[Anonymous]

I'm 18 year old girl, and I worry a lot about my size and how people see me. I'm around a size 18 top, Size 40DD breast, not going to lie, I am a bit chubby. I constantly worry that people just see me as the big girl. I always worry that no one is going to like me enough cause eof my size to go out with me, or have a relationship with me. People always tell me that I should be happy as I am, and people should be happy with that. I shouldn't want to change myself to make others happy. Anyone got any advice, or similar circumstances.

[PinkyPurply]

Personally I prefer chubbier girls

Who gives a rats arse what anyone thinks of you though?

[Anonymous]

(Original post by PinkyPurply)
Personally I prefer chubbier girls

Who gives a rats arse what anyone thinks of you though?

Nice to know some people out there do

Its just one of those things that worries me, because when i was at secondary school people bullied me about my looks, which has just stayed with me though out the years after it :/

[Anonymous]

(Original post by i-sure-hope-so)
I'm so sorry you seem to have such low self esteem right now and that you are feeling this way about your body. I hope that as you grow, you begin to value yourself more.

I love this quote: Everybody is beautiful; Every body is beautiful. After I did a lot of life drawing, I saw this was true. There really is beauty to every human form.

You wanna know something, there are a lot of women outh there who don't think much of themselves. Every woman has something pretty about her - even it is just her smile. Sad thing is some just don't recognise it. Don't let this happen to you. Realise you are more than just what meets the eye. If yoiu want a good example look at Adele -gorgeous and talented.

Your true friends won't care what you look like (and from the sounds of it, it seems they don't! ) ; and anyone worth your time won't pre-judge you for your looks.

However, if you think you are so large that it is truly effecting you - if you are getting overweight in an unhealthy way or becoming truly unhappy, there are things you should do about this. No problem is unsolvable. Seek medical help/ support from those close to you? PM if you want to talk.

P.S. We are all get scared we won't find someone who truly loves us regardless how 'normal' our body size is. Trust me. <3

Once again, I hope you begin to have the confidence you deserve <3

gosh I think that bought a tear to my eye :') I hope that as i grow, I value myself more, Its just one of those things i really struggle with :/
Thats a really good quote, I'm going to have to remember that. Its made me think back to when I did life drawing.
I think i just don't recognise the good parts yet fully, I know I'm a fun person, i guess that count, i make my friend laugh? ( in a good way ! )
Yeah, my true friends do do their best when i have a bit of a down moment about it, it really helps. Just like your post shown me what someone who doesn't know me feels about it.
I know I'm not the only one on the whole love side, its just difficult :/

[FallenDeath]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm 18 year old girl, and I worry a lot about my size and how people see me. I'm around a size 18 top, Size 40DD breast, not going to lie, I am a bit chubby. I constantly worry that people just see me as the big girl. I always worry that no one is going to like me enough cause eof my size to go out with me, or have a relationship with me. People always tell me that I should be happy as I am, and people should be happy with that. I shouldn't want to change myself to make others happy. Anyone got any advice, or similar circumstances.

You are over thinking, you need to have some self confidence. There are plenty of girls that shower them selves with make up due to their insecurities and it makes them look rather silly to be honest.

I am sure your fine how you are now. just be yourself!

This was posted from The Student Room's Android App on my HTC Desire HD A9191

[Anonymous]

(Original post by FallenDeath)
You are over thinking, you need to have some self confidence. There are plenty of girls that shower them selves with make up due to their insecurities and it makes them look rather silly to be honest.

I am sure your fine how you are now. just be yourself!

This was posted from The Student Room's Android App on my HTC Desire HD A9191

I have some, but it tends to come and go :/ I try to myself as best as i can

[I have a question]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm 18 year old girl, and I worry a lot about my size and how people see me. I'm around a size 18 top, Size 40DD breast, not going to lie, I am a bit chubby. I constantly worry that people just see me as the big girl. I always worry that no one is going to like me enough cause eof my size to go out with me, or have a relationship with me. People always tell me that I should be happy as I am, and people should be happy with that. I shouldn't want to change myself to make others happy. Anyone got any advice, or similar circumstances.

Love yourself first, then everything else should fall in place.
Simple as.
Nothing wrong with chubby girls.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by I have a question)
Love yourself first, then everything else should fall in place.
Simple as.
Nothing wrong with chubby girls.

Thankyou, I will certainly try

[Anonymous]

(Original post by i-sure-hope-so)
Hey, a great personality definitely counts as inner beauty! That's the most valuable kind of beauty to have!

I'm sure you are beautiful on the outside too, you are just one of these silly people where you don't believe it :P. Maybe you just need to take a little more care of yourself, you know, maybe splash out on some clothes that you love/ look after your skin and hair etc, all these things can make the inner beauty that you hide apparent on the surface. It sort of is true - if you look good, you feel good. Not trying to be superficial :P but looking your best can help with confidence

And worries about not findin the right person are damn sure difficult but you just have to keep trying or you'll never know what you could have had! One poster on this thread said he thinks chubbier girls cute :3 - Each really is to their own and you sure will have loads of opportunities to find someone with whom you match! Just gotta have faith! Hope this helped... best of luck xx

I guess inner beauty really does count towards something Yeah, i'm really going to try more with that, if i look good, it will help improve my confidence bit by bit, and build it back up. I just have to work to get to that point You really have helped, thank you ever so much. ALl the people who have posted here, have given me that bit of confidence that i need to start off :3

[mic599wil]

I am worried about my life i have a great problem of mental please help me i have i cicatist to my problem is suddenly i watched some faces which is very horror what should i do

[`R92]

I'm sure you're just lovely.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by mic599wil)
I am worried about my life i have a great problem of mental please help me i have i cicatist to my problem is suddenly i watched some faces which is very horror what should i do

Okay, I don't mean this to sound rude at all, but can you explain your problem to me, I don't understand :/ Then I can try to help you =)

[Anonymous]

(Original post by `R92)
I'm sure you're just lovely.

In a way, I suppose..