person being turned down??

I'd probably flounce out there and then. A walk of shame isn't cool but a walk of shame when you didn't get any?? no. not the way forward.