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    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
    The boxing idea is good but you can't just walk into school one day and punch someone, aside from the fact you're attacking them (albeit for a reason but still) they will just claim she did it for no reason, OP will have no evidence and she will look like the bully. May even get excluded from school.

    Do the boxing, keep yourself to yourself, if they hit you again, then hit them back.
    Schools don't tend to expel students as it costs the school a lot of money to do this, so the worst you are looking at is suspension.

    If you want the bullying to stop that is the only way I think, as if you organise a fight with them they will bring weapons/backup, they are those types of people. So you will be in a dangerous situation.
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    You don't have to seek revenge as afterall two wrongs don't make a right...and karma will get them back anyway all in good time...

    But if you really want to get revenge....then if i were you i might be tempted to put a load of laxatives in like their drinks or something and just sit back and wait!
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    (Original post by WorriedAboutSchool)
    Schools don't tend to expel students as it costs the school a lot of money to do this, so the worst you are looking at is suspension.
    You're talking to someone who was permanently excluded in year 9 for swearing at a teacher (later "changed" to racism :rolleyes: ).

    The worst she is looking at is permanent exclusion if my school was anything to go by. They are useless. There is no point in the OP getting herself in trouble over this because the other girls will turn it around on her.
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    (Original post by Politricks)
    That girl still hasn't given your belongings back? That is theft, and that is illegal, you should take this to the headteacher or the police.

    They hit you? Then that is assault, and that should definitely be taken to the police, the police don't take assault lightly, and they can be arrested.

    This is better than revenge, this is justice.
    Kids don't have rights, especially in school. Sure, theoretically they do, but practically it's up to the teachers who really just go there to teach.
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    (Original post by Politricks)
    That girl still hasn't given your belongings back? That is theft, and that is illegal, you should take this to the headteacher or the police.

    They hit you? Then that is assault, and that should definitely be taken to the police, the police don't take assault lightly, and they can be arrested.

    This is better than revenge, this is justice.
    You forgot to give an assessment about a tiny little thing called the burden of proof. Just from her post, it appears there is absolutely no evidence to even substantiate a civil claim, let alone a criminal one. The girl could easily also bring up simple defences. "This isn't her generic mirror, it's mine", "I didn't hit her, but even if I did, it was (wo)manly horseplay". The last thing the OP wants to do is aggravate her problems by having police involved, just to say they can't do anything.

    My suggestion would be to find a course/therapy thing to help the OP become more assertive, as I think that may be why they take advantage of her. So when they call her a "lesbian", she can reply that they are homophobic. When they say she watches porn, she can reply with "well your mum reads fifty shades of grey". They take something, take it back. They bitch about her, she stands up to them and ask why they think of her like that. Revenge is a dish best served cold. Don't go flying into a war zone hot headed, cause they can just knock you down easily. The best thing to do is to make them alienated from the group, just by being wittier, smarter, and more assertive.
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    I'm not going to be a typical TSRian and say revenge won't solve anything and it'll make you as bad as them blah blah blah.

    You want revenge? Well you'll need a plan of action, and the best I find is to sit down grab some pen and paper and list out all the strengths and weaknesses of the girls bullying you. This shouldn't be too hard considering you've been schooling with them for quite some time. Take note of their allergies, phobias and acts they're notorious for (possibly for framing them). Although allergies is going a bit far, unless you don't mind putting them in hospital. This way you'll know for sure that what you're gonna do will cause them pain (physically, mentally and psychologically).
    But ultimately, only you can think of the plan since you know them better than I do.

    Good luck.
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    (Original post by Ice Constricter)
    I'm not going to be a typical TSRian and say revenge won't solve anything and it'll make you as bad as them blah blah blah.

    You want revenge? Well you'll need a plan of action, and the best I find is to sit down grab some pen and paper and list out all the strengths and weaknesses of the girls bullying you. This shouldn't be too hard considering you've been schooling with them for quite some time. Take note of their allergies, phobias and acts they're notorious for (possibly for framing them). Although allergies is going a bit far, unless you don't mind putting them in hospital. This way you'll know for sure that what you're gonna do will cause them pain (physically, mentally and psychologically).
    But ultimately, only you can think of the plan since you know them better than I do.

    Good luck.
    I wouldn't want to get on the wrong side of you :eek:
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    Umm... tell the teacher OP. I mean, just go chat to one you trust. Just say there are some girls and they're really making my life miserable...

    I mean, you're suffering in silence here, and this isn't a movie, there is no foolproof way at handing out revenge
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    If you're in Y11, can you go to a different 6th form next year?

    ETA: Really sorry to read all of that, it sounds horrible what's happening to you. However you manage to deal with it, I wish you the best of luck
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    slice them.
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    If you retaliate to their actions, i.e. a roundhouse to the face or a punch to the face, they will most likely stop. With bullies, if you react, they will stop cos all bullies lack testicles.

