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  1. Tabris's Avatar
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    Brother reversed into my car.
    About a week ago. I was at my older brother's house, to pick up my mum. He had to leave for work and reversed right into my car as shown in the pic. Not sure how as he drivers a 3-series and they sit quite low. Not going to lie, it was pretty funny as I was watching it as it happened from his front window with his son.

    Anyway, he wants to do a guvvy job to preserve his 9-years no claims, which is apparently protected. I'm not exactly cool with a guvvy job as it'd probably be a bit half-arsed and I'll still have the scratches as well. What isn't cool either is that my brother keeps saying that he wants me to get into an accident so that I can claim off someone else's insurance (joking or not).

    I'm in no particular hurry as I cycle around a lot more at the moment, but at the same time, I would rather get it sorted sooner rather than later. Luckily, compared to previous incidents, I know who did this, so it's no onus on me to pay for it.

    What do you guys think would be the best thing to do?



    That's what he did.
  2. Aack's Avatar
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    3 series? Up for insurance fraud?

    Typical BMW toss pot driver.

    Get a quote from a reliable work shop to repair the vehicle and hit your dick head brother with the cost.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    (Original post by Tabris)
    That's what he did.
    Give him the choice of claiming the money on insurance (and him losing his discount) or getting him to pay for a professional to sort it out?
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    (Original post by Stevo F)
    Give him the choice of claiming the money on insurance (and him losing his discount) or getting him to pay for a professional to sort it out?
    Already posed it to him.

    He's pussy footing around. Not like he can't afford it, but he seems set on doing it for as cheap as possible or not wanting to get it sorted out at all.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    (Original post by Tabris)
    Already posed it to him.

    He's pussy footing around. Not like he can't afford it, but he seems set on doing it for as cheap as possible or not wanting to get it sorted out at all.
    Well then set a date, say 1 month from when you tell him, and say if he hasnt got it professionally sorted out by then you'll file a claim. That should give him more of an incentive
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    Lol he's your brother, dont get insurance involved, just let him sort it out in his own time

    And take him up on the crash scheme thing
    Last edited by PataynaRolaay; 30-06-2012 at 14:25.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    (Original post by Stevo F)
    Give him the choice of claiming the money on insurance (and him losing his discount) or getting him to pay for a professional to sort it out?
    I second this.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    If he won't get it professionally sorted within a month then take it to the insurers
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    (Original post by Stevo F)
    Give him the choice of claiming the money on insurance (and him losing his discount) or getting him to pay for a professional to sort it out?
    This. No other person would agree to have it done on the cheap if he'd reversed into their car so he shouldn't think he can get away with it because you're family.


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    Last edited by Kim-x; 30-06-2012 at 22:10.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    Allow filing a claim man. He's your family, and it doesn't look that bad anyway.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    Take it to a garage you trust and ask them to quote for how much to do the work to a satisfactory standard.

    Take that quote to your brother and ask him which he prefers - pay for the work to be done at YOUR preferred garage to YOUR preferred standards, or pay through his insurance.

    If he pussy foots around thereafter, just put the claim in.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    i think the problem lies in that you need to report the accident to your insurance company within a reasonable time or they could refuse you cover in the future. there is no specified time as to what a 'reasonable' time is, but a month is too long imho....

    can you not get your parents involved? in my opinion, if he can afford to own a BMW, he can afford to have the job done at his expense......also i would be interested to see how he would replicate such an accident with another person just because he is a **** and wont pay for something he has done
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    He's your brother, let him sort it out for you and don't take it to the insurers.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    (Original post by drummer)
    He's your brother, let him sort it out for you and don't take it to the insurers.
    Unfortunately the problem lies in the fact that OP's brother is refusing to sort it out properly!
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    (Original post by _vilaseca_)
    Doesn't look that bad? the doors near enough caved in!
    There is no door where the damage is :L
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    Take it to a couple of proper body shops, ask them for quotes.

    Show them to your brother, if he isn't able to pay the amount quoted then he must go through insurance. He also should notify his insurers of an accident even if he isn't claiming.

    It looks like a newish car and it will be worth less when you sell if it's had a rubbish repair. Don't let him take the mickey just cos he's your brother.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    (Original post by PataynaRolaay)
    Lol he's your brother, dont get insurance involved, just let him sort it out in his own time

    And take him up on the crash scheme thing
    Same argument could be used otherway, the idiots brother is the OP so he should help a brother out and try getting the best repair done.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    That looks like a new rear wing panel to me. forget about getting a half-arsed panel beater job, anyone with a decent eye will spot it a mile off and you would struggle selling it later on.

    and tell your brother to go for an eye test if he cant reverse without noticing a car in his rvm
    Last edited by Indo-Chinese Food; 01-07-2012 at 14:48.
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    how fast he went when reversing? and is his bmw any better off?

    O.O''
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    Re: Brother reversed into my car.
    (Original post by ThE_RozZeRs)
    That is a very, very good point.
    Ahaa ta. How come you changed you know what
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