Girls - Why you shouldn't use scales

No comparison needed, it is easy to objectively judge if someone is lean or not. The girl on the left is very slim (size 6-8) but not lean.

One can lose weight on a calorie deficit without too much attention to quality of food and exercise but without a good diet and exercise, one cannot be lean (generally speaking). This is why I say weight loss does not always lead to a lean body. If someone has already gotten to the point where they weigh 50kg and still have a 'fat' appearance, then it is clear they have a higher fat percentage, an imbalance which can only be redressed with gaining muscle not further weight loss.

No comparison needed, it is easy to objectively judge if someone is lean or not. The girl on the left is very slim (size 6-8) but not lean.

One can lose weight on a calorie deficit without too much attention to quality of food and exercise but without a good diet and exercise, one cannot be lean (generally speaking). This is why I say weight loss does not always lead to a lean body. If someone has already gotten to the point where they weigh 50kg and still have a 'fat' appearance, then it is clear they have a higher fat percentage, an imbalance which can only be redressed with gaining muscle not further weight loss.

You over-estimate the standards of the majority of men, especially those who don't work out.

The point is most girls just aim to be a certain weight and do this by calorie counting or cutting calories. Yes this will get you to your desired weight, but it won't get you to your desired look. To get your desired look you need to exercise and probably do weights.

Lads are different, they don't really have weight goals. their goals are normally to get a 6 pack(so be lean) and then have muscles...this means they eat well to get lean and workout well to get muscles, so they look good.

But saying that the bar is set so high for lads it is much more hard work and the bar is so low for women because pretty much all women fail with diet and exercise.

I mean something like this, would be seen as a massive achievement for a female.


The male equivalent for time and effort would be laughed at and be called small, weak and pathetic. (srs)...That's not even taking into account that a lot of blokes also take steroids, making what is seen as a good physique even more tough for lads that are natural.

Females have it so easy when it comes to getting a good looking body, apart from your not in control of your tits, but if I had crap ones I would just have a tit job.

This is probably why there is so many comments from men on here along the lines of "anything over size 10 is to fat" ect. She deficiently isn't a size 6. probably a 10. maybe 8 but probably not


agree with the rest of your post.

Overestimate?

Most men are weak and un-coordinated.

But I know plenty of guys that would 'settle' for girl on left and even find it an ideal size

I think you have high standards because you work out yourself.

...Well isnt someone overcompensating? And that just isn't true, because men have faster metabolisms than women do. I'd say its equally hard for both men and women. besides, not all women go for the terminator look. But I can assure you very few would go for someone with an attitude like yours.

more valid comparison, same person.
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Is it wrong to want a woman who isn't the kind that crash diets, follows celebrity idiocy, does not have a clue about nutrition and thinks lifting a barbell is actually more benficial in the long run than a ****ing treadmill?

Apparently it is but I'm not the kind to settle. Lots of women my age who are after a guy so I am not exactly hard picked on women.

I just want a woman that wont make me want to dump her later on in life because the sex goes stale and I dont feel attracted towards her.

more valid comparison, same person.
(couldn't be arsed to read the whole thread)

Such a Stupid comparison ,i hate these kind of threads !
Seriously each to their own ,if you are happy with your body then good for you .If you don't like what you see in the mirror do something about it .No need to rub your weight and your daily exercise routine in everybody's face .It doesn't matter about your size height or how you look ! the only thing that really matters is how you feel about yourself ??

There are far more important things in life than to look at random images from Google and make conclusions.

Actually your weight should be proportional to your weight.

Loads of pointless stuff in here....You make no valid points. As a guess I would say you're a 15 year old girl with an IQ of around 90.

To be honest nobody is every happy. By virtue of being human we are at best temporarily content with how we look.

She just looks like she's sucking her stomach in tbh....