    You won't get in trouble because you can say you were provoked. **** da police.

    YOU GO GLEN COCO (Sorry, couldn't resist :teehee:)
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    I'd just go psycho on their arses and beat them up.

    If you get expelled, at least you'll be away from them. Say it was self defence, which is technically true anyway.
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    I read the title and immediately thought

    "Push" them in front of a School bus?
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    Put their pictures up on a porn/prostitution etc. site depending on how far you want to go. Ideally just lay into one of them and do some physical damage- it'll serve as a deterrent and they'll be less willing to bother you again.
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    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
    I wouldn't want to get on the wrong side of you :eek:
    Yes I'm:

    :mad::mad2:::evil::devil::devil3::eviltongue::mob::fuhrer::stomp::mwuaha:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    We are all 15 and we go to a girls school. We all changed forms last year so I was separated from my best friends and I'm now with these girls for some lessons, for a few years . The bullying started in December but died down abit toward the end of the year.

    I have a group of friends in my new form but they are also friends with these ''mean girls''. The girls are the popular ones that upload 100's of pictures on fb everyday, think they are better than anyone, only care about fit boys and makeup. They are quite smart though (we go to a grammar school) so it's not like Karma will make them unsuccessful in life so I guess revenge is the best option?

    Here is all what they've done to me in short (4 girls):
    -Made me cry in a lesson and laughed
    -Tell me to shut up continuously
    -Glare at me
    -B*tch about me to other friends (someone told me they always use to talk about how ''annoying'' I was when I didn't even do anything)
    -Talk crap about me loudly when I'm near them
    -Call me names such as ''weird, lesbian (I'm straight)''
    -I would turn around and they would shout ''STOP LOOKING AT US!''
    -If I'm upset it's ''just a joke jheez''
    -Rumours spread amongst the class and even to best friends ''that i'm homophobic'' that ''I watch porn''
    -Threatening to punch me in the face
    -Acting like they like me before a test then copying me
    -Sticking stuff with PVA glue on jumper and saying I did it for attention
    -Taking belongings as a ''joke'' one girl still hasn't given me back my mirror and uses it at school occasionally
    -Hitting me


    On the last week of school they started teasing me etc, then one of the girls was laughing about how everyone said she use to bully me which she did and then one girl said ''sorry if you ever though i was bullying you''. I don't forgive her obviously.

    I WANT REVENGE and need ideas.... don't tell me it's best to ignore because that's stupid and does not work. I need good revenge where they will know it was not me. I was thinking fish oil in locker ? I want the first week back to be hell for them.

    Oh and don't say anything about teachers because I hate the teachers at my school and if you get bullied they don't do anything.


    stand up for your self. be tough and don't take ****. Don't respond to small things like they glared at you etc.
    If they verbally bully you hit them in the face
    If they physically bully you hit them in the face.
    They will soon stop.

    WARNING THOUGH: This may get you into trouble as well.
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    -Befriend them so you can tell one of your less popular friends about all the mean and dumb things they say.
    -Get some weight gain bars from your mom and give them to the girls, under the pretence they will aid weight loss.
    -Empty a bottle of moisturiser and fill it with foot cream; give to the girls and tell them it will help with their dry skin.
    -Pretend to be bad at maths so you can ask one of their boyfriends to tutor you. Then kiss said boyfriend.
    -Tell boyfriend mentioned above that his girlfriend is cheating on him.
    -Turn the girls against each other by finding out their secrets, and if possible, send a candy cane to yourself and pretend it's from the Queen Bee so the other girls get jealous.
    -Get into a fight with the Queen Bee, ensure she walks backwards into the road whilst you're arguing, causing her to get hit by a bus.

    If you carry out everything I've listed above, there's a 99.99999% chance you will be Prom Queen.

    Good luck!
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    ..find other friends....move after GCSE's and do sixth form ina mixed school..the girls there are still bitchy though..and boys can be quite bitchy too..so tbh there is no way of getting around it ..revenge....hmm not sure if its worth it..it won't take away all the pain they've caused you and you'd just be stooping to their level..just ignore them don't speak to them..don't look at them ...don't wave at them ..just ignore them as if they are invisible ...they'll soon start bitching and hating on each other once you're out of the picture and will realise what a good friend they have lost..alternatively play their game ..what ever they say to you say it back to them..whatever they do to you ..do to them (not sure how long you can keep that up though)

    ...or just make one of them get hit by a bus...that's what happened to REgina Gorge in Mean girls ...
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    (Original post by SirRamAlot)
    Beat the **** out of them. If you're not capable with your physical strength and technique, then use a weapon.
    Are you serious. Because of such stupid answers things like running amok get reality.

    That´s crap. People shouldn´t give such bad advise. Grow up ...

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