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    Legwork/Effort - I'm doing it all.
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    Hey guys.

    Basically this weekend (Thurs thru tonight) my boyfriends been at a football tournament/'lads' weekend. I know that he should have time with his friends etc, but he's back in the country (he was in England) tonight and out again. I texted him, and he's been SO slow at replying i.e. 2/3 hours per text, and went out tonight even though he said he was shattered and wouldn't earlier today.
    To be honest, I feel like i'm doing all the running here and i'm getting to the point where i'm pretty pi**** off. Example: Me - Wanna see me tomorrow? Him - If I feel up for it

    We've been together 2 years. And I try all the time. I just at this moment feel really upset and vulnerable (I have been to counselling for insecurity and anxiety.)

    Please help guys.
    Thanks.
  2. a_n_o_n's Avatar
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    Re: Legwork/Effort - I'm doing it all.
    He should be treating you better than that! If I were you, I would text him just saying something like 'Ok, let me know when you're free to see me ' and leave him to make contact. Other than that, ring him and tell him exactly how you're feeling and ask why he's being so distant.

    I hope he starts behaving better! Good luck
  3. alibee56's Avatar
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    This guy is defo taking you for granted. Start going out with your girlfriends and be less available for him. Either he will realise the mistake that he is making or will let you go. Don't be in a relationship where you do all the work. You deserve better.


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