It's probably not a good sign if a guy has to ask his girlfriend if she's a virgin because it would suggest either that she didn't want to tell him because of some worry, or that it was bloody obvious already whether she was or not.
OP, if this is about you being a virgin and not being sure whether or not to tell the guy before you have sex, tell him. The first time is not fun anyway, so you want to make sure that he's gentle with you. Plus, if you bleed, it'll freak him out way more if he doesn't know why. If he's the kind of guy who would reject you just because you're a virgin, then he's not the kind of guy you want to be having sex with anyway.
In regards to telling him, when it was my boyfriend and I, I just came straight out and told him that I'd never done it before. He was totally understanding, and was very...careful... with me. I'd say it's best just to be honest.
Last edited by RalphsDisciple; 04-07-2012 at 19:14.