I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?

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  1. almosttrue's Avatar
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    (Original post by PinkyQT)
    It's not just people in those countries that are suffering, some people even in the UK are worse of than you so you should be grateful for what you have instead of being a depressed prick. They can't afford condoms you idiot lmao and don't say that they should stop having sex because it's natural.

    I'm not a hypocrite. All I'm saying is you should be grateful and stop complaining about little things such as facebook which you don't have to go on... :rolleyes:
    Its natural to have sex yes (although doesnt warrant catching disease/more kids) but its also natural for people to complain/be unsatisfied with their lives like the OP. Its not the OP's fault that there are people way worse off than him, its natural for ppl to want better lives it doesnt matter how lucky you are.
    Last edited by almosttrue; 16-07-2012 at 00:15.
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    (Original post by Flyteryder)
    I wouldn't be able to tell retards like you how stupid you are if I did that. I never said I wanted to die. Moron.
    Just remember that life is a privilege not a right, and life is too short for complaining.
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    (Original post by Flyteryder)
    I didn't mean all your clothes. I meant most of them and whatever else most people take for granted. If you have a Blackberry, iPhone or anything good then from your point of view it's a waste. Go to Tesco and get a £10 phone because it calls and texts, as that's all anybody needs, and sell your good phone and donate the money to charity. From your point of view it seems that everyone in this country should be grateful for having the basics because people in other countries don't have them.

    People in developed countries don't need to be grateful because these things have always been there and they expect a certain quality of life, which is far different from what somebody in an undeveloped country expects. Just because I have things that people in other countries don't, it doesn't mean I'm not allowed to feel sad, upset, angry, depressed or whatever about my life, because I've already accepted I have the basics and I want more than that, because that's what everybody in this country expects. It sounds horrible but taking things for granted will always happen, because the vast majority of people in this country don't know any different.

    Of course I'm not happy with not having a normal life like everyone else, but I don't think I'd be happy if I did.
    I get your point but I have money and I should be able to spend it on those things.

    Well sorry but you're obviously depressed.
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    Yeah, sounds like depression to me. Not your natural personality.
    Go see a therapist.
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    (Original post by Flyteryder)
    So you're one of those morons who feel sorry for people in Africa and India who have 10 kids because they think extra kids will bring in more money for the family through work, who forget they'll have to spend more money on food, clothing, water etc for the kids, which outweighs the pitiful wages the kids bring in, as well as the 5 or 6 years the kids are unable to work, which makes their lives even worse. They don't know what condoms or HIV are despite being told hundreds of times.

    If you care that much about people who have nothing to eat then go sell your computer and clothes on ebay and give the money you get to those people. Oh, wait you'd never do that because you're one of the thousands of hypocrites who bleat on about others less fortunate, when you sit on your nice warm bed with your electricity, computer, internet connection, heating, clean water and food.
    I think I'm in love...with your misery. It's magical :flutter:.
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
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    I think I'm in love...with your misery. It's magical :flutter:.
    Not sure whether you're being sarcastic there
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    Whats the actual point of this thread? Any suggestion you'll just shoot down.

    Youve come on here and spoke about how you hate everything. Thats nice.

    In all honesty id say you need help. But a part of me reckons that youre fooling yourself and care a lot more about certain trivial things than you realise.
  8. Flyteryder's Avatar
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    (Original post by Dbrown18)
    Whats the actual point of this thread? Any suggestion you'll just shoot down.

    Youve come on here and spoke about how you hate everything. Thats nice.

    In all honesty id say you need help. But a part of me reckons that youre fooling yourself and care a lot more about certain trivial things than you realise.
    I shoot them down because I've already tried all the suggestions and they don't work.

    Why do you think I care a lot more about trivial things than I realise?
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    (Original post by Flyteryder)
    Yeah, because being horny far outweighs the risks of disease and pregnancy; how natural. Developed countries are forever sending aid money to provide condoms and sex education. It never sinks in because they never listen, because they think they know better than the people trying to help them.

    Tell me why you haven't sold your computer and clothes to help people less fortunate than you if you care that much about people who have nothing to eat.

    People in this country with nothing to eat can quite easily ask their council to put them on the housing register and get an emergency loan to pay for their essentials and pay it back when they've got a job, as well as claim Jobseeker's Allowance. They can go into a centre for homeless people while the council find them a rent free house and gives them money to tide them over. Homeless people in this country don't do this because they'd rather stay homeless and beg on the street so they don't have to be on any records, so they are free to spend whatever money they get on booze and cigarettes. Whenever any homeless person comes up to me they always have a can of lager or a cigarette in their hand, or both. They don't have money to get anything to eat yet they can afford that. I see where you're coming from about how unfortunate these people are who don't want to help themselves.
    I like you man. Sound like me quite a bit, maintaining friendships are long, rather be on drugs and have sex all the time.

