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    Hey!
    I've known this friend for 4 years roughly and in that time they've only talked to me when their looking something [wants relationship advice]! This person has continuously lied to me, for example, he cheated on this girl- told me that he had informed the girl of his wrong doing and yet the girl wanted to get back together with him, a few weeks later he was at a party with his new lass, and, text me to tell me they were given each other dirty looks! I replied it was hardly surprising considering that you've brought the girl you were cheating on her with to the party....He said I never told the girl I was cheating on her! Why did he lie and deceive me??
    Also on facebook if I comment on his statuses he always ignores them!! but replies to other people!...and I can only see his status updates on his facebook! What's he trying to hide?! Should I move on with my life?? and find new friends??
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    (Original post by kels488)
    Hey!
    I've known this friend for 4 years roughly and in that time they've only talked to me when their looking something [wants relationship advice]! This person has continuously lied to me, for example, he cheated on this girl- told me that he had informed the girl of his wrong doing and yet the girl wanted to get back together with him, a few weeks later he was at a party with his new lass, and, text me to tell me they were given each other dirty looks! I replied it was hardly surprising considering that you've brought the girl you were cheating on her with to the party....He said I never told the girl I was cheating on her! Why did he lie and deceive me??
    Also on facebook if I comment on his statuses he always ignores them!! but replies to other people!...and I can only see his status updates on his facebook! What's he trying to hide?! Should I move on with my life?? and find new friends??
    Confront him friendly but if you think he is lying to you again the MOVE ON. You definitely dont want a friend who lies and decieves you :notcool:
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    Doesn't exactly sound like the kind of 'friend' you want in your life. Someone isn't a friend when they lie/ignore/deceive you.
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    (Original post by kels488)
    Hey!
    I've known this friend for 4 years roughly and in that time they've only talked to me when their looking something [wants relationship advice]! This person has continuously lied to me, for example, he cheated on this girl- told me that he had informed the girl of his wrong doing and yet the girl wanted to get back together with him, a few weeks later he was at a party with his new lass, and, text me to tell me they were given each other dirty looks! I replied it was hardly surprising considering that you've brought the girl you were cheating on her with to the party....He said I never told the girl I was cheating on her! Why did he lie and deceive me??
    Also on facebook if I comment on his statuses he always ignores them!! but replies to other people!...and I can only see his status updates on his facebook! What's he trying to hide?! Should I move on with my life?? and find new friends??
    Reminds me of the scum which I've had to delete from my life.
    You can give them as many chances as you want, but a leopard cannot change its spots.
    Maybe give up on him and find people who are actually nice?
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    (Original post by kat2pult)
    Doesn't exactly sound like the kind of 'friend' you want in your life. Someone isn't a friend when they lie/ignore/deceive you.
    Thanks!
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    I confronted him last christmas (probably not the best time to do it- agreed)about lying to me, he completely went off the handle-saying that it was irrelevant as it happened a year ago! [maybe so it did happen in 2010] but its been annoying me ever since! he wouldnt give a straight answer about why he lied to me!! 'I was told to f off, it was pathetic and that he couldn't be arsed anymore!' Nice huh??!
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    Charming! What good aspects are there to this friendship? Your posts don't seem to indicate any.
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    there's not any! It would just be nice if he acknowledged that he lied to me!!! He's such a user, annoying!!!!! what to do??!

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