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    (Original post by *Thedreaming*)
    doing better than me...it has always been zero for me.
    Are you going into college? Uni? Because if you are, then consider it a brand new start - go that one step further in meeting new people and find out your similarities e.g. reading, swimming. It'll be a lot of fun, as long as you don't overthink it, because it should just come naturally .
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    (Original post by Spaz Man)
    Just go and talk to people.
    tried that...people usually brush me off as other...or the people who i like do not like me...or they are not interested in expanding their circle of friends.

    how the fack are people acting like they're 40 at 20...don't people change.
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    (Original post by aisha~~)
    get rid of the imaginary ones first.
    hahaha

    so funny i forgot to laugh

    is that sarcasm i detect
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    Oh I wish I knew :no:

    I shall be watching this thread....:ninja:
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    (Original post by thatguyhere)
    you beat me to it
    Ha, sorry thatthereguy.
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    (Original post by *Thedreaming*)
    tried that...people usually brush me off as other...or the people who i like do not like me...or they are not interested in expanding their circle of friends.

    how the fack are people acting like they're 40 at 20...don't people change.
    It helps if people have noticed you before by for example, getting noticed in school for talking a lot in class or whatever.
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    one must love themselves before anyone else can love them
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    (Original post by willbee)
    Log off. Close down your computer. Get some sleep. Get up tomorrow morning and meet actual people. :confused:

    Or if you want a friend that won't let you down and disappoint you, it's just trial and error unfortunately...
    Tried it with uni

    went disastrously.
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    (Original post by willbee)
    Log off. Close down your computer. Get some sleep. Get up tomorrow morning and meet actual people. :confused:

    Or if you want a friend that won't let you down and disappoint you, it's just trial and error unfortunately...
    alll of mine have been facking errors though
    gets incredibly fustrating.

    all the people i know of have a few special people.
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    (Original post by *Thedreaming*)
    i don't need a best friend..all i need is a reliable person that i actually click with and don't forget me after i leave the institution where we went.
    I can't help you with that I'm afraid, I've lost all my friends when I left school :getmecoat: #foreveralone but I do think one of the reasons for this is because I went to a crappy school and there isn't much I can get out from knowing these people, when I arrive at uni I plan to make new friends! :wizard:
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    (Original post by *Thedreaming*)
    i don't need a best friend..all i need is a reliable person that i actually click with and don't forget me after i leave the institution where we went.
    i like my knees.
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    (Original post by casshern1456)
    i can't help you with that i'm afraid, i've lost all my friends when i left school :getmecoat: #foreveralone but i do think one of the reasons for this is because i went to a crappy school and there isn't much i can get out from knowing these people, when i arrive at uni i plan to make new friends! :wizard:

    uni life = major fail
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    (Original post by kaylafrances)
    one must love themselves before anyone else can love them
    i do love myself...its the other population thats the problem!
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    (Original post by Spaz Man)
    It helps if people have noticed you before by for example, getting noticed in school for talking a lot in class or whatever.
    i was noticed in school/college for all the bad reasons...that why i think people avoid me.
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    By not thinking about it... also self-confidence isn't a bad shout.
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    (Original post by *Thedreaming*)
    uni life = major fail
    you've been through it yourself?
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    (Original post by Arekkusu)
    By not thinking about it... also self-confidence isn't a bad shout.
    didn't i say other people are the problem
    i can't force people to like me...thats the problem.
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    (Original post by Casshern1456)
    you've been through it yourself?
    yup...dropping out

    im sure you'l have a good time though.
    i shouldn;t have gone to this uni.
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    (Original post by CoolRunner)
    1/10 bad troll :troll:
    i'm not a troll.

    see the join date.

    this is a genuine very frustrating depressing problem.
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    (Original post by *Thedreaming*)
    hahaha

    so funny i forgot to laugh

    is that sarcasm i detect
    I'm serious.

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