If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?

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  • View Poll Results: Boy or Girl?
    Boy
    184 60.33%
    Girl
    121 39.67%

  1. sucess's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    (Original post by lilyobz)
    Boy, he can carry on my bloodline.
    what if turns out gay loool
    Last edited by sucess; 29-07-2012 at 02:47.
  2. Spaz Man's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    I have three brothers and have always wanted a sister so yeah a daughter would be awesome.
  3. sotrulybeautiful's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    (Original post by sucess)
    what if turns out gay loool
    that would be an interesting turn of fate. It's kind of funny because many gay kids come from strict conservative homes that prob think like that. Sometimes i wonder if it's nature poking fun at parents and their prejudices.

    I wonder what the poll would be if it was a gay son vs daughter. I wonder how many straight guys and girls here would change their tune.
  4. Astronomical's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    A boy to continue my family line.
  5. PinkMobilePhone's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    erm..........

    I really don't know.

    I have 1 girl and 2 boys, and they're all as difficult and challenging as each other. Equally they are all as affectionate and sweet as each other.
  6. M4LLY's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    (Original post by sotrulybeautiful)
    what if he turns out to be gay or if he is straight but has different hobbies and preferences/interests to you?
    Perhaps i didn't phrase it quite right, i think if its a boy i'll have a better idea with how to communicate and get through to him, regardless of what his interests or sexual orientation is
  7. poiuy's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    (Original post by Minotauro)
    Boy
    The wet bed conversation is a lot easier than the bloody mattress conversation
    whats the mattress conversation??
  8. Historophilia's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    Well I would like a girl (because face it we all want a mini me).

    And I would raise her up to be awesome and to do what she wanted to do, not what people say little girls should do.

    And I would make her read lots and think lots and how to take care of herself and I would send her to martial arts lessons so no-one would mess with her and everyone would think that she was the shiz.

    However I'd ultimately like one of both. And I always wanted a twin brother so boy/girl twins would be nice.
  9. jamboogy's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    I'd just get a corgi.
  10. Miss Trololol's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    A boy. I don't think I could deal with the drama that came with a girl XD Plus there are hardly any boys in my family's bloodline, especially on my mums side.
    Last edited by Miss Trololol; 29-07-2012 at 11:35.
  11. ANewStudent's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    Girl because we have alot in common
  12. shmuxel's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    (Original post by skotch)
    The difference is, children in those cultures are required to do manual labour from a young age in order to help the family make a living, so guys are preferred. Here, we don't need children for that.
    That isn't actually the reason for preference of boys. It's because in those cultures, it is at the boy's house that the parents live when they become old. Essentially, if they have a girl, she is expected to go the husband's family and live there, leaving the parents with no safety net in old age. Whereas if they have a boy, the parents can stay with him, and remain in the family
  13. Pitt1988's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    Boy. Easier to relate to, probably cost less, no female hormonal nonsense and would probably feel less worried when they get to the going out in town age.
  14. McHumpy92's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    Boy, at least he will become a logical creature eventually and have the ability to achieve great stuff.
  15. hiding12's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    (Original post by Vazzyb)
    And why?

    Vb
    boy, just cos i would have more in common and lets face ie...men are better, lol. Just kidding
  16. Petro_99's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    a little girl

    i`d soo want to put her in dresses and all pink and frilly!!
  17. TRS-T's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    A boy to pass on the support of my football team.

    Imagine if your son-in-law supports your team's arch rivals and raised your grandson to support them as well :eek:
    Last edited by TRS-T; 29-07-2012 at 13:21.
  18. The Puppet Master's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    I put boy but only just. Only because I know how hormonal teenage girls can get... :mmm:
  19. Dee Leigh's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    Girl
  20. Bellissima's Avatar
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    Re: If you could only have one child, would you prefer to have a boy or a girl?
    oooh not sure, i would be happy with either! i honestly wouldn't mind. don't have a preference. i think ultimately i'd say boy.
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