[Parano!d]

Wow this thread has digressed slightly.

Last saturday I hooked up with an Indian girl when i was out clubbing. She came back to mine and a majestic chain of events followed. Turns out there are definitely some out there who enjoy the physical side to things

[sotrulybeautiful]

(Original post by umarrehman187)
tbh iv seen girls without make up who look better then her when she wears make up haha

good for you. unless you post evidence no one is going to believe it. what is good looking for you might not be good looking for another person. you might be someone who thinks pale paper white skin is hot so obv she won't meet that criteria.

if you don't find indian girls hot don't post on this thread. find another thread to spout your unwanted comments.

[sotrulybeautiful]

(Original post by Parano!d)
Wow this thread has digressed slightly.

Last saturday I hooked up with an Indian girl when i was out clubbing. She came back to mine and a majestic chain of events followed. Turns out there are definitely some out there who enjoy the physical side to things

haha yeh sorry about that. it was me. it helped in bumping the thread. I just got pissed off when people started saying indian girls are not good looking or not hot etc and are easy. Just cheap comments by guys who don't have much interest in them from certain girls.

Was that your first time with an indian girl? did you exchange numbers?

[Anonymous]

(Original post by -starlight-)
Are you White, by the way? If you are, your comments wouldn't surprise me because White guys often incorrectly assume I fancy them.


EDIT: Following on from my previous post, the Indians who do date interracially tend to hide it from friends and family because of the stigma. I've also noticed that the Indian girls who date White guys are always the super dark skinned ones that the Indian community view as unattractive. I've never seen a light skinned Indian girl with a White guy, they always seem to go for Indian guys.



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Um I'm a 'light skinned' Indian girl who can pretty much whoever I want. I'm dating a white guy though

And yes I have to hide it from parents until I go to uni, but that's because they're backward c****.

White men are romantic in a way that Indian men have no concept of being.

[sotrulybeautiful]

(Original post by SimpleGirl)
Aw, thanks Same with you!

All of the songs from Dostana are really nice



I wouldn't agree to a forced marriage either but I'm sure my parents wouldn't encourage that anyway. I'll definitely take into account their opinions but if after everything, I'm in love with him and I'm certain that he's the one I want to be with, then I'll make the decision myself..



Erm, I honestly don't know. But, like I said before, I wouldn't be too fussy and be expecting a certain type of proposal. Even if it was the simplest proposal and he just asks me to marry him, I will be more than happy if I love him and he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with.

All proposal videos you sent were very romantic



Haha, you really like the idea of an extravagant proposal, don't you?

Kaise Mujhe is such a sad song! I'm close to tears everytime I listen it. (Probably because the film was quite touching too)

I'd never heard the other song that you posted (I Do Cherish You) but I think I'd prefer the bollywood

i'm not one tenth as awesome as you. if it was winter your presence would make it summer
i take full responsibility for digressing from the thread but i mean random people were saying things about indian girls and i know so many awesome indian girls especially the ones on this thread so mesmerising. might need to make another thread to give it full justice.

I liked the dostana songs as well
You should watch cocktail. its an amazing movie with lots of great songs. def one to watch with the mates..its hilarious.


Were you born and did you grow up in the UK? yay are you serious you'd prefer the bollywood version ? This random mean indian guy was like if you sing a bollywood song to a british indian girl they'd all think you were freshie (nothing wrong with that) and no one would like that, they won't even look in your direction. they'd only care if you played an rnb song or an english song. But i mean there are so many beautiful bollywood songs it'd be a shame if one had to limit themselves and miss out on those romantic songs.
will have to send you more videos and share fav songs and such.


I agree with making personal decisions on my own as well. would your parents be cool with you dating a non-indian? do they have objections to you dating anyone of indian background or do they have to meet particular criteria.

glad you liked the songs i think i like extravagant proposals. i'd like to make the girl feel special and feel like at that point in time ,that moment has frozen and there is only me and her at that moment and the world is rotating around us You deserve an extravagant proposal that's for sure.

kaise mujhe is a sad song i wish it was a happier movie.

I hope one day you find someone as awesome as you are.
just so that im completely nerdy. how cheesy are these?
you're like an exothermic reaction..you spread your hotness everywhere.
I think my sudden cardiac arrhythmia is telling me i love you.
You are so amazing you make my zygomaticus muscle contract
when you're near me i undergo anaerobic respiration because you take my breath away


the first sentence of the video from 0:00 to 0:12 summarises the impact anyone who knows you must feel. posted in the next comment in response to you

[sotrulybeautiful]

(Original post by SimpleGirl)
Kaise Mujhe is such a sad song! I'm close to tears everytime I listen it. (Probably because the film was quite touching too)

I'd never heard the other song that you posted (I Do Cherish You) but I think I'd prefer the bollywood

this is the song i was talking about. the words from 0:00 to 0:12 would adequately describe the effect you would have on those close to you, friends or more.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=327Rm2qEA_g

[sotrulybeautiful]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Um I'm a 'light skinned' Indian girl who can pretty much whoever I want. I'm dating a white guy though

And yes I have to hide it from parents until I go to uni, but that's because they're backward c****.

White men are romantic in a way that Indian men have no concept of being.

You and Starlight are opposite sides of an extreme. I don't agree wuth both of you. People have preferences and that's ok. I don't agree that Indian guys don't go for dark skinned girls and i don't agree that fair skinned indian girls are more attractive. There are a lot of dusky indian beauties, despite the colonialised pressure to be white. Brown Indian women are beautiful..and while fair skin is also nice it is hardly enough to make someone the perfect date.


