[IAmTheKing]

(Original post by im so academic)
In my experience it's not.

Well, as it so happens, your experiences are also subjective...

The word's beginning to lose all meaning now.

One last time:

Subjective.

[madders94]

(Original post by im so academic)
In my experience it's not.

Do you even understand the meaning of "subjective" - different people have different views! Something cannot be objective from one person's point of view if another person clearly has a differing point of view on it!

[Loucornall]

(Original post by im so academic)
It may be subjective but however someone defines genuinely fat, they are not good looking.

define it please

[brendonbackflip]

(Original post by im so academic)
Blah blah blah

ISA, from what you have complained about in your other thread, you think 'no man will ever love me'' or words to that effect. Perhaps you should not be the one giving advice on What Men Like as you clearly haven't been very successful yourself.

[Loucornall]

(Original post by brendonbackflip)
ISA, from what you have complained about in your other thread, you think 'no man will ever love me'' or words to that effect. Perhaps you should not be the one giving advice on What Men Like as you clearly haven't been very successful yourself.

ah that makes sense, you find with children at school that if they are upset/been hurt they tend to want to make other people feel the same - perfect expamle

[im so academic]

(Original post by brendonbackflip)
ISA, from what you have complained about in your other thread, you think 'no man will ever love me'' or words to that effect. Perhaps you should not be the one giving advice on What Men Like as you clearly haven't been very successful yourself.

Actually that shows that I know what men like from what they don't.

[IAmTheKing]

(Original post by im so academic)
Actually that shows that I know what men like from what they don't.

What I do and don't find aesthetically pleasing in a woman is... You guessed it - entirely subjective.

[Bubblyminty]

Avoid low waistlines. Get something high-wasited or you will look way bigger than you are...what a bad mistake Kim made!



Use a waistbelt to cinch in your figure. I suggest you go for something which will balance out your body. Watch this and it may help, it has great tips. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_07b...feature=relmfu

[Bubblyminty]

(Original post by im so academic)
Actually that shows that I know what men like from what they don't.

Oh god, here to troll again with your brainless drivel.

[Bubblyminty]

You can also get shaping underwear to slim down your figure and accentuate the right parts.

[Loucornall]

(Original post by Bubblyminty)
Oh god, here to troll again with your brainless drivel.

agreed! just because someone isn't a size 8 does not mean they are not attractive, I am a size 14-16 (im 5ft 10) and proud because every curve and strechmark made my 2 beautiful children. I am healthy I exercise nearly every day and we eat healthy, its just taking me a while to get back to a size 12 but I'm getting there slowly. I have never had a problem with lack of attention from decent men just PERHAPS imso that being a nice person helps, could be where your going wrong? just a though

[Samus2]

(Original post by Loucornall)
agreed! just because someone isn't a size 8 does not mean they are not attractive, I am a size 14-16 (im 5ft 10) and proud because every curve and strechmark made my 2 beautiful children. I am healthy I exercise nearly every day and we eat healthy, its just taking me a while to get back to a size 12 but I'm getting there slowly. I have never had a problem with lack of attention from decent men just PERHAPS imso that being a nice person helps, could be where your going wrong? just a though

What ISO seems to miss is the fact that looks aren't everything.

For God's sakes, there are men who pay to see extremely obese women on a webcam, there are men that only like girls to be a size 6 or below.

Attractiveness and beauty is entirely subjective.

Good for you! Be proud of your stretch marks, like you said - they show that you have two beautiful children! The people that are on this thread who are being nasty and judgmental are people that quite frankly have nothing better to do so feel the need to put others down.

[brendonbackflip]

(Original post by im so academic)
Actually that shows that I know what men like from what they don't.

Because I'm sure, while you were getting rejected from all these guys, they told you exactly what they did and did not approve of?

[PurpleMonkeyDishwasher]

(Original post by afshan93)
try losing weight

was about to make the same comment, no need now.

Edit: Negged by a fat girl, bring it on you beefers scorn me with your greasy wrath.

[Loucornall]

Im So Academic - next time you want to reply to a public post I have made, please reply publically not inbox as they won't be replied to, especially when you are commenting on my weight, thanks

[brendonbackflip]

(Original post by Loucornall)
Im So Academic - next time you want to reply to a public post I have made, please reply publically not inbox as they won't be replied to, especially when you are commenting on my weight, thanks

As I'm sure you can tell, she's resorting to personal insults as she realizes she doesn't have a proper argument I hope you reported her

[jacqueline789]

Dont wear dresses above the knee. lose weight.
Common sense.

[Loucornall]

(Original post by brendonbackflip)
As I'm sure you can tell, she's resorting to personal insults as she realizes she doesn't have a proper argument I hope you reported her

I just thought it was funny when I'm not the one whinging on other posts that I can't find a man (I am single but Im happy and content enough with my life to not feel I have to rush out and find a boyfriend) yet she feels she can insult other people, to be honest I have blocked/ignored her because the rubbish she posts just irritates me

[Loucornall]

to the OP - apparantly if you are going to wear something with straps to wear them as thick as possible, thin straps on things make you look broader, unfortunatly so do strapless dresses x

[Abi24]

Proof that the empire line can be very, very flattering. I'm a size 16 and i'd enjoyed a slightly-too-carby breakfast.