[dem503]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Lonely, noone at home to talk to and no friends. Second guessing my life and just unsure on what i want to do. Trouble with getting my deposit back and having no money. I think ill go for a walk tomorrow, im just a bit sick of myself atm.

I'll guess that you have finished uni? If so it is quite a bummer of a time, but there'll always be people to talk to in your exact situation. I doubt you are the only 21 year old in Britain!

Try doing something constructive everyday; talk to someone you haven't seen in a while, try making a new friend (over the internet is easiest!) etc.

[jamboogy]

(Original post by DanielleT192)
Mmm, those crinkly cookies look awesome !

And OP, I think everyone has spells of loneliness but it's probably only temporary. Do something that'll keep your mind occupied, like doing something active or text a few people in hope for a quick reply. I find sitting about or trying to focus on a film/book isn't good in these situations.

Made them earlier - they're ridiculously delicious. Crunch on the outside, soft on the inside.

OP tell me you made them as well .

[Anonymous]

(Original post by WhatsHisFace)
<3 OP's awesome.

Thankyou, youre pretty amazing yourself x

(Original post by Komatic)
Find God through yourself... Do not look to religion. We all have to die one day.

I'm not really religous, but the fact you replied means a lot

(Original post by ViceVersa)
Big hugs OP

Thankyou x

(Original post by Presenttime)
I think we all have these moments. Know that you have a friend in me.

This is so sweet. I can't tell you how much it means. I know its weird but when you don't really have any but it means a lot to know someone does bother :hugs

(Original post by DanielleT192)
Mmm, those crinkly cookies look awesome !

And OP, I think everyone has spells of loneliness but it's probably only temporary. Do something that'll keep your mind occupied, like doing something active or text a few people in hope for a quick reply. I find sitting about or trying to focus on a film/book isn't good in these situations.

I know, im trying to keep busy, but it makes me feel quite lathargic and just low and not wanting to be active. But i've been doing bits and pieces today and its helped.

(Original post by Luxray)
I would just let it all out and cry, then get some fresh air in the morning and listen to some music.

I think i might have a cry tonight and see what happens. Hopefully i wont breakdown too much.

(Original post by Skeppy)
beating the meat always puts a smile on my face

Haha, possibly later or in the morning.

(Original post by Anonymous)
The loneliness that you feel, I think it's more common than we realise. I'm 21 too and have these moments too, they really really suck, but I guess they're part of life. Just that feeling of being stuck and not knowing how to get out of it and get somewhere...yeah. Keep your head up OP, know that you're actually not alone, a lot more people feel this way than you think. Just gotta keep pushing on with trying to get it all to come together

thankyou for your support. It means a lot. I know i'm not the only one, and its nice to know im not the only one and that i can get on and get over feeling alone.

(Original post by somethingbeautiful)
Things will get better - sometimes a good cry is rather cathartic - just let it all out and you might feel better for it. Then put on your favourite film and eat sweets! But that's not a good idea if your favourite film is sad - watch a nice one.

If it helps - lots of people in their 20s (and beyond) feel like you do. Most of us don't have much money and haven't got a clue what were doing with our lives. But it helps to try to live in the moment rather than worrying about the future so much - take care of yourself. You can always talk to us lot on here.

In the meantime, this might make you smile:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjGkC...eature=related

Haha it did, thankyou. I know, i think im someone who looks to the future too much and worry a bit too much. I just see people either making money or having a great time socially and i'm doing neither.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by FuzzySheep)
Hope you're feeling okay OP. The feeling will pass and everything will work out in the end.

I'm a bit better today, and ive kept myself busy but i still feel quite low. Hopefully it will. Thankyou for being a sweetie and replying x

(Original post by Above.The.Empyrean)
Do something insuperably habitual yet wearying. It always helps me. I'm vehemently cynical and it always guides me through the chasms of my own forlorn self.

Ill give it a go

(Original post by dem503)
I'll guess that you have finished uni? If so it is quite a bummer of a time, but there'll always be people to talk to in your exact situation. I doubt you are the only 21 year old in Britain!

Try doing something constructive everyday; talk to someone you haven't seen in a while, try making a new friend (over the internet is easiest!) etc.

Nope, just finished 2nd year. I talk to people online a lot but none of them really work out as friends or just fizzle out.

(Original post by jamboogy)
Made them earlier - they're ridiculously delicious. Crunch on the outside, soft on the inside.

OP tell me you made them as well .

Food shopping tomorrow so gonna get some ingredients then

[Komatic]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm not really religous, but the fact you replied means a lot

No problem buddy, chin up.
Also do not associate God with religion.

[bahjat93]

(Original post by Anonymous)
just yeah. feeling down and very low.

if your feeling down, you should log on to facebook and like this person called GOD! it's the one that says occupation: comedian .
Look through some of his pics, i'm sure that will cheer you up!

[onda]

Me too I try to stay strong after recovering from depression

[dem503]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Nope, just finished 2nd year. I talk to people online a lot but none of them really work out as friends or just fizzle out.

Same (age too)! PM me if you wanna chat, I have a more than an inkling of what you're going through

[Anonymous]

I am 21 too, and life for me sucks. I don't anything to do during the day. I feel like I wasted my youth.

[dem503]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I am 21 too, and life for me sucks. I don't anything to do during the day. I feel like I wasted my youth.

Your youth lasts for as long as you want it to.

[ViceVersa]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Thankyou x

No problem Here to PM if you need me

[foolscap]

(Original post by Shirts)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9bZkp7q19f0

This song video always cheers me up.

If you feel lonely, isolated, go for a walk to somewhere you have memories, you never know, might meet some gorgeous person, or at least clear your head :-)

what the frick did i just watch?

Cheer up, OP. It could be worse, you could be scouse, you could have rats in your council house.

[Bee3011]

If you feel like crying then just get it all out rather then supressing it inside and you will feel great

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Bee3011)
If you feel like crying then just get it all out rather then supressing it inside and you will feel great

I wish i could it just doesnt come out.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I am 21 too, and life for me sucks. I don't anything to do during the day. I feel like I wasted my youth.

I feel the same really.

(Original post by onda)
Me too I try to stay strong after recovering from depression

Well done on getting better, hope its all okay with you and you keep going strong.

(Original post by dem503)
Same (age too)! PM me if you wanna chat, I have a more than an inkling of what you're going through

I might just take you up on that sometime soon if thats ok.

[dem503]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I might just take you up on that sometime soon if thats ok.

go for it

[Bee3011]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I wish i could it just doesnt come out.

Awww well talking to someone about why you feel that way may help you out a bit... if you want you can PM me... but yeah try to get it out..