Going to go out to a night club first time
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Re: Going to go out to a night club first time
Nobody will look at you in the club, everyone is either drunk or having a good time with their friends so don't worry about that.
Expect loud music and not being able to hear anyone. I'd suggest a few drinks (if you drink that is...) to loosen you up a bit, so you can dance and have fun without worrying what anybody else thinks.
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Re: Going to go out to a night club first timeBooze is the key(Original post by Wulf chan)
This probably sounds really stupid but yeah I'm kind of nervous. It's just I have no idea what to expect, also I'm quite self conscious around people my age. I always get worried when I'm out that some one will say something horrible to me or laugh at me. Yeah this is stupid but I got bullied a lot when I was younger and still haven't really got over it. I'm just worried that people will say something to me
I feel silly.
I just wish I could not care what people think. I will be with my friends but I guess it's just first time nerves or something.
pre-drink like a boss, never buy drink in clubs they rip you like theres no tomorrow -_-
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Re: Going to go out to a night club first time
I'm sure you'll be fine.
Once the bouncers have finished their strip search and you get through the doors people only stare at you for the first hour or so.
I see you're from Leicester and I'm sure your friends would have already warned you but just a little reminder.... try to stay away from rapey Steve and crazy Joan who are often seen in that area near the main clubs. If you don't disturb them they wont disturb you.
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I would say that you stay close to one of your friends just in case, as in many clubs you will get the odd guy/s trying to touch you up or what not.
And don't worry about any one staring or saying things to you. It's way too loud and people are either too busy or too drunk.
No matter what Have fun
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I'm 17 and have been to clubs simply because I'm tall and can get served. It's the best environment to be in, just enjoy yourself and have a few drinks and you'll feel comfortable in no time, believe me

But if you don't wanna get too out of control, avoid the vodka shots at the start of the night because they creep up on you.
Personally I love all the vodka shots during the night
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Re: Going to go out to a night club first time
You'll be just fine. Dress well, but remember to wear what you feel comfortable in.
Just smile and try to look confident. A couple of drinks and you'll feel just at home.
And if you don't enjoy yourself, don't worry, not many people like going clubbing anyway. -
I am from Leicester and can legally start going clubs etc in a couple of weeks. Any idea where rapey steve tends to go so i can stay very far away? Crazy joan doesnt sound so bad(Original post by amime)
I'm sure you'll be fine.
Once the bouncers have finished their strip search and you get through the doors people only stare at you for the first hour or so.
I see you're from Leicester and I'm sure your friends would have already warned you but just a little reminder.... try to stay away from rapey Steve and crazy Joan who are often seen in that area near the main clubs. If you don't disturb them they wont disturb you.
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Re: Going to go out to a night club first timeWho are they?! I am a fresher at De Montfort starting September. They sound like right characters...(Original post by amime)
I'm sure you'll be fine.
I see you're from Leicester and I'm sure your friends would have already warned you but just a little reminder.... try to stay away from rapey Steve and crazy Joan who are often seen in that area near the main clubs. If you don't disturb them they wont disturb you.
OP, have pre-drinks with friends if you can, it'll make you feel at ease as you go into the nightclub and you'll probs play a few drinking games/have fun so it'll make you feel better. People will be enjoying themselves and not really take notice of you much (not that you're invisible or s/t) so just have a good time and dance and sing and just have an amazing night. -
Re: Going to go out to a night club first time
Negatives:
too loud to talk, dancing to music is only for exhibitionists or people with rhythm (neither applying to me), you always get that tosser flailing around with his elbows too near your head etc
positives:
drunk girls are really quite forward and if you're scrawny and not particularly attractive (both better descriptions of me), it could be just about the only female attention you're likely to get -
Re: Going to go out to a night club first time(Original post by amime)
I'm sure you'll be fine.
Once the bouncers have finished their strip search and you get through the doors people only stare at you for the first hour or so.
I see you're from Leicester and I'm sure your friends would have already warned you but just a little reminder.... try to stay away from rapey Steve and crazy Joan who are often seen in that area near the main clubs. If you don't disturb them they wont disturb you.
What are you talking about? -
Re: Going to go out to a night club first timeYour sig sucks.(Original post by whitestgirlalive)
Who are they?! I am a fresher at De Montfort starting September. They sound like right characters...
OP, have pre-drinks with friends if you can, it'll make you feel at ease as you go into the nightclub and you'll probs play a few drinking games/have fun so it'll make you feel better. People will be enjoying themselves and not really take notice of you much (not that you're invisible or s/t) so just have a good time and dance and sing and just have an amazing night. -
Re: Going to go out to a night club first time
be prepared for people to bump into you a lot and not apologize
and step on you bloody toesss
but as you're male it's not as bad
first few times i went out i got so pissed off and wanted to smack everyone in sight but you get used it and realize it's the norm haha
I feel silly.
pre-drink like a boss, never buy drink in clubs they rip you like theres no tomorrow -_-
