Social expectations on a bus?
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Re: Social expectations on a bus?THAT sounds like a very miranda thing to do(Original post by jumpingjesusholycow)
Knowing me, I'd try and hide and avoid them so as to evade having to initiate any conversation, hoping they didn't see me or even just get off the bus and wait for another one if I wasn't in a hurry.
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Re: Social expectations on a bus?Lol, this.(Original post by ROYP)
it's a select level of friendship that warrants 'the avoid'. the sort of person you've met a few times or more but never directly - they've always been brought along by someone else. like you'd never text them or anything or invite them out but you might have conversed a few times in a group setting -
Re: Social expectations on a bus?(Original post by amime)
Sit on their lap.
I guess I'd say hi and then if there's a spare set of seats infront/opposite/behind them I'd sit there or if they moved their stuff so I could sit next to them I'd sit with them. Unless I didn't like them. Then I'd ignore them. -
Re: Social expectations on a bus?yeah I get you(Original post by ROYP)
it's a select level of friendship that warrants 'the avoid'. the sort of person you've met a few times or more but never directly - they've always been brought along by someone else. like you'd never text them or anything or invite them out but you might have conversed a few times in a group setting -
Re: Social expectations on a bus?
Depends whether I'm in the mood to chat or not. I look forward to listening to my music on bus journeys, and it kind of ruins it when I have to chat to someone I don't really want to.
One of my friends from high school started blanking me for no apparent reason a couple of years back, and when I finally asked her why she was doing it, it was because I'd only said hi to her on the bus and hadn't gone to sit next to her. I never realised people were so touchy! Sometimes I'm just in no mood to chat! -
Re: Social expectations on a bus?
This happens to me fairly often. I'll sit next to them if there are no seats otherwise I'll tend to take another seat because we are not close enough to have things to talk about. Also, we both tend to have our i-pods in but if I do end up sitting next to them I'll take an earphone out so I can hear if they say something.