Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?

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  1. LucyInTheSkyWithD's Avatar
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    Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    Basically what the title says...i was wondering if it happens to other people too


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  2. ninth2's Avatar
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    Yeah I think it's pretty common. Also, some condoms have a bit of lube inside them and I swear it desensitizes the penis. Feels really weird anyway (in a bad way).
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    (Original post by ninth2)
    Yeah I think it's pretty common. Also, some condoms have a bit of lube inside them and I swear it desensitizes the penis. Feels really weird anyway (in a bad way).
    This. I really find that it's extremely hard to come with one on because of the feel of it.
  4. un-jardin-sur-le-nil's Avatar
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    Yeah pretty common. Majority of guys I've been with it was the same.
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    Of course he can ... he just chooses not to
  6. LucyInTheSkyWithD's Avatar
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Of course he can ... he just chooses not to
    Meaning..?


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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    (Original post by LucyInTheSkyWithD)
    Meaning..?
    I have yet to meet a man who enjoys wearing a condom

    But I have yet to meet one who could not actually come whilst wearing one
  8. LucyInTheSkyWithD's Avatar
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have yet to meet a man who enjoys wearing a condom

    But I have yet to meet one who could not actually come whilst wearing one
    So what's the deal then.?


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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    Ive been with quite a few guys, ive found some just lose erection either when putting the condom on or usually during sex, but i cant remember if any couldnt cum with a condom on though. Its interesting how they go rock solid when you say take the condom off though..
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    It can depend on what he's used to. Condoms make a difference, but if he's used to coming during sex while wearing one, it shouldn't be a problem. If he's not, for whatever reason, then it can take a bit of practice.

    I do like Jessica's cynicism though, and he doesn't have to come this way in order to have a good time, so if this is his way of trying to get you to have sex without a condom...
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    (Original post by unprinted)
    It can depend on what he's used to. Condoms make a difference, but if he's used to coming during sex while wearing one, it shouldn't be a problem. If he's not, for whatever reason, then it can take a bit of practice.

    I do like Jessica's cynicism though, and he doesn't have to come this way in order to have a good time, so if this is his way of trying to get you to have sex without a condom...
    That's sort of what I was thinking too tbh..


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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    Curious to know whether or not it just flat-out kills the erection or whether or not he just genuinely can't. Sometimes depends on the girth, as the condom can cut off blood flow and kill it (in which case, find a brand that does XL), sometimes people just have those days where it isn't coming (hurr). Otherwise... no idea.

    Maybe try an extra thin one if the sensation is the problem?
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    maybe if he is using extra-safe condoms, but even then I'd be surprised if he couldn't cum at all... Try using featherlite, they are supposed to be a lot thinner and more pleasurable
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    My BF could never cum with one on! He said it wasnt pleasureable and often he would loose his erection when putting one on!
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    Yeah I find it really hard to cum when I've got one on, I lose it 9 times out of 10 too...

    Shame that I'm gay and really have to have one on...

    The guys that I've been with don't like them and it takes them a while to cum.
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have yet to meet a man who enjoys wearing a condom

    But I have yet to meet one who could not actually come whilst wearing one
    Who you've met has no relevance :confused:
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    condoms are **** I just don't bother with them
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    (Original post by hot hot hot)
    condoms are **** I just don't bother with them
    Clever, lets all get pregnant and get sti's. Lets f*** condoms!!!!

    </sarcasm>
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    (Original post by Robertall)
    Clever, lets all get pregnant and get sti's. Lets f*** condoms!!!!

    </sarcasm>
    i'm on the pill, you can't get pregnant on the pill haha d***head
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    Re: Bf can't come with condom on-is that common?
    (Original post by hot hot hot)
    i'm on the pill, you can't get pregnant on the pill haha d***head
    Yes, you can.
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