She won't let us be friends no more

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    She won't let us be friends no more
    There's a guy I am pretty close to and we are good friends. To put a long story short, his girlfriend has become aware that we are friends and gone on a mad one. She thinks somethings going on between us both and told him he can't be my friend no more, making him delete me off Facebook too.

    I am really upset because he is what I'd consider a really good friend of mine. What am I meant to do? I'm bound to see him out and about at some point, do I just ignore him? Will he ignore me?

    I often see him walking round near where I live and I beep my horn and wave hello...would I be silly to acknowledge him like this now?

    I have cried about it so much
  2. megan.c's Avatar
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    Re: She won't let us be friends no more
    She sounds a complete cow and if he has any sense he won't put up for that crap.
    Talk to him about, make him realise how upset you are by it and maybe that will whip him into seeing how unreasonable she is

    If I told my boyfriend he couldn't be close friends with any girls he'd have hardly any left - same with me and guys :/
  3. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: She won't let us be friends no more
    I think it's because we are quite flirty she just thinks there is something going on. he's deleted me off Facebook and deleted my number saying we can't text no more. I don't know what to do when I see him.
  4. megan.c's Avatar
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    the he sounds a tool who your better off without.
    Seriously, if she's that insecure and he's so willing to bend over backwards for her then he doesn't sound the best of friends
  5. 123maz's Avatar
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    Re: She won't let us be friends no more
    if he is meant to be one of your best friends he needs to stick up for himself (or grow a pair) his girlfriend has a justified opinion but if nothing is really going on reassure her of this. xx
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