Personality counts too and i've found arrogant people not that pleasant. It's fine if you're not attracted to indian guys but you don't have to generalise. British indian guys have generalised about not being into indian girls either. I found both equally discriminatory and stereotypical.
do you not find this loving/caring?


This is a real man who believes in true love and will stand up for his gf no matter what. Too bad such men, white, indian, black, don't exist in large quantities.
Can you describe to me how white men are more romantic in a way that Indian men are not? HOw many Indian guys have you met? Are you talking romantic in a sexual sense or in a physical/day to day way, or being spontaneous with romantic surprises etc?

Have you met all Indian guys from UK, India, US, Singapore, Australia etc. Maybe it's just the guys in your area.
To be honest i would rather date a non-indian girl who had respectful values, who had a better personality than an indian girl who was disrespectful or thought that badmouthing her parents and being arrogant about her skin colour was attractive. Even if her parents did not like me , as the guy, i would not like her to say such things about her parents. They have loved and cared for you longer than any guy and will probably care for you even if you left them or treated them badly. They act the way they do because of their own world experiences. If you don't like what they're doing, explain to them nicely and if they still don't get it you have the option, when you turn 18, and live independently, cut off ties and do as you please.

what really annoys me is indian kids being two faced about their parents. Pretending they agree with their parents and living a secret life as well as badmouthing them and hating on them.Nothing wrong with a secret life but its wrong to hate on your parents and rely on them at the same time. If you hate them so much don't use their house,their money and facilities. Do what most white kids do..move out, get independent, get your own job, if you live with them pay rent and if you have had enough, cut off ties from them and cut out their traditional perspective from your life.



The mixed white girl i dated was very respectful to both her parents and mine and did not call them by first name instead calling them aunty/uncle, she appreciated indian culture and was eager to learn.

[sotrulybeautiful]

(Original post by SimpleGirl)
Haha, I'm sure you will find that special girl

Aw

lol this might get be banned for being offtopic..but i think its worth it. lol

tera nasha mujh ko hua tera nasha hai khwab sa..tera nasha aise na jaye..jhoom jhoom tha hun ..bas teri aankhon se peena hai jeena hai aise hi mujhe..rehna nahi hai ab hosh mein..tera siva jaon kahan tu hi to mere dono jahan...
is what any rational guy who loves you should say

the song has a tune ive heard elsewhere
so have u seen this movie? apparently its a remake of some movie.

[hali0112]

I am Sri Lankan and my boyfriend is Scouse and white. I am a virgin but he's lost his virginity and has slept with 2 people. At first this scared me a bit. He is very experienced and has explored a lot sexually. Whereas I have had no sexual experiences whatsoever though I am not naive. I'm honest with him and have told him this and he is okay with this and likes this about me. He is patient and said that he will guide me through everything and won't rush me. He also thinks the fact that I am a virgin makes me special. He said he will wait for as long as I am ready. I have always been open to a physical relationship before marriage because it is an important aspect of relationships that I definitely want to explore before marriage. I want to explore the intimacy and compatibility and also think that you learn more about eachother through sex.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by sotrulybeautiful)
You and Starlight are opposite sides of an extreme. I don't agree wuth both of you. People have preferences and that's ok. I don't agree that Indian guys don't go for dark skinned girls and i don't agree that fair skinned indian girls are more attractive. There are a lot of dusky indian beauties, despite the colonialised pressure to be white. Brown Indian women are beautiful..and while fair skin is also nice it is hardly enough to make someone the perfect date.


Personality counts too and i've found arrogant people not that pleasant. It's fine if you're not attracted to indian guys but you don't have to generalise. British indian guys have generalised about not being into indian girls either. I found both equally discriminatory and stereotypical.
do you not find this loving/caring?


This is a real man who believes in true love and will stand up for his gf no matter what. Too bad such men, white, indian, black, don't exist in large quantities.
Can you describe to me how white men are more romantic in a way that Indian men are not? HOw many Indian guys have you met? Are you talking romantic in a sexual sense or in a physical/day to day way, or being spontaneous with romantic surprises etc?

Have you met all Indian guys from UK, India, US, Singapore, Australia etc. Maybe it's just the guys in your area.
To be honest i would rather date a non-indian girl who had respectful values, who had a better personality than an indian girl who was disrespectful or thought that badmouthing her parents and being arrogant about her skin colour was attractive. Even if her parents did not like me , as the guy, i would not like her to say such things about her parents. They have loved and cared for you longer than any guy and will probably care for you even if you left them or treated them badly. They act the way they do because of their own world experiences. If you don't like what they're doing, explain to them nicely and if they still don't get it you have the option, when you turn 18, and live independently, cut off ties and do as you please.

what really annoys me is indian kids being two faced about their parents. Pretending they agree with their parents and living a secret life as well as badmouthing them and hating on them.Nothing wrong with a secret life but its wrong to hate on your parents and rely on them at the same time. If you hate them so much don't use their house,their money and facilities. Do what most white kids do..move out, get independent, get your own job, if you live with them pay rent and if you have had enough, cut off ties from them and cut out their traditional perspective from your life.



The mixed white girl i dated was very respectful to both her parents and mine and did not call them by first name instead calling them aunty/uncle, she appreciated indian culture and was eager to learn.

Haha believe me, I have my own job, I pay half the mortgage monthly (when I could just move out and leave my parents in the lurch), I don't rely on them financially whatsoever. Have you tried being an Indian girl who disagrees with her parents views on dating and wants to move out? Not that easy matey...

[Anonymous]

I would have sex with a hot guy that I actually like.