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What shall I do?

Here is the situation.

I joined a new friendship group where I met this guy that I became very close friends with. On my birthday I found out that he had liked me for some time and was coming close to asking me out. I was told by my friend that he was going to speak to me that night and if I said I no he would end our friendship as he didn't want to wait for me. I really like him as a friend and wish I fancied him as I know he'd be good for me but he is overweight and this puts me off. He is a great guy but I am not attracted to him.

Should I say yes if he asks me out and hope that I can grow to love him if I am going to lose him anyway?
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Depends how likely you think it is that he'll lose weight.

I'd say no if I was you, I'm sure he was just saying that to put pressure on you and would probably still stay friends with you.

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