(Original post by Classical Liberal)
Get busy then. Worst thing you can do is have friends who are girls who you also want to shag/ have a relationship with. The whole thing is so awful.
I'm not saying that I *want* to have a relationship with them /(although with one I certainly do and I have had feelings for one of them in the past) but rather that if they were interested in me then I would be open to the possibility, I wouldn't think 'well we're friends so I can't see you as anything else'.
Why is it the worst thing? I fail to see anything inherently wrong with being attracted to someone or with sex between consenting adults, actually the most successful relationships that i've seen developed from being close friends.
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(Original post by Millie228)
He is aware of your presence, if you have to remind him that you're a woman and sexual, that's not good. A young guy rarely, if ever, has to be reminded of sex and the sexuality of women around him.
I'm afraid it's simply a case of "he's just not that into you".
So you're implying that a girl should never make the first move, and if he doesn't act it's hopeless. A bit lazy and bleak imo.