Thinking of becoming a male escort - Med student

Hi

I've just finished my 1st year of medschool. Current on my summer holidays now trying v.hard to find jobs and I'm getting some temp work but it's not enough to earn me enough money.
I'm in a committed happy relationship but lately I'm thinking that I should go into male escorting. Without sounding big headed, I'm a fairly good looking guy. I'm very good at interacting with people and I've been told that I'm great as sex too (although I have not yet decided whether I want to have sex for money :s-smilie:

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I just don't think I can afford to get through medschool without having some sort of income. My family offer me no financial support since we're a really poor family. My student loans are just not enough.

So I'm just wondering what sort of things does male escorting involve?
What are the chances of me actually getting hired?

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Reply 1

systeric

Original post by Anonymous

So I'm just wondering what sort of things does male escorting involve?
What are the chances of me actually getting hired?

It'll mostly involve getting bummed by burly looking guys named Kevin. If you're lucky you might have occasional business with Margaret, 63, retired.

Seriously, if guys could get paid for having sex with decent looking women, don't you think every Tom Dick and Harry would be doing it?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

I'm also worried whether it will have any effect on my career. Can oneone find out about this if one day I decide to get out and cancel all history e.g internet profile etc..?

Reply 3

Skorzeny

Original post by midlandsman

A thousand times this.

OP you are an idiot.

Reply 4

Jakeh

Original post by Anonymous

I'm also worried whether it will have any effect on my career. Can oneone find out about this if one day I decide to get out and cancel all history e.g internet profile etc..?

If they dig deep enough, then yeah of course. It shouldn't affect career prospects, just like being on a sugardaddy website shouldn't but it will. It's hardly a characteristic you want to have on a person, "oh he slept with people for money", not exactly doctor like..

Reply 5

duharvalgt

They will find out about it and it's unlikely you will make good money unless you have a perfect body or you are really good at sucking tip.

Reply 6

KahYong

The chances are... you will meet with lonely old women who has lost her husband and has a never ending sexual desire. Not like female escorts, the males have limited 'resources' unless you are ready to take some supplement to turn yourself into a sex machine.

If you are fine with old women and Viagra, go ahead.

I would rather work in some restaurants with a minimum wage.
But hey... It ain't gonna give you enough fund for med school. OMG~~

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Reply 7

pinkangelgirl

Hey,

OP, ignore everyone on here. Escorting is difficult to get into- especially for guys as not many women use male escorts- saying that, some women DO use them and a lot of them are middle aged.

You will have to take viagra normally 20-30 minutes before they arrive, it is standard practise.

Chances are people will NOT find out you were an escort unless you choose to disclose this on your CV/interviews. You normally go by a fake name on the website, and if you are successful you may choose to go completely private. Photos are always blurred out on websites unless again, you decide you want your full face on it.

This is not something to take lightly, the risks are fewer for guys....but remember, when you open the door to a client- that client becomes the most important and special person and you are attracted to them- it could be Pat Butcher. Just warning.

Also, remember, its about THEIR orgasm and not yours :smile:

but do you really want the morals of being paid for sex? and how would your girlfriend feel? would you class it as cheating? you need to really think about this! :smile:

Reply 8

JD.27

Male escorting is more about accompanying women than having sex with them. If you make it with a decent client base (rich lonely women) you can expect to be paid really nicely, taken fancy places, etc. Of course this requires more of your social skills than sexual skills.
That being said access to these circles and getting good business off of them is extremely difficult, there are a lot of agency websites but they're mostly scams. It takes time to set up and is definitely not a quick cash kind of thing unless you already have access to these circles.

Reply 9

Chlobo94

being an escort is nothing like been a prostitute and having sex for money.

in my opinion giving your financial situation id deffanatley go for it!

you work for a company when your an escort and dont have to do anything that you dont want to. most of the time its just someone wanting a bit of company cos there lonely all drinks and everything are paid for its easy cash if you ask me! :cool:

Reply 10

pinkangelgirl

Original post by Chlobo94

what a naiive world we live in

Reply 11

ilex_noemi

Original post by pinkangelgirl

how would your girlfriend feel? would you class it as cheating? you need to really think about this! :smile:

Why has this only been mentioned by one person??

Yes it's cheating!! You want to have sex with someone else! Have you even told her your thinking about it?

I'm glad I'm not the girlfriend.. lol

Original post by Chlobo94

Escorts do have sex for money, the difference is they get paid more for the extra time of accompaning their client to bars etc and they tend to be better looking- they give lonely people a bit more company than prostitutes that have sex then leave immediately.
They may have a few times when they are just paid to look good beside the client but that is rare, it usually does involve sex.

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Reply 12

Nadin532

Your situation reminds me of a story that was run in the march 2012 Student BMJ.
http://student.bmj.com/student/view-article.html?id=sbmj.e906
I believe that the person featured in the article seems to be in a similar position to yourself.

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

Having researched the industry alot, can give you the following advice. The only way firstly you will get customers is firstly by having your face/body pics plastered over a website (preferably your own website-many wannabe escorts conceal their face- but they do not get any customers). Take this into consideration if you go through with it. Even this doesnt guarantee you customers (though there are a number of successful ones). Subject to you marketing yourself well, most of your clients will be old lonely females who may/may not expect sex as part of the deal. But yeah its still gonna be difficult. Gay escorting is where there is apparently ridiculous money to be made and with way more clients (often very rich).

Reply 14

kwik003

Male escort is not a good work for you. There is tough competition in market. You should select some other profession. Good luck in advance.....

Reply 15

Anonymous #3

yeah from what ive heard its probably far more work setting up to be an escort, and then you may not even get hired. any way you could maybe find a minimum wage job somewhere stacking shelves? at least itd be reliable

Sorry but I just don't understand. If you're family is poor how don't you get enough money from student finance?? it's ridiculous that you're considering escorting to pay for university tuition fees! surely there has to be grants and other types of low interest loans you could take out ???

Reply 18

Kagutsuchi

Original post by Anonymous

I'm also worried whether it will have any effect on my career. Can oneone find out about this if one day I decide to get out and cancel all history e.g internet profile etc..?

Wouldn't it be hilarious if one of your clients turned out to be your future prospective employer/interviewer/line manager?

:rofl:

Reply 19

Anonymous #4

Hey I have been working as a male escort for the last year, its good money you can earn £100 per hour, and you tend to get bbut likeooked for at least 2hours.

The problem is, it is like any other job when your working for yourself you never know when the work is next going to come in, you do build up a regular clientele which is good on average I earn roughly £2000 per month, I said some months you can earn £200 then other months £5000 its swings and round a bouts