Basically I am in two mindsets as to whether to contact my ex boyfriend or not.
I will give some background information-We broke up at the beginning of May after a year together, he stated that it wouldn't work when I went to uni (very brief detail of what happened there were other things too) however, 2 weeks later he asked for me back and realised he had made a huge mistake , at the time I said no, I was extremely hurt and angry towards him and part of my pride got the better of me and I asked for him not to contact me as I wanted to focus on exams but,I did initially say I didn't want rid of him, I would still like to keep contact but, to contact him in my own time he said he'd like that.
Basically 2 months on he has stuck to what I wanted and not contacted me,now I am getting a new phone and contemplating whether to contact him, I mean i would love to know how he is doing and how he is, as i still care and will always for him but, I guess im just scared it will backfire , I mean the worst consequence is that he could tell me to go away but, I just feel like there are some unresolved issues and i'm finding it hard to have closure.
Is it a good idea?
or am i just being stupid ?
Sorry for rambling and I have actually kept it very brief in details haha
Advice needed and much appreciated
Thank you !