Is my dad being inappropriate?
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Re: Is my dad being inappropriate?
Okay. Seriously this is wrong, so please do the following :
1. Tell your Mum.
2. If your Mum thinks what he is doing is normal, then you should go to the Police.
3. Stop seeing him, and if anyone asks why then tell them everything you have told us.
Good luck.Last edited by Educate95; 28-07-2012 at 20:44. -
Re: Is my dad being inappropriate?
Hmm what hasn't been raised is whether or not you have (a) sister/s. If you do, have a word and see if the experiences are similar. However, as you didn't mention any sisters, I'm assuming not...
You could tell him 'please stop, you're making me uncomfortable,' but this can of course be difficult to bring up. So I think the consensus of telling your Mum is perhaps the best shout.
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Re: Is my dad being inappropriate?
oh dear...tell someone ASAP! it's not right...and as someone's mentioned above, do you have sisters? female cousins? other young female relatives? just think he could be a risk to them too, and i'd hate to think of him ruining more than one life. just how far will he go? you definitely need to tell someone as he's not being a normal dad.
i read a book once about child abuse. the poor child grew up thinking that kind of behaviour was normal. perhaps you've been thinking the same, but the fact that you've spoken out on here would suggest even you're having your doubts now (rightly so)... tell someone before it's too late.
take care. x