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  1. Sovix's Avatar
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    got a dilemma with this girl at work!
    I have recently noticed a girl staring at me for numerous of times per day, it got to the point where it became creepy! She would talk to her colleagues and look at me while talking to them. Yerstaday, she friendly laughed at me (giggled) when i made a small mistake with a customer, and then she said customers are annoying.. She kinda becomes shy while talking to me, but not all the time.. Anyway, the problem is.. she is like 4 years older than me and has a boy friend.. im not sure if i should try and hit on her? or just leave it?
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    Re: got a dilemma with this girl at work!
    (Original post by Sovix)
    I have recently noticed a girl staring at me for numerous of times per day
    Good sign.

    (Original post by Sovix)
    She would talk to her colleagues and look at me while talking to them
    Good sign.

    (Original post by Sovix)
    Yerstaday, she friendly laughed at me (giggled) when i made a small mistake with a customer, and then she said customers are annoying..
    Good sign.

    (Original post by Sovix)
    She kinda becomes shy while talking to me, but not all the time..
    Good sign.

    (Original post by Sovix)
    she is like 4 years older than me and has a boy friend..
    oh god, stay away!
    Last edited by foolscap; 23-07-2012 at 00:08.
  3. Sovix's Avatar
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    Re: got a dilemma with this girl at work!
    hmmm...
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    (Original post by Sovix)
    she is like 4 years older than me and has a BOYFRIEND.. im not sure if i should try and hit on her? or just leave it?
    Leave it. If she has a boyfriend and she's hitting on you, then she'll likely do the same if you're in a relationship with her.



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  5. Sovix's Avatar
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    Re: got a dilemma with this girl at work!
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    Leave it. If she has a boyfriend and she's hitting on you, then she'll likely do the same if you're in a relationship with her.



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    im not sure if shes hitting on me....
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    Re: got a dilemma with this girl at work!
    (Original post by Sovix)
    im not sure if shes hitting on me....
    Yeah but say that she definately was, would you still be interested? Knowing that she could easily do to you what she is doing to her boyfriend right now?
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    Re: got a dilemma with this girl at work!
    (Original post by xXHolly_90Xx)
    Yeah but say that she definately was, would you still be interested? Knowing that she could easily do to you what she is doing to her boyfriend right now?
    id be up for a one night stand, but not a gf.. she is not my type. but there is something about her that i really like
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    (Original post by Sovix)
    id be up for a one night stand, but not a gf.. she is not my type. but there is something about her that i really like
    For gods sake, how many times? I thought you'd decided she was out of your league cos of her age?!


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    Re: got a dilemma with this girl at work!
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    For gods sake, how many times? I thought you'd decided she was out of your league cos of her age?!




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    hahaha!! yeah but then i thought about it..... im sure she likes me.. sophi me and you shouuld get to know each other
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    (Original post by Sovix)
    hahaha!! yeah but then i thought about it..... im sure she likes me.. sophi me and you shouuld get to know each other
    Highly tempting as that offer is....no way....I mean, no thank you.

    And please get a grip and stop making the same threads about this one girl. How many times do you want the same answer?


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