Did I do the right thing for ignoring this guy?

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  1. Lonelyone's Avatar
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    Did I do the right thing for ignoring this guy?
    Ive only just met him, I have spoken to him for about 30 mins on the bus. He told me he fancies me, I thought he was a weird and strange because he asked for my number and gave me many compliments! I just ignore his texts as I find it creepy, I haven't spoken or seen him for a few days. Anyway today when I was on the bus, he came on! I didn't look at him, he sat a few seats infront of me. He was with his friend and I heard him say ''The girl behind, I like''. His friend looked at me. When I got off the bus he said to me ''Hello (my name)'' and I just smiled and blanked him, I can tell he wanted to speak to me, he looked well sad. Did I do the right thing or am I being too harsh? I'm not sure if his a creep or just a shy guy?

    Yes I know I was harsh :| I feel soo bad now :confused:

    Btw his 22 and I am 17.
    Last edited by Lonelyone; 24-06-2012 at 19:06.
  2. Christofferz's Avatar
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    • Location: Stockholm, Sweden
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    Re: Did I do the right thing for ignoring this guy?
    Well, did it feel right? Who am I to tell what's right and what's wrong?
    But yes, yes you did good... Here's a cracker
  3. Iron Man's Avatar
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    • Location: West Midlands
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    Re: Did I do the right thing for ignoring this guy?
    It's a bit too direct to say he fancies you after just meeting with him. And so is it for him to give you compliments so soon, that's never a good sign and to be honest I think you did the right thing for ignoring him. He is a stranger and you know nothing about him, it's not a good idea to get too caught up after knowing very little about him.

    If you can (or want) ask who he is and tell him you ignored him because you weren't too sure who he was. Just don't get too attached and don't do anything that might aggravate him any further
    Last edited by Iron Man; 24-06-2012 at 23:00.
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