[Sasa Luke]

Hye guys,do you have any idea on how to handle a situation on befriending backstabbers among friends?I don't mean to be rude or hurt anyone but they are backstabbers whom also my friends.But sometimes i'm the one that felt hurt.I really hate them for what they've done to me...and sometimes i'm feeling ignored and isolated,it isn't that i have no other friends,but those backstabbers are the closest friends,pls help me x(

Really need your opinions,advices or anything that can help me,thanxxx,


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[rock_climber86]

can't give you an opinion until you tell us what your backstabbing 'friends' have done!

[Sasa Luke]

(Original post by rock_climber86)
can't give you an opinion until you tell us what your backstabbing 'friends' have done!

Thank you for your concern.

Well it happened last year, we were to be happy,crazy and close friends.6 of us.these friends joined me in every events that i took part.mostly everything and i guided ourselves to join any event since the rest of them were cowards back then .we were extremely close until last winter,we began to be separated.i don't want to blame anyone among us but one of them seemed to drag 4 others to her side,it's like she didn't want me to befriending them.she dragged them one by one.i'm pretty sure bout this since i am an observer.
They began to leave me,hang out without me,enjoy those fun without me,it's like i was a total invisible to them.they didn't make any calls nor inviting me to everywhere they'd been to.somehow we were chatting like usual like nothing bad happened.but i was hurt and they didn't know.
But when I've got gifts from my families and other friends,they returned to me and asked to share those gifts with them.Soon they forgot me again.This happened several times before summer's break.I helped one of these friends to set up a new project in our club with some beneficial informations.But before tht she kept saying "I'll join this project if u join,let's work together".

After few months when the project was about to be established,she started to work with other new friends,which are also in the project.Most works and ideas were from me but then they were credited to the new friends.WTF!somehow i acted that i didn't care at all.sometimes it hurts instead.


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[rock_climber86]

that sounds terrible! Sounds like bitchy women just using you for their own gain and excluding you for no reason! I personally would confront them and tell them to **** off because "i don't get used by anyone". Then I would try find new friends of wait for them to apologise and let them know you don't get bull ****.

I don't have friends to be honest. I have acquaintances who i hang around every few months. I don't trust people much and everyone who i considered a friend has excluded me like you and have just tried to use me be that for academic help or help them move house.

Let me know how it goes and i pray they stop using you like you are disposable. It's not nice behaviour from them!