[Anonymous]

(Original post by Profesh)
A (possibly) more sympathetic audience.

thankyou, im not sure if its for me. i think they have real problems and im just a melodramatic mess.

(Original post by Minotauro)
LOL, completely misinterpreted the title, was going to list you all the film I have watched recently that have made me cry
Feel better dude, it's summer, go for stroll through a nice park, sit down, and eat some sandwiches.
then maybe call up some old friends and go for a beer

haha eating sandwiches is all i do. i dont really have any friends to call up, but i may just have a beer now and watch some more of the games

(Original post by AspiringGenius)
hug

thankyou love x

(Original post by jamboogy)
FYI the women's basketball is pretty awesome right now .

gonna put it on now

(Original post by emilie18)



You're far from alone OP. I hope you feel better soon, we all have bad days but I hope yours is over soon.

fmylife.com >>> this is bound to cheer you up

haha thankyou i havnt been on that site for a while, might cheer me up. thankyou its sweet of you to even bother to reply.

[Ice Constricter]

Think of the most favourite thing you like doing, then go out and do it (or do them if its more than one thing).

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Lonely, noone at home to talk to and no friends. Second guessing my life and just unsure on what i want to do. Trouble with getting my deposit back and having no money. I think ill go for a walk tomorrow, im just a bit sick of myself atm.

The loneliness that you feel, I think it's more common than we realise. I'm 21 too and have these moments too, they really really suck, but I guess they're part of life. Just that feeling of being stuck and not knowing how to get out of it and get somewhere...yeah. Keep your head up OP, know that you're actually not alone, a lot more people feel this way than you think. Just gotta keep pushing on with trying to get it all to come together

[somethingbeautiful]

Things will get better - sometimes a good cry is rather cathartic - just let it all out and you might feel better for it. Then put on your favourite film and eat sweets! But that's not a good idea if your favourite film is sad - watch a nice one.

If it helps - lots of people in their 20s (and beyond) feel like you do. Most of us don't have much money and haven't got a clue what were doing with our lives. But it helps to try to live in the moment rather than worrying about the future so much - take care of yourself. You can always talk to us lot on here.

In the meantime, this might make you smile:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjGkC...eature=related

[kka25]

(Original post by SecretDuck)
What is causing you to cry?

Nothing beats a nice walk in the fresh air, try it!

(Original post by LissRules!!)
SMILE. Put some music on really loud and sing at the op of your voice. Cheers me up.

(Original post by ellieee-x)
ahh me too. im 21 as well... hope you're ok. we're all here for you if you need to talk <3

(Original post by Freier._.lance)
Duckman is right! There're many of us who are in a very similar situation to yourself. It's important you face the pain head on, and get it out of your system and let it have as much time as it needs, because without doing so, you won't be able to think straight and find a solution to each problem one by one. Laughter is perhaps the greatest stress reliever, and is great in this type of situation. Lastly, you need someone to talk to, to talk through your problems with, it will make you see more clearly what you need to do from an outside perspective.

(Original post by Freier._.lance)
Duckman is right! There're many of us who are in a very similar situation to yourself. It's important you face the pain head on, and get it out of your system and let it have as much time as it needs, because without doing so, you won't be able to think straight and find a solution to each problem one by one. Laughter is perhaps the greatest stress reliever, and is great in this type of situation. Lastly, you need someone to talk to, to talk through your problems with, it will make you see more clearly what you need to do from an outside perspective.

(Original post by Minotauro)
LOL, completely misinterpreted the title, was going to list you all the film I have watched recently that have made me cry
Feel better dude, it's summer, go for stroll through a nice park, sit down, and eat some sandwiches.
then maybe call up some old friends and go for a beer

(Original post by AspiringGenius)
hug

(Original post by emilie18)



You're far from alone OP. I hope you feel better soon, we all have bad days but I hope yours is over soon.

fmylife.com >>> this is bound to cheer you up

(Original post by Ice Constricter)
Think of the most favourite thing you like doing, then go out and do it (or do them if its more than one thing).

[CAPTAIN CAPSLOCK]

(Original post by Anonymous)
just yeah. feeling down and very low.

Ditto.

I've just had one of those weeks where everything that could have gone wrong, duly went wrong. Bit of a shocker.

[Skeppy]

beating the meat always puts a smile on my face

[Ice Constricter]

(Original post by kka25)

Are you the OP?

[AspiringGenius]

(Original post by kka25)

In the timeless and potent words of Tinkywinky and Lala-

Big hug!

[Luxray]

I would just let it all out and cry, then get some fresh air in the morning and listen to some music.

[kka25]

(Original post by Ice Constricter)
Are you the OP?

Nah; just like to give hugs to nice people

[Ice Constricter]

(Original post by kka25)
Nah; just like to give hugs to nice people

Thanks

[DanielleT192]

(Original post by jamboogy)
Do some baking! I'm planning on making these babies tomorrow. There no feeling better than eating your own baked goods with a nice cuppa.

http://www.laurenslatest.com/lemon-crinkle-cookies/

Hopefully it might take your mind off things.

Mmm, those crinkly cookies look awesome !

And OP, I think everyone has spells of loneliness but it's probably only temporary. Do something that'll keep your mind occupied, like doing something active or text a few people in hope for a quick reply. I find sitting about or trying to focus on a film/book isn't good in these situations.

[Presenttime]

I think we all have these moments. Know that you have a friend in me.

[ViceVersa]

Big hugs OP

[Alix23]

Watch this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7q1bHK8te0

[Komatic]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I don't really have anyone. Im kind of bottled up nd ina cycle of just self-harm and drinking, or working to a point i end up with exhaustion to take my mind off it.

Find God through yourself... Do not look to religion. We all have to die one day.

[WhatsHisFace]

<3 OP's awesome.

[FuzzySheep]

Hope you're feeling okay OP. The feeling will pass and everything will work out in the end.

[Above.The.Empyrean]

Do something insuperably habitual yet wearying. It always helps me. I'm vehemently cynical and it always guides me through the chasms of my own forlorn self.