Do gay people speak differently?

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  1. Newbie123's Avatar
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    Do gay people speak differently?
    Do you think a person's sexuality has anything to do with how a person speaks?



    I knew within 8 seconds, just based on how he pronounced his words.
    Last edited by Newbie123; 21-06-2012 at 18:25.
  2. No Man's Avatar
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    Re: Do gay people speak differently?
    No. Stephen Fry is a good example of a homosexual that doesn't put on the dumb camp voice that Gok Wan and Alan Carr have.
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    Yes they sound like girls.


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    Re: Do gay people speak differently?
    Someone wanted to do their English language investigation on this topic in my class; she was saddened when she found out it really has nothing to do with sexuality: but more who you associate with on a daily basis. A heterosexual man exposed to women will converge his voice to sound more like their peers (female friends) and may also develop some mannerisms; the same goes for homosexual men, albeit more common, due to media portrayal of homosexual men (like No Man stated). Yet this also happens naturally due to adult development.
    http://listening-talker.org/workshop...ts/oral/F8.pdf
    http://themediaonline.co.za/2012/06/...ices-in-media/
    Last edited by Id and Ego seek; 21-06-2012 at 18:26.
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    Re: Do gay people speak differently?
    the OP is confusing 'being gay' with being a 'nelly' or 'swish'

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swish_(slang)
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    Re: Do gay people speak differently?
    (Original post by Id and Ego seek)
    Someone wanted to do their English language investigation on this topic in my class; she was saddened when she found out it really has nothing to do with sexuality: but more who you associate with on a daily basis.
    I've never met a straight guy who sounds like Alan Carr but a few gay ones who do.
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    I've never met a straight guy who sounds like Alan Carr but a few gay ones who do.
    Your point? I have. I know quite a few 'meterosexual' men with the same stereotypical verbal mannerisms and voice as Carr and other 'camp men'. It's quite cute, aha. As I said, less common.
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    I know gay men who speak camply, I also know effeminate straight men who speak camply. So there you go.


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    (Original post by Id and Ego seek)
    Your point? I have. I know quite a few 'meterosexual' men with the same stereotypical verbal mannerisms and voice as Carr and other 'camp men'. It's quite cute, aha. As I said, less common.
    You can say all you want but it won't convince me otherwise lol. Sure the 'camp gay man' is a stereotype but like most stereotypes based not a little on reality.
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    Well, there used to be Polari. I don't think that's what you're getting at though.
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    Re: Do gay people speak differently?
    (Original post by snozzle)
    You can say all you want but it won't convince me otherwise lol. Sure the 'camp gay man' is a stereotype but like most stereotypes based not a little on reality.
    I won't convince you that heterosexual men who adopt camp stereotypes and mannerisms, including accent, dialect and register exist? OK.
    Well yeah.
    Last edited by Id and Ego seek; 21-06-2012 at 19:11.
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    Re: Do gay people speak differently?
    Some gay people do some gay people dont. Its like saying do all straight men have deep voices and sound brawly
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    *Waiting for some form of homophobic abuse..*
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    I don't think you can every really be sure judging purely by voice, sometimes a person has a camp sounding voice & isn't gay, and vice versa!
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    Re: Do gay people speak differently?
    Well, I've never met a gay man who doesn't speak properly...
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    Re: Do gay people speak differently?
    Hmm, the reporter mentioned his sexual orientation in the first 4 seconds of the interview, OP. Perhaps that gave it away?

    Anyway, I think the deal is - everyone is different, but certain stereotypes occur more in the "gay world" and certain stereotypes occur more in the "straight world". Take this for example:

    Look at these two heterosexual guys:

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    They're completely different.

    Now look at these two homosexual guys:

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    Again, they're completely different.

    The only thing that can make a difference is who people aspire to be like. If you're homosexual you may choose to model yourself after other famous, etc. homosexuals you've seen or met. Same things goes for heterosexuals.
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    Re: Do gay people speak differently?
    It probably affects some people. But then clearly doesn't affect the greater majority of LGBT people.
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    Re: Do gay people speak differently?
    (Original post by snozzle)
    I've never met a straight guy who sounds like Alan Carr but a few gay ones who do.
    Michael McIntyre is pretty camp tbh.
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    Some of them do sound a bit feminine and overtly gay and then you get butch/ articulate gay people to.
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