[Banana mouse]

People with BPD are scared so being left alone/abandoned so would you agree that it's hard on me that I can only see my girlfriend once a week and I have to be supervised by an adult at all times


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[Anonymous]

Why do you have to be supervised by an adult?

[Banana mouse]

Because a few weeks ago I cracked and I went into my bedroom and pulled out a razor and started to harm myself when my girlfriend was there and her father is now scared that I will pull out a razor and do it again or do it to her. (I would never ever do it to her)


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[_Shmiley]

Sorry, but what is BDP? I've tried googling it but nothing...


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[Noodlzzz]

(Original post by _Shmiley)
Sorry, but what is BDP? I've tried googling it but nothing...


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Borderline personality disorder (BPD)

[jenny7]

Sorry to hear that. Though I don't know what BPD is, it seems that you need to see the doctor immediately. Not mean to be rude, but you can't make sure that you crack again.

[_Shmiley]

I see, thank you. You need to see a doctor, they can help. When you do see your girlfriend show that you're able to be calm and relaxed and fine. They will start letting you see her more then, or maybe see if you can have more supervised visits and say how upsetting it is for you. It might help, they're just trying to help in the best interests to protect both party's.


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[Banana mouse]

She is the only person who can keep me calm its just on that day it didn't work. They don't really believe it is BPD they just think I'm in a mood with everyone, a doctor comes to my house every Monday to talk to me so I'm seeing him later.
Even if I show I am calm and I improve they will still be the same they hate me and they don't like me seeing her so it's hard really


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[Banana mouse]

I havent been diagnosed with it but I show each and every symptom of BPD
The doctors think I'm like this because my father left me with my mum when I was 4 Yeats old


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[Banana mouse]

So yes I do believe I have BPD


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[A Cat]

(Original post by Banana mouse)
So yes I do believe I have BPD


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And do you recognise the power of belief? And do you recognise that belief is a choice? Consider the preacher who believes it is his duty to save you.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Banana mouse)
So yes I do believe I have BPD


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Is this from an internet diagnosis?
I dont think I have borderline personality but apparently i do. Im being forced to go to dialectical behavioural therapy. Have you been referred? You can go for me if you like it sounds like a pile of *******s.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Banana mouse)
I havent been diagnosed with it but I show each and every symptom of BPD
The doctors think I'm like this because my father left me with my mum when I was 4 Yeats old


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Sorry to hear this.
Its true what they say parents really can screw up your life.

[Banana mouse]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Is this from an internet diagnosis?
I dont think I have borderline personality but apparently i do. Im being forced to go to dialectical behavioural therapy. Have you been referred? You can go for me if you like it sounds like a pile of *******s.

I guess you could say its from the Internet
For ages I was being bad and I thought it was just completely normal then I started to get depressed (the doctor said it was desperation) then I started to have anxiety attacks (again this was diagnosed by the doctor) so I decided to look into it and I showed all the sighs mood swings, unable to sleep, seeing things in black and whit and do on...


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[Banana mouse]

*seeing life in black and white

Meh my it kind of sucks he came to see me last week and my girlfriend came with me and I went really depressed and my father kepted touching me on the back and I hate people touching me so I became really aggressive so he on longer sees me as his son. So now pretty much he is trying to get these people to take me away from my mouthed :/


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[AverageExcellence]

Its not really hard on you, the precautions are for both of your safety. Maybe in time theyll relax the arrangement

[bullettheory]

I can see how that would be hard for you. I have BPD and when I can't see my girlfriend or people I am really close to I panic about abandonment and that if they aren't with me then they must hate me, and I get very jealous, so yes I can see how it would be hard for you. Could you talk to the dr who sees you about how you feel? Or the person who diagnosed you with BPD, ask them what your care plan is? Maybe DBT or CBT could help you?


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[Banana mouse]

So it's not just me, I get really jealous, I absolutely hate all my girlfriends friends because they see her more often then me.
I have but they just say deal with it, it could be worse, you too clingy etc ill talk to them again but I think I'll just get the same answer


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[bullettheory]

(Original post by Banana mouse)
So it's not just me, I get really jealous, I absolutely hate all my girlfriends friends because they see her more often then me.
I have but they just say deal with it, it could be worse, you too clingy etc ill talk to them again but I think I'll just get the same answer


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Who is this your talking to? Is it your GP? I imagine if you've been diagnosed with a personality disorder you would of seen a psychiatrist, as they are the only ones who can diagnose this type of stuff? Would you be able to get in contact with them or another mental health professional like a CPN or social worker who may be better trained than whoever you are talking to. Even if you aren't with a mental health team you should be able to get therapy or counselling from your GP which could help you.


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[Banana mouse]

They go by the name 'mental health team'.
They just say if I start behaving I can see her more but that easier said then done


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