I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!

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  1. MancBoy's Avatar
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I went on a date about a week ago, it just wasn't there for me though

    Might aswell start buying some cats....
    Think of the positives. At least you're going on dates. Some people can't even get dates.
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    (Original post by MancBoy)
    Think of the positives. At least you're going on dates. Some people can't even get dates.
    That's a good point, i'll try to stay positive about it!
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I went on a date about a week ago, it just wasn't there for me though

    Might aswell start buying some cats....
    Perhaps you're being too picky? I mean just cos you're 'good looking' doesn't necessarily mean that guys would want to go out with you
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    It possible you haven't clicked with anyone yet. If the invitations are lacking you could try making the move yourself? The best way to meet a man in through friends. I've never had any luck in a club or something where you have to be more direct.
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    I have the same problem OP. I have been single 3 years. Guy friends tell me I am good looking and say things which sjow they like my personality and spending time with me but I have trouble finding guy who have feelings for me beyond friendship.

    I guess just try not to look fo guys. The right guy will come along. Some people are just lucky to havr found someone right for them. Try not to let it get you down.

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  6. Aisha~~'s Avatar
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    You sound like a ****.

    Stop being a ****.
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    bet your ugly and as fat as well haha silly girl no wonder you never get a bloke
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    (Original post by hot hot hot)
    bet your ugly and as fat as well haha silly girl no wonder you never get a bloke
    Nope, nope and highly doubt it.
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
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    Nope, nope and highly doubt it.
    your clearly very insecure if i was a bloke i wouldnt go near you
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    (Original post by hot hot hot)
    your clearly very insecure if i was a bloke i wouldnt go near you
    Think you need to start reading threads properly! I haven't said anything atall in this thread that would indicate i'm insecure. Insecure implies i'm not confident....I am confident, which is what makes your attempts at putting me down even more hilarious.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Think you need to start reading threads properly! I haven't said anything atall in this thread that would indicate i'm insecure. Insecure implies i'm not confident....I am confident, which is what makes your attempts at putting me down even more hilarious.
    relax, that person was trolling. It wasobvs a troll


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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Think you need to start reading threads properly! I haven't said anything atall in this thread that would indicate i'm insecure. Insecure implies i'm not confident....I am confident, which is what makes your attempts at putting me down even more hilarious.
    the fact that you have to reassure yourself that you are confident tends to suggest you doubt yourself and are insecure on the inside, as i said sucks to be you
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Think you need to start reading threads properly! I haven't said anything atall in this thread that would indicate i'm insecure. Insecure implies i'm not confident....I am confident, which is what makes your attempts at putting me down even more hilarious.
    OP, this post seems to imply that you are edgy and perhaps too overconfident - maybe instead of being insecure (quite the opposite), it is your overconfidence that intimidates men? Try becoming really relaxed and let your good looks do most of the talking, if you know what I mean.
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    Re: I'm good looking yet i've been single for SO long...?!
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I went on a date about a week ago, it just wasn't there for me though

    Might aswell start buying some cats....
    I have a similiar problem as you. I'm outgoing and I make friends really easily, especially with girls, and i couldn't be happier with my life at the moment. Save for this! Hell i'm in my twenties now and still haven't had my first kiss. I don't think i'm particularly bad looking either so i don't understand whats up.

    You're obviously doing something right if you're going on dates. Maybe you're not making it obvious when you like someone. Theres a girl at the moment who i really like, i think likes me too but she gives so many mixed signals, so i've given up. If i knew for sure she liked me, i'd let her know. I tend to assume any attractive, interesting girl will either have a boyfriend or be too good for me. So in this case i doubt i'll ever tell her, as the word 'no' would destroy my self confidence.

    What i'm trying to say is, I can guarentee there is a guy in your life like me. Someone who likes you, but won't ever have the balls to act on it.
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