Social expectations on a bus?

Questions and advice about everyday life, from post office opening times to eBay queries or what to buy your loved one for their birthday.

Announcements Posted on
TSR launches Learn Together! - Our new subscription to help improve your learning 16-05-2013
Sign in to Reply
  1. CalebFudgeBrownie's Avatar
    • Junior Member
    • Posts: 43
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    In my opinion, you shouldn’t feel obligated to sit with them just because you know them. It’s up to you; if you want to sit with them, do it. If not, I think a polite ‘hello’ followed by choosing another seat would suffice
  2. XxelliexX's Avatar
    • Benevolent Member
    • Posts: 791
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    I just become ingrossed in my ipod...
  3. Andicate's Avatar
    • Full Member
    • Posts: 142
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    Oh god. I hate these split-second-decision-making situations. I usually end up sitting next to them, and unintentionally annoying them to death. Ooops!
  4. lazershus's Avatar
    • Adored and Respected Member
    • Location: London
    • Posts: 561
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    depends on how much i talk to the person and also how many other seats are available, if there are no double seats for me to occupy and i'll have to sit next to someone i'll probably sit by them.
  5. pseudonymegg's Avatar
    • Exalted Member
    • Posts: 385
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    i know this is unrelated... kinda but... thought of the best bus ever!!

    Click image for larger version. 

Name:	428113-anyone-for-pimms-0.jpg 
Views:	42 
Size:	47.0 KB 
ID:	163335
  6. meeow's Avatar
    • Exalted Member
    • Posts: 336
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    (Original post by jumpingjesusholycow)
    Knowing me, I'd try and hide and avoid them so as to evade having to initiate any conversation, hoping they didn't see me or even just get off the bus and wait for another one if I wasn't in a hurry.
    THAT sounds like a very miranda thing to do
  7. Iron Lady's Avatar
    • Overlord in Training
    • Posts: 2,738
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    Do people need friends?
  8. Chief Wiggum's Avatar
    • Overlord in Training
    • Location: London
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    (Original post by ROYP)
    it's a select level of friendship that warrants 'the avoid'. the sort of person you've met a few times or more but never directly - they've always been brought along by someone else. like you'd never text them or anything or invite them out but you might have conversed a few times in a group setting
    Lol, this.
  9. Greenstarrr's Avatar
    • Junior Member
    • Location: Cornwall
    • Posts: 53
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    (Original post by amime)
    Sit on their lap.
    :rofl3:

    I guess I'd say hi and then if there's a spare set of seats infront/opposite/behind them I'd sit there or if they moved their stuff so I could sit next to them I'd sit with them. Unless I didn't like them. Then I'd ignore them.
  10. Pride's Avatar
    • TSR Demigod
    • Location: London
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    (Original post by ROYP)
    it's a select level of friendship that warrants 'the avoid'. the sort of person you've met a few times or more but never directly - they've always been brought along by someone else. like you'd never text them or anything or invite them out but you might have conversed a few times in a group setting
    yeah I get you
  11. Cherriesxo's Avatar
    • Benevolent Member
    • Posts: 682
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    Personally I'd smile, say hi and sit near them (behind, or the seat in front, maybe to the side), I'd only sit directly next to them if they told me to. I wouldn't start a conversation with them either unless they initiated it.
  12. Georgiina_Tee's Avatar
    • Benevolent Member
    • Location: London
    • Posts: 612
    I'd probably just say Hi You alright and not wait for the reply sit down and plug my earphones in and pretend to text for the whole journey

    This was posted from The Student Room's Android App on my HTC Sensation XE with Beats Audio Z715e
  13. jamboogy's Avatar
    • Peer Of The TSR Realm
    • Location: London
    • Posts: 1,434
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    Allow that, I'm always listening to my Ipod and I do not like being disturbed. I would only consider starting a conversation if it was with someone who I genuinely liked or hadn't seen in a LONG time.
  14. xoxAngel_Kxox's Avatar
    • Section Moderator
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    Depends whether I'm in the mood to chat or not. I look forward to listening to my music on bus journeys, and it kind of ruins it when I have to chat to someone I don't really want to.

    One of my friends from high school started blanking me for no apparent reason a couple of years back, and when I finally asked her why she was doing it, it was because I'd only said hi to her on the bus and hadn't gone to sit next to her. I never realised people were so touchy! Sometimes I'm just in no mood to chat!
  15. glittery snails's Avatar
    • New Member
    • Posts: 12
    Re: Social expectations on a bus?
    This happens to me fairly often. I'll sit next to them if there are no seats otherwise I'll tend to take another seat because we are not close enough to have things to talk about. Also, we both tend to have our i-pods in but if I do end up sitting next to them I'll take an earphone out so I can hear if they say something.
Sign in to Reply
Share this discussion:  
Useful resources

Quick Link:

Advice on everyday issues unanswered threads

Groups associated with this forum:

View associated groups
Article updates
Moderators

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 volunteers looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Reputation gems:
The Reputation gems seen here indicate how well reputed the user is, red gem indicate negative reputation and green indicates a good rep.
Post rating score:
These scores show if a post has been positively or negatively rated by our members.