how many is too many??

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  1. Anonymous's Avatar
    how many is too many??
    how many one night stands is too many say for a 19 year old girl?? and would having like five one night stands change how boys see you?? :confused:
  2. Lucia.'s Avatar
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    Re: how many is too many??
    Anything you did sexually shouldn't have any difference to a relationship you get into. The past is the past. I'd say that it's only too many if you start being less discriminating and **** anything that moves, or if you're doing it for a self-esteem boosting, rather than because you simply want to have sex.

    Casual sex isn't morally right. But it isn't wrong either.

    If anyone thinks a person is less capable of love because they like sex, then they're narrow-minded.
  3. Tizz's Avatar
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    Re: how many is too many??
    I guess they're good for gaining experience...for when the right guy comes along.

    I've never had a one night stand, although I don't think it would effect any future relationships I might have.
  4. SugarPuffs's Avatar
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    Re: how many is too many??
    Positive: When it comes to dating; you're more experienced in the bedroom (you know what guys like)

    Negative: It may put some guys off, led to believe you only think of sex as a casual thing and nothing important.
  5. Lucia.'s Avatar
    • Vengeful, Imperial Overlord of The Student Room
    • Location: Scotland
    Re: how many is too many??
    Sugarpuffs tells it like it is.


    OP, when the right person comes along, it won't be an issue. I am sure of this.
  6. Ben_LiveYourDreams's Avatar
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    Re: how many is too many??
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    how many one night stands is too many say for a 19 year old girl?? and would having like five one night stands change how boys see you?? :confused:
    Yeah the past is the past.

    My past has huuuuuggggeeee amounts of morally grey areas, but it is not consistant with the current me.

    So I'd want a mutually exclusive relationship, where I know a girl will not cheat on me. However that depends on what she's like at the moment, rather then what she has done in the past.
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