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  1. mrswomble's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    (Original post by amylea_94)
    That's such a shame, I've never heard of this before
    So will you not have children in the future??

    This was posted from The Student Room's Android App on my HTC Wildfire S A510e
    J

    It really is an awful fear to have. I dont know, at the minute I can't ever imagine being able to carry the child myself for 9 months and give birth to it, but that's something I'll have to think about in the future. When I get older ill definitely have some counselling to see if it can help, but there's always adoption which I love the thought of anyway there's plenty of children who need a family already.
  2. amylea_94's Avatar
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    (Original post by mrswomble)
    J

    It really is an awful fear to have. I dont know, at the minute I can't ever imagine being able to carry the child myself for 9 months and give birth to it, but that's something I'll have to think about in the future. When I get older ill definitely have some counselling to see if it can help, but there's always adoption which I love the thought of anyway there's plenty of children who need a family already.
    Adoption is a very good point, I hope you manage to overcome this fear and i hope you have an awesome future with an amazing family

    This was posted from The Student Room's Android App on my HTC Wildfire S A510e
  3. WilliamsQI's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    I belive I have what the threads poster has, I get very extermine anxiety when Aim out and about, I can only remain charm if on my own or with people I trust this is family and people I have know for along time and have been friends with. However I still would hate to die, and I think with help I could resolve it before its too late. I really hate the feeling of anxiety, it literally makes you incapable of talking to people or going to places. For some reason Iam ok on holidays. I suppose people my own age make me feel this way but adults to a less extent.
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    (Original post by mrswomble)
    Anything to do with pregnancy; the giant belly, pregnant women's belly buttons, carrying a child for 9 months, have something growing inside of me, actually giving birth. I'm so bad it's to the point where I can't watch tv shows with pregnant women on it, and it scares me because I feel like its not natural to feel this way.
    I have this too! I keep thinking I'm alone on this. Always had it, feel like something is wrong with me..
  5. sweeter than a cherry pie's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    Alzheimer's, or cancer, probably.

    Though I don't like the idea of ending up with "the wrong person" and the repercussions of that, either.
  6. youbonkers's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    The dark :cry2:

    Okay, not quite that drastic. I'm fine in my own home in the dark

    Just not anywhere else.
  7. tehFrance's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
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    What is your biggest fear?
    Rejection... not rejection from women with whom I have ONS (that is a simple numbers game) but rejection from women I like.
  8. Cherriesxo's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    At the moment, it's failing at University. Problem is I haven't even started yet. I suppose I need to stop worrying about it so much. I'm just know I'm going to mess it all up. I dread the moment my family drive away and I'm suddenly left there to depend entirely on myself and not anybody else. Pretty scary.
  9. Goody2Shoes-x's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    Being alone and unloved.
    Failing at everything in life.
    Spiders and insects.
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    (Original post by OK Computer)
    I have this too! I keep thinking I'm alone on this. Always had it, feel like something is wrong with me..
    Not at all, it's a common phobia, moreso in women (understandably). Hopefully one day you'll overcome it.
  11. MancBoy's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    Living a life full of regrets.

    Loneliness.

    Letting girls know I like them (and people knowing about it)
  12. siani-chan's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    It's been bugging me for a few years and I think the fear's growing - that I won't be able to be rid of depression. I'm scared of being 5 years/10 years down the line and still not free of it. I've already had it since I was 14, and I'm nearly 20 - I could so easily be 10 years down the line and still stuck with it. It's terrifying me more and more every day.

    Also, the pregnancy/children thing scares me too - I'm glad I'm not the only one. Not that I'd want anyone else to have to go through it. I'm not sure whether it's a fear or just a genuine dislike of the idea of it, but I don't know how I'd cope if I was pregnant. I wouldn't want to be seen or fussed over (so basically I'd end up being a recluse for 9 months+), I'd get freaked out having something growing inside me and aaagh.
    Last edited by siani-chan; 29-06-2012 at 04:44.
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    (Original post by mrswomble)
    Anything to do with pregnancy; the giant belly, pregnant women's belly buttons, carrying a child for 9 months, have something growing inside of me, actually giving birth. I'm so bad it's to the point where I can't watch tv shows with pregnant women on it, and it scares me because I feel like its not natural to feel this way.
    Dude, I have the exact same fear, I only know one other girl with this fear, it my deepest and worst one yet, I get the same feeling as you, my fear is to the extent where i cant even sau let alone hear the word 'pregnant' whitout reacting badly to it, and others think its just stupidly unnatural especially for a woman which sucks. I thank u for sharing this, I understand totally.
  14. Anonymous's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    Being considered ugly and unattractive meaning that no woman would ever want to be with me. Dying lonely and never having a girl accept me as well
  15. tu_es_jolie_x's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    I'm okay with the fact that I'm going to die eventually, it's getting old that really scares me.
  16. shumen9523's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    failing to overcome the challenges I face and letting other people down.
  17. je t'aime's Avatar
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    Re: TSR: What is your biggest fear?
    Being unhappy. Happiness is the key to success, or so my mum says.

    I'm generally a very happy person but I occasionally think how awful life would be if there wasn't happiness.
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