    What I'd suggest is to find a useful hobby that preoccupies your time and **** everyone else who complains about it. I play piano e.g. I can do it all day regardless of who's in the room, not to show off, but to play. (sounds irrelevant but I'll get to the relevancy)

    Basically, just do things you want to do, if someone doesn't like it, they can **** off. Are you introverted btw?
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    aww sounds like you could do with a BIG HUG
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    (Original post by Flyteryder)
    How do you/do I deal with not being normal? How do you/do I deal with living in a bubble? I live in a bubble and it's destroying me.
    Has anyone told you being 'abnormal' is bad? I was told that I was abnormal by my peers when I was 5 and have heard it periodically ever since, I just embrace it. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. So what if you have different interests and hate Facebook? - I don't even have it; you should see the looks on people's faces when I tell them that! XD

    Also no one is normal in reality; they just hide behind the 'herd' and keep their 'rare characteristics' (as I like to call them) in the closet. If you want to get out of 'the bubble' start by being honest with everyone about your likes and dislikes, if your friends turn their back on you, find new ones. Just remain as civil as possible and try to give yourself a goal in life and I mean a big one. Something to keep you going (guessing you're a teenager) until you have your own money and can do as you please. You should also consider reading; things that challenge your mind can also change how you perceive things. It can also act as a connection to people you feel are on par with yourself and I don't mean that in a narcissistic way.

    This is part of how I dealt with things in the past. However, if nothing at all helps, I honestly suggest you talk to someone on a one-to-one basis. I'm not saying counselling, but just someone you can confide in. Depression isn't something you want to go through, it will completely kill your sex drive!
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    (Original post by Flyteryder)
    Yeah, because being horny far outweighs the risks of disease and pregnancy; how natural. Developed countries are forever sending aid money to provide condoms and sex education. It never sinks in because they never listen, because they think they know better than the people trying to help them.

    Tell me why you haven't sold your computer and clothes to help people less fortunate than you if you care that much about people who have nothing to eat.

    People in this country with nothing to eat can quite easily ask their council to put them on the housing register and get an emergency loan to pay for their essentials and pay it back when they've got a job, as well as claim Jobseeker's Allowance. They can go into a centre for homeless people while the council find them a rent free house and gives them money to tide them over. Homeless people in this country don't do this because they'd rather stay homeless and beg on the street so they don't have to be on any records, so they are free to spend whatever money they get on booze and cigarettes. Whenever any homeless person comes up to me they always have a can of lager or a cigarette in their hand, or both. They don't have money to get anything to eat yet they can afford that. I see where you're coming from about how unfortunate these people are who don't want to help themselves.

    So much fail in this post especially the first paragraph.

    The phrase firstworldproblems.jpg comes to mind when i read this pathetic little diatribe.

    OK you're bored and you don't like your life. What are you going to do about it? Whinge on TSR to people who don't really care or are you gonna go out there and just do something, anything, whatever it may be to break from the monotony of everyday 21st century life?

    You sound very ignorant and up yourself. Perhaps you should go travelling around the world and see these "people that don't want to help themselves" and how they live life because that's what it's there for.
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    Do what I did when I become pretty bored by how mundane my life was becoming.
    Hike across the alps on your own for a month with nothing but a backpack, tent and whatever cash you have. It's kind of a wake-up call, gets you back to basics, and soon you'll miss the trivial crap like facebook and texting.
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    (Original post by Flyteryder)
    How do you/do I deal with not being normal? How do you/do I deal with living in a bubble? I live in a bubble and it's destroying me.
    Simple. Find other people that are in your situation, feel the same as you do. Those are the ones that I'd probably call 'friends'.. even if you don't like maintaining friendships.

    With me, I just do whatever I feel makes sense to me. I live my life based on my beliefs as it's how I define reality (thanks Itachi.), if everyone is walking in one direction and I don't agree with it, I'll walk in the other direction even if there is nobody walking the same way.

    It fundamentally doesn't matter what people do or say. Just try to enjoy yourself and the time you have here.

    Nothing else really matters.
  15. Botticello's Avatar
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    You hate kids? Hello :sexface:

    Don't worry too much. Life is a banal thing if you let it be, you could look into working abroad or doing something creative? I know what you mean about people, friendships are such bloody hard work and I hate large crowds of people. I have depression which worsens this feeling.
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    Re: I hate everything 'normal' about life. What's the point?
    (Original post by Flyteryder)
    People in this country with nothing to eat can quite easily ask their council to put them on the housing register and get an emergency loan to pay for their essentials and pay it back when they've got a job, as well as claim Jobseeker's Allowance. They can go into a centre for homeless people while the council find them a rent free house and gives them money to tide them over. Homeless people in this country don't do this because they'd rather stay homeless and beg on the street so they don't have to be on any records, so they are free to spend whatever money they get on booze and cigarettes. Whenever any homeless person comes up to me they always have a can of lager or a cigarette in their hand, or both. They don't have money to get anything to eat yet they can afford that. I see where you're coming from about how unfortunate these people are who don't want to help themselves.

    Woahh that's an incredibly naive post.
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